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Raymond Holzhauer Obituary

Lcpl. Raymond James Holzhauer, 19, of Dwight died Thursday, March 15, 2007 in Iraq.

He was stationed at Camp Legune, NC. He volunteered to go to Iraq and was deployed on January 20, 2007 to Camp Taqaddum in Iraq for Operation Iraqi Freedom. This was his first tour of duty in Iraq. He worked in the armory in small arms repair.

A Mass for Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Patrick's Catholic Church in Dwight on Monday, March 26, 2007 at 11:00 a.m. with Father James Rickey officiating. Interment with full military honors will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Dwight, IL.

Visitation for Raymond will be held on Sunday, March 25, 2007 from 3 until 8 p.m. in St. Patrick's Catholic Church, 126 W. Mazon Ave., Dwight, IL.

A memorial fund in Raymond's name has been established at the First National Bank of Dwight, 122 W. Main St., Dwight, IL 60420 and at the request of the family; contributions in lieu of flowers may be mailed to the bank.

Raymond was born on May 15, 1987 in Pontiac, IL a son of Raymond V. Holzhauer and Lori J. Fraher. He was educated in Dwight Schools and graduated from Dwight Township High School in 2005. After graduation he enlisted in the United States Marine Corps.

Surviving are his father of Streator, IL and his mother of Dwight, IL; his sister, Kirstin Holzhauer, Dwight, IL; his grandparents, Jim and Ruth Fraher, Ray and Shirley Holzhauer, Carol and Gary Quigley, all of Dwight, IL; many aunts, uncles, cousins and many special friends.

He was a member of St. Patrick's Catholic Church at Dwight, the Dwight American Legion Post #486 and the Dwight VFW Post #2608.

Raymond loved hunting, fishing and spending time with his family and friends.

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Published by Herald-News from Mar. 23 to Mar. 24, 2007.

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Sergeant Frederick J Schipper (USMC)

June 11, 2015

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It's been a long time. I didn't know much about him, other than the fact that we graduated the same year, and that he was from Dwight, Illinois. He was 19 and I was 20 at the time. We were both Lance Corporals in Iraq at the same time, at the same place: Camp Taqqadum, Iraq in Al Anbar Province in 2007*. I spent a lot of time at the armory, in fact, if I had spare time at all that's usually where I was. I normally went there to hang out with a few other Marines with whom I was friends with that also worked in the armory at the time, however, he and I were just acquaintances talking in passing or on some occasions seeing each other at the Iraqi Tea Shop that we had on base. Occasionally chatting about how hot it was or our general interests in what we planned on doing after the Marine Corps. Still, he had an impact. Always seemed to know what was going on in his workspace and knew how to take charge of certain situations. It wasn't until the evening on March 15 2007* when I met with one of the other armorers that I heard about his passing. I was completely dumbstruck. I will never forget him.

Sergeant Frederick J. Schipper (USMC)

April 17, 2015

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It's been a long time. I didn't know much about him, other than the fact that we graduated the same year, and that he was from Dwight, Illinois. He was 19 and I was 20 at the time. We were both Lance Corporals in Iraq at the same time, at the same place: Camp Taqqadum, Iraq in Al Anbar Province in 2005. I spent a lot of time at the armory, in fact, if I had spare time at all that's usually where I was. I normally went there to hang out with a few other Marines with whom I was friends with that also worked in the armory at the time, however, he and I were just acquaintances talking in passing or on some occasions seeing each other at the Iraqi Tea Shop that we had on base. Occasionally chatting about how hot it was or our general interests in what we planned on doing after the Marine Corps. Still, he had an impact. Always seemed to know what was going on in his workspace and knew how to take charge of certain situations. It wasn't until the evening on March 15 2007* when I met with one of the other armorers that I heard about his passing. I was completely dumbstruck. I will never forget him.

Peggy Childers

March 17, 2012

March 15, 2012
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Raymond J. Holzhauer:
Always remembering Raymond. "Some gave all."

