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Tara Grant
September 21, 2001
To Robin, Brooke, Shelby and the entire Jenkins family--
I will always remember JJ with a huge smile across his face. As Joe wrote earlier, a true "Virginia gentleman." When I read that, it really hit the nail on the head. He will always be remembered and thought of with love and admiration by all who had the pleasure of knowing him (even for a brief moment). May you all find the strength you need to make it through this sad time. Love to all of you.
Tara Grant and Chris Fisher
Sean Grant
September 12, 2001
Robin and Family,
We were deeply saddened to hear of JJ's passing. His positive attitude was unshakable...
The first time I met JJ was at the 1986 UVa/Tech game in Blacksburg. He and (I believe) Clary and McCllelan were sitting about 6 rows down from me in the student section and were getting pelted with ice most of the game. Yet, I don't think I ever heard him complain about "Hokie Fans" in general, as would have been his right after what they put him through.
He was one of a kind and will be sorely missed. May God give you, and your families, strength during this time of terrible sadness.
Sean and Jody Grant
Rick and Debbie Hill
September 9, 2001
Our hearts and prayers go out to all the Jenkins families at this time of sorrow.
Jeff with Delta Upsilon brothers at UVA Reunion
Bill Walker
September 7, 2001
Debb and Greg Ward
September 7, 2001
Robin,
We were deeply saddened by JJ's death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 81st Street will not be the same.
Take Care.
Joe Grant
September 7, 2001
JJ was a true Virginia Gentleman and hero. We will miss him. I didn't get to see much of him after he moved to Fla. My last memory of him was UVA at Auburn..He was smiling (as always) ear to ear.
Joe Grant (Va Beach/Atlanta)
Mike Grant
September 7, 2001
Robin,
I have nothing but positive lasting memories of my times with Jeff.
UVA-Tech football games... with great tailgate parties. All the wonderful times at 81st Street... playing volleyball and soaking up the sun. Friday nights at Towne Point Park in Norfolk.
My lasting memory, however, is his kindness, gentleness and friendship. He was a very special person and I am grateful for the time I spent with him on this Earth.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Brooke, Shelby and all the Jenkins family.
Mike & Ellie
J. Wesley Speer
September 7, 2001
Bobby, Jackie & Family:
So sorry hear of your great loss. Our prayers and sympathy go out to you and your family during this time. God is able to help in times of need. Just look to him.
Romans 8:28.
Your old school mate of 1945-1956
Wesley Speer
(And Family)
Jon and Kelley Rees
September 7, 2001
Jeff will be deeply missed by our neighborhood.
Robin, if there is anything our family can do for you and yours, please ask.
God Bless,
Lindsey and Sue Vaughn
September 6, 2001
Robin, Brooke and Shelby,
We were deeply saddened by J.J.'s death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your daughters and the Jenkins family. Lindsey and I were very fortunate to have known J.J. He touched our lives and especially those that knew him best. Our fondest memories are 81st street, beach volleyball, the "Boat House" parties, UVA, running on the beach, and I could go on. Our deepest sympathy is with your family. J.J.will be forever in our hearts and will be missed.
Michael & Lori Horth
September 6, 2001
Robin, Brooke, Shelby & Family,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you in this time of loss. We will always remember JJ's genuine smile and quick sense of humor. He had the ability to turn summer cookouts with the 81st street crew into a celebration of life and friendship. May you and the girls find comfort in knowing Jeff is at God's side.
Steve Davis
September 6, 2001
Our deepest sympathies go out to the entire Jenkins family for your loss. The Davis Family (Steve, Gale, Lee & Erin)
Marie, Will, Kelsey and Tripp DeBaun
September 6, 2001
Dear Robin, Brooke, Shelby and the Jenkins Family,
Just wanted you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. JJ will be missed.
Yours Truly, Marie, Will, Kelsey and Tripp DeBaun
Alan Huerth
September 6, 2001
I have known Jeff for several years since he joined the Mandarin Business Association as the Branch Manager for Prosperity Bank in Mandarin. Jeff was a fine human being and I will miss his charm and sense of humor. My most sincere and heartfelt condolence to his family for this untimely loss.
Linda and Mike Firnstahl
September 5, 2001
We were so sorry to hear about J.J.'s death. We will always remember his happy, laid back demeanor and positive outlook on life. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Robin and their daughters at this painful time.
Luck Sackett Jr.
September 5, 2001
Dear Robin,girls and Jenkins Family,
I can't tell you how sorry I was to learn of JJ's death. He was a good friend that I thoroughly enjoyed being around, particularly competing in beach volleyball tournaments and running race events together. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I know you will miss him as I will.
And JJ - GO HOO'S!
The 81st St. crew will miss you.
Beth VanStory
September 5, 2001
His permanent grin (and tan), his slow, southern way of talking, his holding court at 81st St. and being the glue that held many of us together. These are the things I'll remember most. The loss of Jeff has touched me deeply.
Patty Cook Adolphi
September 5, 2001
Robin,
I was deeply saddened to hear about Jeff. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls during this difficult time.
My first memory of Jeff is when he worked at the Citizen's Trust Bank at ODU and he always had a smile on his face. But I'll always remember Jeff running down Norfolk Ave., or running in the Neptune festival and always stopping by our house with you and Brooke every Halloween.
I'm so sorry about your loss and please let me know if I could be of help in anyway.
