To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Bonnie Cramer
December 6, 2024
A great light gone to soon. Remembered with love.
Marc and Phyllis Hecker
December 3, 2019
Kathy and Tom: We hope your memories of your son Patrick will bring you peace. May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him.
Marc and Phyllis Hecker
January 7, 2016
The Duff family and extended family,
I worked with Pat for a short time at Yellowbook. Helpful and kind to me as a new employee, he had a great work ethic and a deep care for the people he worked with. I saw Patrick for the last time this summer at a local church he was attending with a mutual friend. As I talked and smiled with him, we shared our mutual faith in Christ, and said we would definitely see each other again. I share that in re-assuring hope, and a burning desire to draw all of us closer to Jesus Christ. I, like you, look forward to seeing him again, upon our graduation.
Your family will continue to be in our families prayers. Together we celebrate Pat's life, and the time God gave us to enjoy his kind spirit.
God Bless all of you. David Usher
Vivien Wiesner
January 5, 2016
Dear Tom and Kathy, I only just became aware of the horrific tragedy that had occurred, with the death of Patrick. It is with profound sadness, that I write this. There are no words, that would be capable of penetrating your grief, but I Pray fervently, that the Lord will hold you in the palm of His hand, and bring you His consolation.
Bill Suttie
January 4, 2016
Kathy, Tom & Duff Family - May God Bless You Always & Forever <3 - When Our paths crossed at NDBG you brought such Grace to me & my Family - May that Grace be yours now during this most difficult time - Patrick's smile is over us all each and every day My Dear Friend - May Christ's Peace be forever with you and your beloved Family <3 The Sutties': Bill, Karen and Mary Marguerite -
1st Advantage Dental
January 4, 2016
Kathleen and family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. We are sorry for your loss. We hope that you find strength in this hard time.
Ryan Winters
December 30, 2015
I met Pat while attending plattsburgh st. We became good friends shared many laughs! lost touch after he transferred. Many angels will laugh harder Rip Duff man!
Mary Kerrigan
December 29, 2015
Kathy, Tom, Maura, Michael and the entire Duff family,
Too many words to say and not enough time. I will truly miss such a wonderful soul. You blessed my life in so many ways when just a young child. I waited often to hear from grandma about the man you had become.
Aunt Mary
Linda, Ben and Abby Griffing
December 25, 2015
Tom, Kathy, Maura and Michael- I just learned of Patrick's passing and my heart breaks for you. I have nothing but joyful memories of the whole Duff family. Pat's life was way too short but the love and happiness he brought others will remain forever. With our deepest sympathy-
James &Bobby Jo Van Alstyne
December 22, 2015
You are always special and we loved your great sense of humor!What a fun angel you are now!
Jim and Linda Sherman
December 15, 2015
So very sorry for your loss.
Laura and Jake Stark
December 14, 2015
My deepest condolences to the Duff family and all of Pat's friends. Though I had only met Pat a few times over the course of his friendship with my brother, Greg, one thing was abundantly clear, he had a way of connecting with everyone who crossed his path. Pat was the first one to light up the room and put a smile on your face, he was a kind, fun-loving comedian. May all the lives that Pat touched in his short time on this earth help you find comfort during this difficult time.
December 14, 2015
HEAVEN SHOULD HAVE WAITED
Richard and Helen Comstock
December 13, 2015
We're so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
December 13, 2015
Nancy R. Bellamy Pres. and all the members of the Church Women United in the Schenectady Unit wanted to express our deepest sympathy on your loss. Let us now if we can help You will be in our prayers.
Theresa Lemmerman
December 11, 2015
What a blessing it was to have gone to high school with Pat. His enthusiasm for life and sense of humor always brightened the room when he was around. I am so sorry to hear that his life ended like it did. To Duff's family and loved ones- you are in my prayers.
Barb and Tim Porter
December 11, 2015
We don't have the words, but, you have our prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Andrew Hausler
December 11, 2015
dear duff family,
I am sorry for the loss of your son Patrick Duff. He was a great kid and special to the community. He was a friendly and nice kid and I will miss him so much and he was a great friend to me in the Niskayuna Schools. I will miss him a lot
Colette Odell
December 11, 2015
Dear Duff/Kerrigan Family,
I am so sorry to learn of the unexpected and sudden death of Patrick. My thoughts and prayers are/and have been with you all, each by name. I have also asked the Daughters of the King, at St. George's, and several of my friends and relatives to pray for you. I know from mutual friends that you are supported by hundreds of prayers and will remain in the intentions of many.