Lynne Neibert

June 17, 2011

Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who strive to send handmade prayer shawls and/ or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one in service to our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church in Mechanicsburg, PA would like to honor your son’s sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a shawl which we will mail to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses and what they would like to receive. We will send them as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved one who died serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address, as our organization can no longer get family contacts through the military. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne

May 27, 2011

Memorial Day weekend 2011: With honor and deep respect from the veterans of the Livingston County War Museum/Dal Estes Education Center in Pontiac IL where Raymond is honored.

Corporal F. J. Schipper

March 26, 2011

It's been a long time. I didn't know much about him, other than the fact that we graduated the same year, and that he was from Dwight, Illinois. He was 19 and I was 20 at the time. We were both Lance Corporals in Iraq at the same time, at the same place: Camp Taqqadum, Iraq in Al Anbar Province in 2005. I spent a lot of time at the armory, in fact, if I had spare time at all that's usually where I was. I normally went there to hang out with a few other Marines with whom I was friends with that also worked in the armory at the time, however, he and I were just acquaintances talking in passing or on some occasions seeing each other at the Iraqi Tea Shop that we had on base. Occasionally chatting about how hot it was or our general interests in what we planned on doing after the Marine Corps. Still, he had an impact. Always seemed to know what was going on in his workspace and knew how to take charge of certain situations. It wasn't until the evening on March 15 2005 when I met with one of the other armorers that I heard about his passing. I was completely dumbstruck. I will never forget him.

Peggy Childers

March 15, 2011

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Raymond J. Holzhauer:
Please accept my remembrance of Raymond on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

L Neal

March 13, 2011

To the family of Lance Cpl. Raymond J. Holzhauer:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.

Aaron Jensen

November 11, 2010

Remembering and honoring Ray on this Veteran's Day. Your memory never be forgotten, thank you for your service you payed the ultimate sacrifice.

john heist

September 11, 2010

my name is john heist.i am a veteran who had the honor of carrying raymonds name with me on a 9/11 memorial ride today.i would like to send my salute to his family.thank you raymond for safely guiding my bike through the ride,you will never be forgotten!!!!

Peggy Childers

March 15, 2010

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Raymond J. Holzhauer:
Remembering Raymond on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Carrie Holzhauer

July 27, 2009

Words can't help the way you feel but they can provide comfort in knowing people care and think about you, your family and Raymond. He gave his life to fight for the U.S. and people he didn't know. For that I say THANK YOU RAYMOND. And to the family, I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are still with you. Hope your rebuilt house still has his warmth and memories. Take care.

Daniel Finn

June 21, 2009

Hello,
We have a Memorial Plaque in Memory of your beloved G.I. from the Military Order of the Purple Heart State of IL. If you could contact us we would be Honored to deliver it by USPS to the address you provide?
www.MOPH-IL.org
[email protected]
Respectfully,
Commander State of IL. MOPH Daniel T Finn

Peggy Childers

March 15, 2009

To the family of Lance Cpl. Raymond J. Holzhauer:
Raymond gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Kenna Larra

February 6, 2009

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Sincerely,
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Edgar Diaz

November 26, 2008

My name is Cpl. Diaz, I am currently on my second deployment to Iraq. I went to boot camp with Holzhauer, we were in the same platoon. He was a straight up guy throughtout our three months in San Diego, very well-liked. I heard about his death last year while i was in Iraq, and it was a hard pill to swallow. I won't forget you Ray, Semper Fi.

Pastor Frank Noyes

September 16, 2008

Dear family of Lance Cpl. Raymond J. Holzhauer,

We want to say thank you. We understand that no words can be adequate for your sorrow. We certainly do not want to intrude upon your privacy. As Americans we want you to know that we deeply appreciate the ultimate sacrifice your loved one has made for all of us. We also would like for you to be aware that with this letter comes our special concern and prayers for you. We are all safer because young men and women who love their country, and know the value of a free nation, are willing to put themselves in harms way, and lay down their lives to keep this nation free and safe for all of us.
Your sacrifice is also very great. We know that we can give little comfort; however, the knowledge that your loved one did not die in vain, but died in the service of our country, gives each of us a noble example of the value of life, and the responsibility of freedom. We hope this will bring pride and comfort to you.
We at Gethsemane Church believe that there is purpose to life. We send this letter with our deepest appreciation for the greatest of sacrifices, you and your loved one have given to this country. We know it is not enough, but please allow us to assure you that your loved one is not forgotten.


