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SGM Berendsen Obituary

SGM Eugene Bruce Berendsen, US Army (Ret.) COLUMBIA SGM Eugene Bruce Berendsen, US Army (Ret.), 82, of Columbia, died Saturday, June 1, 2019. Born February 14, 1937 in Cheviot, OH, he was a son of the late Harold Godfrey and Genevieve Pauline Ernst Berendsen. SGM Berendsen joined the US Army in 1954 and served in the Infantry, Armor, Artillery, Transportation and Quartermaster branches. He completed tours in Germany, France, Vietnam and various locations across the United States, before retiring in 1980 at the rank of Sergeant Major. He continued serving the Army as a civil servant, retiring again in 1998. Eugene loved his family and pets. He was an avid outdoorsman, gardener and handyman, and was member of St. John Neumann Catholic Church. Survivors include his loving wife of 61 years, Maria Ottilie Berendsen, children, Eva Maria Berendsen, Patty Berendsen Story, Eugene Bruce Berendsen, Jr. (Sherri) and Christine Berendsen Roberts (Paul); grandchildren, Kathryn Story Thompson (Trevor), Kurt Steven Story (Samantha), Kenneth Sterling Story, Anthony Eugene Berendsen, Abigayle Marie Berendsen, Andrew Bruce Berendsen, Paul Michael Roberts, Jr., Nicholas Reid Roberts and Melanie Nicole Roberts; as well as a brother, Charles Berendsen (Shirley) In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by two brothers and two sisters. A Mass of Christian Burial for SGM Berendsen will be held 10:30 o'clock, Thursday, June 6th, at St. John Neumann Catholic Church, 100 Polo Road, Columbia. Final Commendation and Farewell Prayers will follow at Ft. Jackson National Cemetery at 1 o'clock. A rosary followed by a visitation will be held from 5 until 7 o'clock Wednesday evening, June 5th at Shives Funeral Home, Trenholm Road Chapel, 7600 Trenholm Road, Ext. Columbia. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Veterans of Foreign Wars by visiting www.vfw.org. Memories and condolences may be shared at ShivesFuneralHome.com.

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Published by The State on Jun. 4, 2019.

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Joyce McMahan

January 25, 2024

My dear Uncle Eugene... We never lived close enough so that we could ever really get to know each other very well, due to your career in the armed services, but I know you were the Apple of my mother`s eye... There was always a picture of you and aunt Maria on my mother´s dresser from your wedding day... and a picture of you, in your service outfit, in our home as well..I remember coming to visit you and aunt Maria, as a teenager, and all of her wonderful
baking and the kindness of both of you....And I remember a few of your visits to Cincinnati...and, as a little one, how tall you were... you were the only person that I knew of that had to stoop down to get into our home... I wish we would´ve had more time together on earth... But I know you are with grandma, and the rest of our family in heaven, so God bless you, and your soul, and ask him, please, to continue to God bless all of us...love you uncle Eugene... joyceee

Jeff Larkin

June 6, 2019

I served with Gene in 1970 at Ft. Lewis, Washington. A great guy who always treated me well.

June 4, 2019

Condolences to the family. May the God of comfort strengthen you during this difficult time.

Bill Grooms

June 4, 2019

It was my pleasure to have worked with Gene at Fort Jackson many years ago,

Prayers and condolences to his dear family.

B

June 4, 2019

My sincere condolences for the loss of your beloved family member. May the God of all comfort strengthen you during this time of great sorrow.

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5

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Shives Funeral Home - Trenholm Road Chapel

7600 Trenholm Road Ext., Columbia, SC 29223

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6

Mass of Christian Burial

10:30 a.m.

St. John Neumann Catholic Church

100 Polo Road, Columbia, SC

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6

Committal

1:00 p.m.

Ft. Jackson National Cemetery

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