Kathleen, when we first met, our children were young, and I always enjoyed sharing about my boys and your young ones. I know Patrick had a loving home and a happy childhood. May your beautiful memories of Patrick sustain and comfort you.
God bless you all.
In the sure and certain hope and with my love,
~Colette
Teri Carroll
December 11, 2015
We are so sorry for your the loss of your son. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Carroll Family
December 11, 2015
Dear Duff Family
Patrick will be missed by everyone he came in contact with. He was a gentle soul with a big heart and a kind word for everyone
Annette Schenectady NY
Mary Radley
December 11, 2015
Patrick was a special man and like a son to me. His laugh was infectious and he had a big heart. It is a tragic loss to this world but i am grateful for the wonderful memories of our times together. I must dry my tears and celebrate the life of Patrick! You will live on in our hearts forever!
December 10, 2015
There are no words to tell you how very sad we are to learn of the loss of your son, Patrick. Although we did not know him - he was blessed to have you as his parents. We grieve for you and all your family.
With love, Jim, Leslie, Taylor and Olivia O'Sullivan
December 10, 2015
Kathy, I remember the times we spent at Rosendale School. Patrick was a sweet little boy. My heart is heavy with sadness for you and your family.
Sincerely,
Diane Cornell Rapp (Pete's Mom)
The Twibell Family
December 10, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss.
Victoria Russo
December 10, 2015
Dr. Duff and family,
I know Patrick loved you all very much. He always spoke highly of his parents and family from the day he walked into the office. I worked w/ Patrick up until 3 1/2 years ago and recently I meet up with him and John Rowe for lunch and coffee. He will be so missed and I can't tell you he is one of the finest young gentlemen I ever worked with. Extremely respectful, happy etc. I am really at a loss for words but I have a cute little story to tell. When he came into the office he was assigned a cubicle in front of me. This young man leaned over introduced himself and said I know your a success, and may I ride with you. I said yes and we became work friends from that time on. God needed another angel and that is Patrick. He was one in a million. God Bless all of you and my heart aches and I wish you peace. Sincerely Victoria Russo
ps I will be attending tomorrow evening to pay my respects to a wonderful person.
Brian Vaughn
December 10, 2015
RIP Duff.
Maria Fort
December 10, 2015
Dr. Duff,
My deepest condolences on the untimely death of your son.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jeff Backer
December 10, 2015
Sending our condolences from the entire Backer family. Jeff, Elliot, Rebecca and Diana.
MaryJane Nixon
December 10, 2015
Dr. Duff,
I'm truly sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for your family. Patrick spent too short a time on this earth. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family for healing in this tragic time. Love MaryJane and Jack and family
Katrina (Carling) Russo
December 10, 2015
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this tough time. I will always remember Patrick with the happiest of memories. He had an incredible spirit and was truly one of a kind.
Katrina (Carling) Russo
December 10, 2015
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this tough time. I will always remember Patrick with the happiest of memories. He had an incredible spirit and was truly one of a kind.
Maryellen Halpin Moore
December 9, 2015
Dear Patty, Matt, and family,
I'm so very sorry to hear of the loss of your young nephew. My prayers go out to all of your family. It is beyond words to imagine how all of you must be feeling and what to say at this time. I pray for your peace and comfort.
Dianne Grant
December 9, 2015
Duff family you are in my thoughts daily. I pray that each person touched by the life of Patrick can find the strength to get through this difficult time. I loved Patrick, he was a good friend and a good person and he truly cared for his friends. He loved his family more
than anything. I'm deeply saddened by this tragedy and I will cherish his memories in my heart. I will miss my good friend.
Marc Hecker
December 9, 2015
Phyllis and I were devastated to learn of your son Patrick's tragic passing. Please know that we have been thinking about you and hope that you will find peace in the loving memories that he has given to you.
Sarah
December 9, 2015
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family at this difficult time. I'll remember what a positive force Pat always was. He made me laugh often. I wish we didn't lose touch for so long. The loss of Pat leaves me so saddened. The world lost an incredible being. RIP Pat
Heather Skinner
December 9, 2015
Dr. Duff & family. My heart aches for your families loss.
Derek Bittner
December 9, 2015
My prayers and thoughts go out to the Duff family. I was recruited by Pat to play in my very first high school band! I'll always remember that. RIP my friend.