Very Sincerely

Frank G. Noyes
Frank G. Noyes (Pastor)


Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

June 22, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Holzhauer!

John Holzhauer

January 28, 2008

LCpl Raymond Holzhauer and I have never met, but we are related as brothers in arms. In honor of your memory, SEMPER FIDELIS

Very Respectfully,
Navy Chief John Holzhauer
Haditha, Al Anbar Providence, Iraq

Jen Hakey

November 7, 2007

Ray,
Just wanna say I miss you- I rememeber all the Dwight High School football games you managed to make enjoyable and the lame GSW homecomings.... how you lit up Angies face whenever you were together and how comfortable you made me feel in a place i never beonged. I love you.

August 15, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

August 11, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl Holzhauer and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Nancy Sahlberg

July 24, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Dennis (USMC - Vietnam) & Pam Robertson

July 23, 2007

We are deeply saddened at your loss of this brave young marine, a hero. May God comfort and embrace you as only He can. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
SEMPER FI Lance Cpl Raymond J. Holzhauer
In loving memory of our nephew
Lance Cpl James R. Davenport KIA 11/22/06 Anbar Province

Carl Deithloff

July 22, 2007

I know you must have been proud of your son's bravery. I am deeply saddened by every soldier lost, or wounded. Each day I live in freedom, I am reminded of all of the brave young people who have fought to preserve this idea known as "America". May GOD bless you, your family and the United States of America!

David Sidebottom

July 21, 2007

So you will know there are others truly caring for the remembrance of your loved one, I wrote a song for them.
It's called "A Soldier Died" and greatly honors the fallen.

Sincerely,
David J Sidebottom former SSGT USAF

Lee Sirotnak

July 8, 2007

Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss. Your family is in our prayers, that the Lord provide you peace and comfort. Raymond will live on in the hearts of those who knew him, and also in the hearts of those of us who did not know him, but honor him for his courage and sacrifice. Semper Fi and God Bless.

Ronn Massie

June 26, 2007

God bless the family and friends of Raymond.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Raymond for being such a brave hero.

(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)

STEVE AND DEB ALLEN

June 4, 2007

OUR FAMILY EXTENDS ITS DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOURS FOR THE LOSS OF ANOTHER HERO. MAY GOD BRING YOU PEACE FROM ALL THE LOVE AND PRAYERS YOU WILL RECIEVE FOR ALONG
TIME. WE CANNOT TAKE AWAY YOUR PAIN OR THE TEARS THAT FLOW DAILY, BUT AS A FAMILY ALSO GOING THRU THESE HARD DAYS MAY YOU KNOW OUR MARINES WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. OUR SON SGT. CHAD M. ALLEN WAS KILLED 2-28-07, AS THE DAYS HAVE PASSED WE MISS HIM MORE, BUT HAVE BEEN COMFORTED BY THE LOVE FROM A GRATEFUL COUNTRY.
MAY OUR DAYS BE BLESSED WITH MEMORIES HELD SO CLOSE TO OUR HEARTS. WE KNOW CHADS SMILE IS AROUND EVERY CORNER, AND IS KEEPING WATCH OVER US. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR GREAT SACRIFICE. WITH MUCH LOVE
THE PROUD FAMILY OF OUR HERO
SGT. CHAD M. ALLEN

Lynne and Louis Cronin

May 28, 2007

Dear Lori and family,
Today especially we remember Ray and the sacrifice he made. Thank God for young men and women like Ray who believe in the freedom and liberty of this great nation. We are so sorry for your loss and pray that Jesus will bless and sustain you.

ROBYN Garside

May 17, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.

