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Gerald Tucker Obituary
Ithaca - Gerald G. Tucker, 79, passed away unexpectedly in his home in Ithaca, NY on Thursday, March 28, 2019. He was a beloved father, brother, uncle, and grandfather. His charm, wit, and fun-loving nature will be dearly missed by family and friends. Jerry was known for his big heart, generous spirit, humor, and devotion to his community. He was active for several years with the Ithaca Youth Bureau and the Small Fry football program, and took great joy in youth mentorship. He was also a member of the Eagle's Club and participated in Kiwanis Club of Ithaca. Jerry was very proud of his lifelong career with the Ithaca Police Department, having retired as a Sergeant in 1989. He was preceded in death by his parents, Gerald and Ethel; brother Thomas; and sister Henrietta Paetow. He is survived by his son Gerald Arthur Tucker and his wife Kristen; daughters, Terri Tucker Harrington and Melinda Tucker; his love of 16 years, Yolanda Elmo and her extended family; former wife and friend Deann Tucker; Melinda's mother, Jayne LeGro; step-son Seth Livesay, his wife Brenda, and family; grandchildren Brandon Augustine, Katie, Kyle, and Emily Redner, Chad and Rene Harrington; and nieces Cynthia Paetow and Kimberly Cozdeba. Calling hours will take place Thursday, April 4, 2019 from 4:00 to 6:00 PM at Bangs Funeral Home, 209 W Green St, Ithaca. A graveside service will be held Friday, April 5, 2019 at 11:00 AM at Pleasant Grove Cemetery, 184 Pleasant Grove Rd, Ithaca. Flowers can be sent to Bangs Funeral Home; donations can be made to Bangs Ambulance, 205 W Green St, Ithaca, for their dedicated service to the community. at Pleasant Grove Cemetery. A complete obituary will follow.
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Linda Rohrer, Barnhart , Donahue, Emery
March 23, 2024
your gone but never forgotten, you touched eveyone life.As long as we live so will you.
Jamie Morgan
July 17, 2020
He was the best coach I ever had, he always motivated us to do our best on and off the field. I will always remember him!
Elks-1982 Ithaca small Fry football
Jamie Morgan
Linda Rohrer, Barnhart, Donahue Emery
March 23, 2020
Not a day passes that I think of you, missing you everywhere in town at Jimmy's or stores, Miss you friend and your daughter from Sam's
Jerry Jr. Tucker
April 13, 2019
I miss you already bud. Be at peace, no more worries. I love you dad. Watch over us. R.I.P. I know your smiling down on all of us.
YOLANDA THOMPSON
April 5, 2019
JERRY I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS MY HEART AND PRAYERS OUT TO ALL OF YOUR FAMILY, GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU.
Paul Alexander
April 2, 2019
Heartfelt condolences to Jerry, Terri and Family from the Alexander Family. I used to love when Jerry shared stories about his time on the police force with my Dad. He kept my fathers memory alive. Only a special person, and a true friend, would do that. As my father did, I too was privileged to call Jerry a friend. RIP Jerry and say hello to Sammy and Lester for me.
Patricia (Poelvoorde) Pine
April 2, 2019
Gerry was a true friend to me and my family. Many times my family would ask for his advice and we respected his opinions very much. He was always willing to go the extra mile. But he was much more than that because his sense of humor, story telling, and wit are unforgettable--more often than not, the life of the party! I feel very lucky to have known this special man and will always have some great memories of his friendship. May he rest in peace and heaven reward him for his life well spent on earth. Sending my sympathies as well as prayers to his entire family.
kelly Herson Veit
April 2, 2019
RIP Gerry, you will truly be missed. I have many fond happy memories of you and will cherish them. My prays go out to your family.
Bill Cornell
April 2, 2019
Rambo! What fun we all had. Nobody had a bigger heart. RIP pal.
Terrie McDonald-White
April 2, 2019
Ahhh...Uncle Jerry❤ You have always held a place in my heart.
Keith Collins
April 1, 2019
Tucker was a great guy. Always willing to help anyone. Alot of fun to be around. He'll be greatly missed by all. He was a true friend. R I. P. my friend.
Cheryl Gaydosh
April 1, 2019
Be at peace, Tuck!
Doug Slade
April 1, 2019
Love ya pal. You always kept us laughing, I was proud to be your friend.
Debbie Owens
April 1, 2019
Rest in paradise Tucker ! You were one of the best . Ill never forget you . I have a lot of memories of you since I was 15 years old.from Tradewinds the eagles club and what a Great friend you were to my Husband Dave Chester ! My Heart Goes out to the family !
Debra Parsons
April 1, 2019
I tried to think how to describe Tuck last night, and the words that came to me were a good and generous man. Our sympathies go out to his family. He was a good friend, and we will miss him.
Jeannette Franzese
April 1, 2019
When I started working at the Courthouse, Jerry was the Youth Officer with IPD. I have so many fond memories of his dedication, his sense of humor, and many good times. He had a big heart, and a smile almost as big. Whenever I ran into him after he retired, he always had a big hug ready. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Armand Padula
April 1, 2019
Jerry was emotionally bonded with loyalty and care for his friends and former colleagues. Most of us never knew so many. I extend my prayers and condolences to his family, his loving partner, and to those who grieve his loss.
See you later "Tuck".
Sgt. Frank Scaglione
April 1, 2019
Gerry was a fellow officer at IPD, we actually knew each other from grade school at Fall Creek , I had been with the dept a few years ahead of Gerry and welcomed him to the department. We shared quite a few calls together most remembered were the days we were patrolmen together on the job. RIP Sarge say hello to all those who preceded us and there are many we worked with and for.
Linda And Art Emery
April 1, 2019
Jerry was a family member to all of IPD. He will be greatly missed by all that knew him. Always willing to help,, Loved meeting people. He will be missed for that great smile on his face. R.I.P. say Hi to Jimmy West
Terri Tucker Harrington
April 1, 2019
Love you dad. There is so much love coming from AlL your many friends and family. Blessed you were!
Jennifer Slade
April 1, 2019
He was one of a kind and will be dearly missed.
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