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Ralph Allen Jones

1929 - 2020

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Ralph Allen Jones

Ralph Allen Jones, died on August 6, 2020 at the age of 91 in Ithaca, New York. He was born to Ada (Holman) and Robert Allen Jones in Ridgewood, NJ on April 22. 1929. Raised in Glen Rock, NJ and Hamilton, NY, he graduated from Phillips Exeter Academy in 1948, Colgate University MCL in 1952. His college activities included membership in Phi Beta Kappa (academic fraternity) and Beta Theta Pi (social fraternity). He also chaired the Concert and Lecture Committee, Campus Food Drive. sang in the Four Mugs barbershop quartet, and graduated as an Air Force Second Lieutenant. Following his marriage to Jane DeWalt in July 1952, he spent two years of active duty as part of the original faculty at the Air Force Pre-Flight School in San Antonio, Texas. He proceeded to Harvard Law School in 1954, graduating JD in 1957. He practiced law in the firm of Moser, Johnson and Reif in Rochester NY, where he was also President of the Board or Urban Ministry of the Rochester Area Council of Churches, and was elected to the Colgate Alumni Corporation of Directors. He became a Trust Officer of the Lincoln Rochers Trust Company in 1960. In 1963, he became Legal Counsel for Cornell University. In 1970, he became Director of Development and Legal Counsel of Colgate University. In 1978, he became Vice President for Development of Hobart and William Smith Colleges before returning to Cornell in 1983 as Director of Public Affairs at the College of Veterinary Medicine and then Director of Planned Giving at Ithaca College before retiring in 1993.

In 1994, he was elected to the Board of Education of the Ithaca City School district and was instrumental in organizing the Ithaca Public Education Initiative . He also served eight year on the GIAC Board of Directors, three years on the Board of Foundation of Tompkins Community College and six years on the Board of Cooperative Education Services. He was also actively involved in the Ithaca Rotary Clubs (was a Paul Harris Fellow), City Club of Ithaca (Board President and Music Maestro), Sons of Union Veterans of the City War, West Hill Civic Organization, and Lifelong (Board Member and President). Out of his love of boating, he became active in the Ithaca Sail and Power Squadron, serving two terms as Commander.

Ralph and his wife Jane travelled extensively in Europe and the Caribbean and spent time visiting their three daughters, Abigail Jones (Erik Bertelsen), Ellen Reeder (Kevin) and Liza Hards (Stephen) and beloved grandchildren Christain, Drew, and Jane Bertelsen; Maximo, Giovanni, Dominic and Adelina (Izold) DiDuro; Jake and Emily Reeder; Tyler and Dana Hards; and great grandchild Liam Izold. Ralph will be remembered for his generous spirit, love of baseball and all things sports, warm smile, compassionate nature, and love for his family. Ralph will be buried in Woodlawn Cemetery in Hamilton, NY and a memorial service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Parkinson's Foundation, Hospicare of Ithaca or a charity of your choice.

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Published by Ithaca Journal from Aug. 8 to Aug. 10, 2020.

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Marcia Larsen

August 1, 2024

Dear Jane,
I fondly remember Ralph at City Health Club. That was a great time for all of us. I'm glad you both were in my life giving me great memories. I hope life has been favorable for you!
Fun Marcia

Marcia

August 1, 2023

Wondering how Jane is doing and where she lives?
I think of how wonderful she and Ralph were together as a couple often.
Prayers for all of Ralph's family.
Marcia Larsen

William Hickey

August 1, 2022

Ralph was a good friend while at Exeter and I saw him a few times after graduation. I moved to Midland, TX in 1958 and saw him and his wife at reunions. I still remember his winning hit in our win over Andover in 1948. He was a wonderful guy and I wish I had seen more of him. My best wishes to all of his family.

Marcia Larsen

August 1, 2022

Ralph was such a kind and gentle man. Loved having him in my class at City Health Club for many years.
Jane- I miss you and hope you are well. I'd love to hear from you where ever you are.
Love,
Marcia

Marcia Larsen

November 16, 2020

Dear Jane,
I was recently shocked to learn of Ralph's passing this past August. I wish I had your current phone or address. I loved having both of you at City Health Club silver sneakers exercise classes for so many years. Ralph gave me good advice and fond memories. I'll remember him with gratitude that I could call him a friend. He was a wonderful man!
Fondly,
Marcia Larsen

Kris Bennett

August 28, 2020

Dear Jane and family,
Ralph was such a nice man! I loved how easy he was with his smile and how much interest he took in other people and how good he was with names and details. I respected so much how active and involved he was - school board, West Hill Civic Assoc., and of course his beloved alma mater to name a few. He really "put his money where his mouth was." Since you moved from West Hill we haven't stayed in contact but please know I think of you and Ralph often, especially when I'm strolling down Warren Pl. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Sandra Sanders

August 12, 2020

Jane and Family,
Ed and I extend our sincere condolences to you. Ralph would always light up the room with his laughter and wit. It was a pleasure to have served with him in the Ithaca Sail and Power Squadron. May you all know he will always watch over you and ask for his Scotch on the rocks to toast all of your accomplishments.

Sandy and Ed Sanders

Bill Hickey

August 11, 2020

I knew Ralph at Exeter and we were good friends when we were 15 to 18 years old. I saw him at Exeter reunions and it was then that I met Jane. Jane, I wish we had seen more of each other and I am saddened to learn of Ralph's death. I always loved getting your Christmas cards. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Bill

Don Hamill

August 10, 2020

Dear Jane and Family,

Very sad to hear this news. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Ralph was one of a kind. Extremely skilled and experienced in his work. Devoted to his family and friends. A steady hand guiding so many lives that he touched.

That smile and his kind and gentle laugh could warm a cold room in a dark Upstate NY winter.

He will be missed deeply by all who knew him.

Sincerely,

Don Hamill
Colgate Beta
Class of ‘78

Tim Chrzan

August 10, 2020

Dear Jane,

I will always remember the wonderful person Ralph was. He was a cherished teacher and mentor for me and I loved the experiences I had working with him. I send you my deepest sympathies. Sincerely, Tim Chrzan

Jessy & Auguste

August 10, 2020

Dear Jane: Jessy and I are deeply saddened by Ralph's passing. You are in our thoughts and payers in your time of mourning. We take solace in the fact that Ralph lived his life to the fullest and spread joy the the many who have crossed his path.

Martha Frommelt

August 10, 2020

Dear Jane,

Our deepest sympathy to you. Ralph made our community richer, more vibrant and did so with a can-do spirit. Throughout his life, he worked hard to support the arts, education and more. He was a man of the community, working for all.

Our thoughts and prayers,
Martha Frommelt and David Feldshuh

Danny Wheeler

August 10, 2020

As Commander of the Sydney Camp #41 of the Sons of Union Veterans we our saddened by the loss of our Brother Ralph Jones. he was a great member always working to help in anyway he could. a friend you could depend on as commander of the camp he led us in honor for our forefathers. As a great friend we attended alot of Mets baseball games which we both enjoyed Ralph would always keep score sheet and be able to follow the game. You will be missed .

Your friend always
Danny Wheeler

Adam M. Schutz

August 10, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. He was one of the smartest men I ever got to meet!

Scott L Brown

August 9, 2020

My father and I spent several years in the sons of union war with Ralph. Trips to Gettysburg and beyond . Ralph truly did always have a big smile and was always willing to give advice . You always knew if Ralph said it it was true.
His wife Jane always attended the lady's auxiliary and was equally as kind. My you rest in Peace Mr. Jones

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