A PROUD MARINE MOM

Glen

May 5, 2007

“Paid in Full”
To Honor The Service of Fallen and Injured Marines


Marines through and through, they paid the price
Six thousand miles away, we live the life
For which they paid with their blood, spirits and bodies
We will never forget what they paid in full

We hope and we pray that somehow their loved ones find comfort
In God, in the flag, in the memory of their loved ones’ bravery
They’re gone now but we see them still…proud, strong, willing
Covering each other’s backs… courageous, moving forward

What kind of love did they have for us to be willing
To give all for the Black, White, Jew, Christian, Muslim?
We don’t comprehend but we honor you now and forever
You are Our Marines…some living…some not
Forever in our hearts we will cherish your lives

Lives too short yet immortal they’ll be
Highest brotherhood of the Few, the Proud
They stand at attention, and we gaze with awe
Some know their names not, but our admiration for them
Flows limitless within us, between us

They sacrificed their limbs or their lives
Freedom still rings, a soft sound across the miles
It tolls slowly; all of creation takes note
Of lives that were lost for people unknown

Out of sight but not lost; forever among us
The starched blues marching straight
Toward the place where we will meet them
Many years from now…how we loved them…
Well done beloved Brothers and Sisters…You’ve paid it in full
Always Faithful Marines, You Have Paid it in Full

VICKI MELIA

April 16, 2007

I am so sorry to hear about another fallen! I know there are no words that I can say to ease your pain! The loss of a child is something that is the most difficult thing to bare. We can only pray that one day we will be together again. I was told that if you stretch a piece of string a mile long and line that string with beads, the beads would resemble eternity. Life here on earth is equal to “only one bead”. We have only a short time here compared to the time we will spend in eternity with our loved ones. The only thing I can say is let faith keep you grounded in your life and hold on to your loved ones! This will help you through! This is what helps me get through my days, I too have lost. My son entered into the Heavens to be with our Lord!
God Bless Your Family!

In Loving Memory of Lcpl. Anthony C. Melia USMC~ Ramadi, Iraq
KIA 1/27/2007
"SEMPER FI"

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

April 11, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Holzhauer family in the loss of Raymond. I did not know Raymond, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Raymond you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Sandy Bonesteel

April 11, 2007

As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.

Donna Scott

April 8, 2007

My sincere sympathy to your family on the death of Raymond. I appreciate so much his service to our country. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories you have of Raymond. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kathy Christensen

April 4, 2007

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Marc and Tiffany Gamble

April 4, 2007

To the loved ones of Lance Cpl. Holzhauer:
We are deeply sorry for your lose. We would like to take this chance to thank him and all of the soldiers for their sacrifices no matter how great or small. You, regretably, are ones who have been made to make the greatest sacrifice. May God bless you and help you through this difficult time.

Arlene Pemberton

April 3, 2007

I was saddened to hear of Raymond's death but very proud of my hometown of Dwight in honoring him. My thoughts go to his family.

Kimberly Patchett-Pruett

April 3, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Sharon Kime

April 2, 2007

To the Family of Lance Cpl. Raymond J. Holzhauer:
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that your loss is also a loss to every American and that I am so proud of your Marine.

Vern and Penny Arnold

April 1, 2007

Lori,Ray and family
Our prayers and thoughts are with you in your time of sorrow.

Rob, Tammy, Owen, & Wesley Pulver

March 31, 2007

Dear Lori and Family,
Rob and I pray that our boys will someday understand the sacrifice that your son, and your whole family, have made. May we all live our lives as American patriots in an attempt at proving ourselves worthy of the loss of this special young man.

Jeremy & Lisa (Gall) Oelschlager

March 30, 2007

With deepest sympathy, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Nancy Hiera

March 30, 2007

Hello,
I am so sorry for your loss, I too lost a daughter in 98 She was 17. There is no greater loss than losing your child. Keep your memories in your heart and know that one day you will all be together again. Be strong. God Bless You

Pam Macaluso

March 29, 2007

I didn't know you or your family personally but I wanted to say Thank You and God Bless. May your family be cradled in God's Arms during this hard time.

