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Thomas B. Decker

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Thomas B. Decker obituary, 1943-2020, Altamont, NY

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Thomas Decker Obituary

Decker, Thomas B. ALTAMONT Thomas "Tom" B. Decker, 76 of Altamont, passed away on May 31, 2020, with his loving wife Theresa by his side. Tom was born on December 1, 1943, in Albany to the late Joseph L. Decker and Anne (Ellis) Decker. He graduated from Vincentian Institute in 1962 and enlisted in the United States Marine Corps in 1964. From 1965 to 1966, he served in the Vietnam War, ascending to the rank of sergeant before leaving the military in 1967. Tom went on to spend over 30 years at Spencer Press in Wells, Maine, acting as the company's customer service manager. Tom was the treasured husband of Theresa (Fuina) Decker, whom he married in May of 1966; beloved father of Byrne Decker; and brother of JoAnn Choppa, Ellen Murray, Joseph Decker, and James Decker. Tom's pride and joy were his four grandchildren - Megan, Benjamin, John, and Caroline - whose adoration brought him great happiness. He is also survived by two sisters-in-law, one daughter-in-law, many nieces and nephews, as well as close friends, Gordon Ryan, Rich Trombley, and Rich Becker. Tom will be missed for his loyalty, kindness, work-ethic, and dependability. He was a true gentleman, and an honorable husband, father, and grandfather. He was also a lifelong sports fan, and when he wasn't biking, swimming, or golfing with friends, he could often be found on the sidelines of sporting events at Siena College and UAlbany. He shared this love of sports with his son, Byrne, and was his biggest fan at every single baseball game, basketball game, and cross-country race. Tom also proudly supported his four grandchildren and was always there to encourage them in their pursuits. He formed meaningful friendships with many people, who will miss him for his selflessness and eagerness to lend a helping hand. Due to social distancing mandates caused by the COVID-19 pandemic, a celebration of Tom's life will be held at a later date to be announced by his family. Tom spent his final days in hospice care at St. Peter's Hospital in Albany. The doctors and nurses showed him and his family compassion during a difficult time, ensuring his comfort as he reached the end of his journey. Memorial donations may be made in Tom's name to St. Peter's Community Hospice Foundation: www.givetocommunityhospice.org/donate. Condolences may be sent to [email protected] and [email protected].





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Published by Albany Times Union from Jun. 5 to Jun. 7, 2020.

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paula spenlinhauer

June 28, 2020

Dear Theresa, Byrne and Family
I am so sorry to hear of Toms passing. I knew that he was ill but thought that things were looking brighter. I hope that means his last weeks were optimistic. I worked for many years with Tom in Customer Service. He was a wonderful mentor and a boss who always had your back. When he said Paula please come in to my office with your file I knew that something was wrong but that he would help put it right.
John had such respect for Tom. He would also be so sorry for your loss. I am going through old photos from Johns office. Ill make sure to send you any that you might enjoy.
With sincere sympathy,
Paula Spenlinhauer

Barbara Murphy

June 9, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved husband. Sending prayers to his family.

Steve Redler

June 7, 2020

Condolences to the family. Tom was always welcome on our Sunday morning bike rides in Altamont and a pleasure to be around. It was great talking to him about Albany basketball games as well. He will surely be missed. Steve Redler and the Sunday Morning Bike Crew

James J Carney

June 6, 2020

To Theresa and family,
We are saddened and sorry to learn of the passing of Tom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May he Rest In Peace.
~VI Class of 1962

Mary Ellen Tuffey Wojtusik

June 6, 2020

So sorry Theresa and family for your loss. We were classmates at VI and neighbors on Dana Avenue. May he Rest In Peace.

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