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Mary Dinka Babich O'Brien

1938 - 2019

Mary Dinka Babich O'Brien obituary, 1938-2019, Van Horne, IA

BORN

1938

DIED

2019

Mary O'Brien Obituary

MARY DINKA BABICH O'BRIEN Van Horne Mary Dinka Babich O'Brien, 80, passed away peacefully in her Van Horne home on Thursday, Oct. 10, after a courageous 17-year battle with Parkinson's disease. A memorial ceremony will be held on Sunday, Oct. 20, at Tara Hills Country Club, west of Van Horne. The family will greet friends beginning at 2 p.m. with a Celebration of Life Service at 3:30 p.m. and a reception to follow the service. Mary was born Nov. 8, 1938, in Globe, Ariz., to parents John and Marguerite Babich. Mary graduated from Globe High School in Arizona in 1956. She received her Bachelor of Arts degree in education from Arizona State University, where she met the love of her life, Daniel "Danny" Osborne O'Brien. On Aug. 17, 1963, the two were united in marriage at Holy Angels Catholic Church in Globe, Ariz. Danny and Mary were married for 38 years until he passed away on Oct. 27, 2001. Mary was an elementary and high school teacher of many subjects in Arizona, California and Iowa. After teaching, she was employed by the United States Postal Service of Chelsea, Iowa, a town she cherished. She was an active member of the community volunteering her creativity for organizations. She was very talented in calligraphy, crocheting and baking. Her infamous homemade cards were received and cherished by many. Mary enjoyed entertaining and decorating for every holiday; her house was full of love and laughter on numerous occasions and dessert always was available. Mary's signature holiday was Halloween; she loved her spooky costumes and scary antics. Any child who braved the O'Brien household at Halloween was rewarded with a full-size Snickers. Mary was an avid Arizona State Sun Devils fan and also enjoyed gambling; her last slot pull rendered a $100 winning. She is survived by her children, Eva Bartelt (Aaron Van Scoyoc), John (April Melsa) and Rod O'Brien; grandchildren, Marlee (Matt) Graeser, Victoria and Vance Bartelt and Javen O'Brien; great-grandchildren, James Graeser and twins Jaxton Daniel and Hattyn Dinka Graeser; her sisters-in-law, Dolores Johnson and Therese O'Brien; numerous Babich and O'Brien nieces and nephews from Arizona and Iowa; special friend, Glen Gillaspy; former son-in-law, Brad Bartelt; her beloved treat-eating Shih Tzu, Charger; and all her loving friends.

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Published by The Gazette on Oct. 13, 2019.

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Robert Hayton

July 28, 2020

Mrs O'Brien, affectionately known to my family as MO'B, was my 7th grade English teacher in Temple City (Los Angeles). She loved, and was loved by, her students. Definitely one of the Top 10 of my school career.

October 23, 2019

Mary was the sister that I never had. Our parents were all good friends (like family) from childhood in Globe and also immigrants together. We have many beautiful memories for me to keep. Especially two Christmases every year. Mary, you will always be with me in my heart.

Chita

Carol Kozlik

October 20, 2019

Eva, John, and Rod - My sympathy for the loss of your mom. She really was a beautiful person, inside and out. I so enjoyed her as my teacher in junior high and looked forward to seeing her (and Danny) for years after that. Her smile could light up a room.

October 14, 2019

So sorry for your loss, I worked with Mary at the Post office for 10 years she was a very nice lady, hard working and always dressed very nice, so sorry she suffered with Parkinson's I watched my mom suffer thru that, so may she rest in peace. Tammy Schafbuch

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