Sally & Joe Myers

March 29, 2007

To the Family of LCPL Holzhauer:
You have experienced what no family should endure and that is the loss of a child. Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
We must never take our freedom for granted, and always remember Raymond and all of our soldiers who have made the ultimate sacrifice.
May God Bless You and the USA.

Larry & Kathy Ferguson and Family

March 28, 2007

Ray, Lori and Kristin:

You are all in our thoughts and prayers. The grief you are experiencing must be tremendous. We are here for you if you need us. I understand that Raymond was "your little boy". Keep his memories close to your heart. I know your love for him will never die.

Randall & Judy Farris

March 28, 2007

Words can't express the sadness we feel - our prays are with you & your family - just to let you know lossing a child is the hardest thing anyone can go thru but just remember one thing OUR LORD & SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST IS HOLDING OUR CHILDREN.

Jessee Garrison

March 28, 2007

Ray was an amazing friend and a great American hero. My husband was blessed to share his experiences with Holzhauer during his training for Iraq and here at Lejeune and I thank him everyday for bringing this wonderful young man into our lives. He will be missed so much. He was a great marine and the most caring person.
Our hearts are with you in this most troubling time of grief. May your memories bring you joy.
LCpl Marcus A. Garrison & Jessee B. Garrison

LouAnn Holt

March 28, 2007

My Sympathy goes out to all the friends & family in this a time of saddness. His sacrific is appreciated by all though the price seems to high for one so young to pay.

Jen Corrigan

March 28, 2007

Lori, Virgil, and Family, I am so saddened about your loss. Your son is a famous fallen hero, that will live on forever. I was proud to hold that flag in honor of our DWIGHT hero. Keep the memories close by with you forever. Take care, and I am so sorry...

Tuff and Kathy Kissiar

March 28, 2007

Lori and Family,
There are no words that I can say to ease your pain. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Our hero's job is done. It was my honor to stand and honor Ray...

Dan & Corilyn McCullough & Family

March 28, 2007

To Ray's Family,

We wish to extend our deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family. May God hold you in His arms and give you His peace which passes all understanding.

Ray came to some Wednesday gatherings with friends and stayed at our farm on UMYF-summer overnights as a junior and senior at DTHS, and we truly enjoy the fond memory of those times and wanted to share just a little with you.

At the overnights, Ray was polite and sincere and spoke fondly about his future plans and cars. He prayed, played, laughed, and walked with us all to the creek taking turns with a buddy carrying our then 3-year-old son on his shoulders. One thing that stands out in our minds during the overnights are the all night talks around the fire with smores, hotdogs, and chips. Ray showed genuine kindness and respect to everyone, those he knew well and those that he did not know as well. As he listened and spoke, he roasted hot dog after hot dog and tossed twigs into the fire cracking jokes with Garett and Johnny. It was a great blessing to be together. This memory and many others are gifts we thank-you for allowing Ray to share with his peers and with us.

We pray God will be your comfort and your strength in this time of sorrow.

God Bless,

Brittany H, Mike F, Mary B.

March 27, 2007

R.I.P Raymarine
you will always be in our hearts. and you will never be forgotten. Thank you so much for fighting for all of us. Your a true hero. God Bless all the friends and family<3

KAY NORRIS

March 27, 2007

MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TIME.

Gina Spandet

March 27, 2007

Ray was a good friend and I was very proud of him when he joined the Marines. He will be greatly missed by everyone that knew him. My thoughts and prayers goes out to his family.

Laura Miller

March 27, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this most difficult time. I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child. May god be with all of you during this time. You raised a true hero. May the memories that he brought so many brighten your days to come.

Sincerely,
Laura, Chad, Corey, Cody and Caitlyn Miller

Mike & Debi Jessen

March 27, 2007

Holzhauer Family, I'm sorry about your loss of a son and hero. My husband served in the Navy for six years and my daughter also served in the Navy and I was proud of her serving, as I know you were of him. My prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. God Bless you.

Nate DeMarse

March 27, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and friends.