Meagan Downes
December 9, 2015
Doc, Kathy, Maura, Michael and family,
Patrick was loved by everyone! He will be remembered by all who knew him as a kind, fun-loving, good-hearted man. I'm glad I had the chance to get to know him all those summers at Yander's. Our deepest sympathies are with you at this difficult time.
~Meagan and family
Ken Boggis
December 9, 2015
Patrick is a true gentleman and one of those rare people that had the ability to connect with everyone that had the pleasure to cross paths with him. I would only see Patrick every few years but when I did we would pick up right where we left off and he always made me laugh. His spirit and infectious smile will always be remembered
the LaBrake's
December 9, 2015
Our condolences to the Duff family.
Friends for Life
Tim G
December 9, 2015
Duff I miss you so much.. My best friend my brother. Every single day you made my life brighter, You brought so much Joy to my heart an soul! You were always there for me and looked out for me from day one. We had a very rare bond in friendship that is hard to findI don't know what I am going to do without you in my life. You made me smile everyday. Thanks you so much for being my brother, you will forever be in my heart. I am so blessed to have the memories of the amazing person that you are. I can hear you know saying "keep your head up Tim, you will be OK" I will see you again my friend<3
Peter
December 9, 2015
It had been awhile since we saw each other but words do not describe how sad it makes me to know you are gone. My deepest thoughts and sympathy to your family.
Ronnie and Richie Kakos
December 9, 2015
Our hearts are broken for you you all.May Our Lord hold you close in His Heart as you journey through this great suffering.May He grant you courage and some form of comfort and peace.You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Le Moyne College
December 9, 2015
Please accept the most heartfelt sympathies of Le Moyne College. We hope the love and memories that you will forever hold in your heart bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Jason Ruggiero
December 9, 2015
Duff you were a great friend. I'll always remember the times at th 99 restaurant. Your prayers will always be with me.
December 9, 2015
Ms. Duff and family - We are so very sorry for the loss of your son Patrick. You are in our families prayers. The Drzonsc Family
Jason Ruggiero
December 9, 2015
Duff you were the man. I'll always remember the times @ the 99 restaurant. You will always be in my prayers. Your friend Jason Ruggiero
vickie hersch
December 9, 2015
Our deepest and sincerest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your beloved Patrick. May your fond memories of him bring you some comfort in this time of sorrow. Vickie and Bob Hersch
Rose Jack
December 9, 2015
Kathy,Tom Michael,Maura and family,
Words can't express our deepest sorrow on the loss of your son and brother Patrick. We happily saw him grow into a wonderful young man over many summers in PA. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
The Jack Family
Cait L
December 9, 2015
My heart is with everyone who is hurting especially the Duff family. I feel very blessed to have known Patrick. The world is a little dimmer without his smile and laugh. He is so loved and so missed.
Bridget Hartnett
December 9, 2015
Kathy and family, I am so sorry for your loss. He was taken far too soon, but I hope you can find comfort and solace in your memories of him.
December 9, 2015
Duff was a great guy. A true gentleman.. curtsy. <3
Afterprom 2002
December 9, 2015
Antoinette Kranz
December 9, 2015
Kathy and Tom, I am so sorry to hear of Patrick's passing! I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. He was such a sweet and funny kid. I loved his smile! And his laugh!
Patricia Duff
December 9, 2015
words can not explain how sad I feel for your whole extended family.I still consider Patrick my family I will always remember Patrick with a huge grin and a loving personality. God bless my thoughts and prayers are with you all Love Patty.
Ritch Harrigan
December 9, 2015
Kathleen and family, words cannot adequately how sorry I am for your loss. Please know that Elissa, Gerry, and myself are praying for Patrick and family.
Darcy Poppey
December 9, 2015
I cannot believe that I had to read this today. Pat was the Yellowbook/HIBU salesman for our firm and we did business with him for many years. Not only was he phenomenal at his job, he was just a phenomenal person! My heart goes out to Pat's entire family and friends. Heaven certainly gained an angel.
December 9, 2015
Pat, It breaks me heart that I will no longer be able to see you. You were a great friend and lit up every room that you walked in to. I am honored to have spent my teenage and adults years with you. Heaven has no idea what they got themselves into it.
Showing 1 - 60 of 60 results
Please consider a donation as requested by the family.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreThey're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more