We appreciate everything that our soldiers do to protect us and keep us safe.

Nate DeMarse
Fire Department City of New York

Linda Layne Family

March 27, 2007

Praying for you and all the families that have their children in other countries fighting for our freedom. Our daughter is in South Korea. May God Bless you always.

Michele Darby

March 27, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this most difficult time. I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child. May God comfort you and strengthen you. I also say thank you for the tremendous sacrifice you have suffered for all Americans. Your son is a Hero!! May your heart become filled with joyous memories - that you might be able to put away some sadness in the days to come.
God Bless You All

Michelle Adams

March 27, 2007

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

BILL, SANDY, JOE AND CODY MORAN

March 27, 2007

MY DEEPEST SYMPHATHY ON THE LOSS OF YOUR SON, I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU FOR YOUR SACRAFICE TO OUR COUNTRY. I TRULY BELIEVE WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS THAT THERE IS NO GREATER GIFT THAN TO LAY DOWN YOUR LIFE FOR A FRIEND AND THAT IS JUST WHAT YOUR SON DID, BE VERY PROUD OF HIM ALWAYS AND MAY YOUR WARM AND WONDERFUL MEMORIES OF HIM AND GOD'S GRACE BRING YOU COMFORT IN THE FUTURE. GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

Sandy Kokaly

March 27, 2007

We wish to extend our sympathy and prayers to you. I won't say I know how you feel, that is impossible. Know that the Lord is right there with you and will help you through this very tragic time. May the love and peace of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ be with you and surround you now and evermore. Sandy and Joe Kokaly

Mark and Nan Scott

March 27, 2007

Dear Family of Lance Cpl. Ray Holzhauer, I am humbled that LCpl Holzhauer risked, and ultimately sacrificed his life for my family and I. I regret the pain you must feel at his loss. I am indebted to the Heroes that keep the United States great and free. God Bless.

Eric Mendoza

March 27, 2007

To the family of LCpl Holzhauer;
My name is Staff Sergeant Eric Mendoza. I was one of the Marines who helped lay your son to rest on Monday. I just wanted to again express my deepest sympathies for the loss of Raymond. Please understand the Marine Corps feels each loss as that of a family member. For we too have not only lost a fellow Marine, but a brother. May peace be upon you.
Semper Fidelis.

kim kryzak

March 27, 2007

we are so deeply sorry for your loss. your son and whole family are in our prayers. god bless.

david and kim kryzak

Joe,Paula,Mason,Josh,and Adin Krischel

March 27, 2007

To Virgil & The Holzhauer Family-
Our prayers are with you during this tragic loss. Our town has truly lost a great HERO. I hope you feel a bit of comfort knowing that there are many people praying for you to have peace. May the Lord bless you and give you peace, like he has given to Raymond. You have a very special angel in Heaven now. God Bless You All.

Leslie

March 27, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the loved ones of Lcpl. Raymond J. Holzhauer. My heart breaks once again as I honor another fallen hero. May God guide you through your grief.

In loving memory of my nephew
Lcpl. Anthony C. Melia, 2/4
KIA 27Jan07 - Al Anbar
Semper Fi

Tim and Marion Harris

March 27, 2007

You are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. We understand too painfully the loss of a child and we can truthfully tell you that there will be sunshine in your life again. The cloud of greif will slowly dissipate. It won't ever be completely gone, but the sun will shine for you again. Hold on to that as you go through each day. If you ever want to talk to someone who lives with the loss of a child, please call us.

Randall Irvin

March 27, 2007

My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family for your loss.

Mary and Wesley Mansfield

March 26, 2007

Our deepest sympathies are with your family at this time. We will keep you and Raymond in our prayers.

Joe,Nancy,Chris,Ani,Chanc Snell

March 26, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Rose Connolly

March 26, 2007

My condolences to the family of Lance Corporal Ray Holzhauer.

Jared, Kristie, Nora and Sophie Anderson

March 26, 2007

Lori, Virgil and Family you are in our prayers and thoughts. Your Son will be remebered as a GREAT HERO and Wonderful young MAN.

Wayne & Lisa Kious Family

March 26, 2007

Lori,Virgil,Kirstin & Family
Your family & friends are in our thoughts & prayers @ this difficult time.Raymond is a true HERO & a true MARINE. May your memories help in bringing you comfort.

Mary Becker

March 26, 2007

Our thought and prayers are with you at this hard time in your life. Mary and Trent Becker and Rex Campbell

Morris Fire Department

March 26, 2007

Sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.

The Branz Family

March 26, 2007

Lori & Family -

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you an your family. Your son was a brave young man who made the ultimate sacrafice for our family to be safe. May he be never forgotten. Just remember, he is now looking down on us and will suffer no more as God will give him eternal life.

RJ & Katie Gall

March 26, 2007

To the Entire Fraher and Holzhauer families...

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this tragic time. You have our deepest sympathy.

RJ & Katie Gall Family

Cami Parks

March 26, 2007

Lori and Family-
You all have my deepest sympathy. My heart aches for your loss. Know that you are all in my thoughts and thay Ray is in my prayers.

Cheryl Zacek

March 26, 2007

Our family is sorry that you've lost your son. My husband served in the Navy for 10 years and we know the sacrifices your son made to serve his country. We are deeply grateful for the service he performed for our country. We are praying for all of you.

Mary & Dana Berry

March 26, 2007

Dear Family and friends of Lance Cpl. Raymond,
Saying we are sorry for your loss seems so small a condolence for such a huge loss, but it is sincerely meant. We hope you can feel God's support and ours and others prayers for you. We hope also, that you know we are so very proud of Raymond and very gratful to him and you for his part in keeping our country safe.

(Kathy Feltenz sister and brother-in-law)

Falynne & Dale Muzzy

March 26, 2007

I am deeply saddened by the loss of a such a great person. I hope that Lance Cpl. Holzhauer's family is blessed with the memories of their son's time here with us. As a military veteran myself, I understand the hardships of being a military family, and hope that his family succeds in remembering our fallen soldier. God bless!

Bill & Kim Klein

March 26, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief. May God watch over him and you, the family as this time of healing begins. The Klein Family. Formally of Dwight, IL.

Linda Crisler

March 26, 2007

I am so sorry to see that we have another Fallen Hero. While your loss right now may seen totally overwhelming, hopefully time will heal your broken heart and you will be able to refect back on many wonderful memories with Raymond. God Bless.

Anne and Bret Heinrich

March 25, 2007

Dear Lori, Raymond and family,

We are so very sorry for your tragic loss and want you to know that you are in our prayers.

Donna Muzzarelli

March 25, 2007

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Darrell & Marita Holm

March 25, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jennifer Mackay

March 25, 2007

Your family and friends are in my thoughts in my prayers, my husband and I are stationed at Lejeune, and he is currently serving in Iraq, I can only image the things you are going through, you will be in my thoughts and prayers

shirley Seabert

March 25, 2007

Lori and Virgil: Larry and I are so deeply saddened by your loss. May God surround you with his love in the days ahead.

Dani Austin

March 25, 2007

Your family is in my prayers!

Roger & Kathy Feltenz & Family

March 25, 2007

Lori, Ray, Kirsten & Family,
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Raymond was a wonderful man and will be deeply missed by all who knew him. We are very proud to have known him. He is Dwight's very own HERO. We will always remember his beautiful blue eyes and bright smile that would light up a room. We hope you can find comfort in the wonderful memories you have of him. We thank him so much for his sacrifice to keep us safe and free. He and you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are here for you if ever you need us. He is with God now, but will never be forgotten! May God Bless You!!

Paul Mcstoots

March 25, 2007

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Elizabeth Hudson

March 25, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss...you are in my prayers.

Sherry Leonard

March 25, 2007

Lori and faimly,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your son. He is a HERO. May you find comfort in the memories you shared. God Bless you.

Sheri

March 24, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jarred Durre

March 24, 2007

Thank you for serving our country. We are proud of you.
Jarred and Kristyn Durre & Family

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