Dean & Maria Miroulis
September 5, 2001
Dear Robin & Girls:
I can't tell you how shocked and upset we were to hear of your loss. JJ is remembered and will be missed by many. Keep your faith near to you as it will guide you.
Our deepest sympathy is with you and your family. Dean & Maria Miroulis
Lesley Benyon
September 5, 2001
To all the Jenkins,
My deepest condolences. JJ was truly one of a kind. His love of life and smile were contagious and he made my UVA/81st St years some of the best. The only true gentleman I think I've ever met.
Tracey Chestnut
September 5, 2001
Dear Robin, Brooke, Shelby and the Jenkins' family:
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Jeff and our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We have been thinking of you constantly these last few days.
We are always here for you and the girls, Robin.
Love, Tracey, Kirk, Kelsey, Karri and Austin Chestnut
Bridget (Grant)& Rob Overstreet
September 5, 2001
Dear Robyn, the girls and the Jenkins Family,
Words cannot express how deeply saddened we were to hear of your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this sad time.
Love, Bridget & Rob
Susan Edmonds Olmsted
September 5, 2001
I'm so sorry to hear about Jeff, he was always so full of life and could bring a smile to anyone. My prayers and thoughts go out to the family.
Vangie& James Gault, Sr.
September 5, 2001
Dear Bobby Joe & Jackie & Families. Our hearts hurt with you. I know that yours are broken & will never be completely repaired . We mourn with you & love you. Just know that our prayers will be with you always.
John Babb
September 5, 2001
Our hearts and prayers go out to JJ's wife and family. His great personality and fun spirit will be missed by all of us from the CBAA Volleyball Bash and the 67th St. gatherings.
Anne Hill
September 5, 2001
I am Tricia's mother and am so deeply saddened by Jeff's passing. My love and condolences go out to all the Jenkins - Robin, the girls, Bobby and Jackie, and Barry and Tricia and their family. I am not with you physically but am in every other way. I love you all. Anne
Megan and Joel Hughes
September 4, 2001
Dear Robin and girls,
Our hearts go out to you, the girls,
and the Jenkins family. JJ was a good friend of my brother, Mike Grant, at UVA. Over the years, he became a friend to my entire family.
We will miss him at the UVA-Va.Tech
games, his smile and his laugh.
Our prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow.
Dan Cronin
September 4, 2001
Robin, I'm sorry we never met. Jeff and I worked together for several years at Crestar and my Sharon with him at Centura. Jeff was a great guy and could always be counted on to give me a hard time around the Tech-UVA football game. I cannot imagine the depth of your and the girl's loss and can only offer our thoughts and prayers as you struggle through this very difficult time. May God bless all of you and watch over you.
Mark Gruszecki
September 4, 2001
On behalf of myself and the Staff at Business Development Corporation we are so sorry to hear of this tragic loss...our Condolences go to the family
Tom Edmonds
September 4, 2001
We have known JJ for a very long time. We'll always remember the times we spent with him and his family on 81st ST. in Va. Beach. It was never the same after he moved to Fla. Our hearts and prayers go out to his wife and family.
Milton & Sarah Sheffield, Jr.
September 4, 2001
Robin,
I am sorry to hear about Jeff. What can I say but hold your head up and look into heaven because he is looking at you and the children.
I only met Jeff two or three times and could tell that he enjoyed being around family and was very outgoing. I did not realize that he was involved with so many organizations until I read his obituary.
Please take care of yourself and the girls.
God be with you always,
Milton (& Sarah)
John Lalley
September 4, 2001
I did not know Jeff very well, but in the few meetings I shared with him at Small Business Resource Network, I relize what a fine person he was. I will remember him and all his family in my prayers.
John and Sue Reddecliff
September 4, 2001
Dear Robin,
We are so deeply saddened to hear about J.J.'s passing. We know that words can never express our sorrow, but please know that we will keep you, Brooke, Shelby, and the rest of the Jenkins family in our thoughts and prayers. We are very grateful to have had the privledge of knowing J.J. and extend to you our deepest sympathy.
John, Sue and Jack
Donna and Bob Kovalcheck
September 4, 2001
Robin, Brooke, Shelby --
We are very saddened to hear of your loss. Jeff was a very dear friend. 81st Street will never be the same! He is the reason Bob and I met 14 years ago. You and the girls are in our thoughts and prayers.
Our love to Barry and Trish and Mr. and Mrs. Jenkins as well.
God bless you all.
Donna and Bob, Kyle, Carter and Troy
Beth and Mike McOsker
September 4, 2001
Robin,
We were shocked to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls.
Beth(Knaus)and Mike McOsker
Clayton/Gloria Watkins
September 4, 2001
Dear Robin, Brooke, Shelby, and The Jenkins,
Words cannot not express the heartfelt sympathy that goes out to each of you. Clayton and I know that Jeff is resting in Christ's arms safely on heaven's shore. Remember to be strong and trust in the Lord. To the family I leave the words of Isaiah 40:31. Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Robin, take care of those precious girls. We will miss Jeff and his kind spirit but I know that I will share in his eternal joy someday on heaven's shore. Love you all!
Steven Wright
September 4, 2001
I knew Jeff going all the way back to Frank W. Cox High School as well as having lived in the same Va. Beach rental house when we were single. We were both in the Va. Beach Jaycees as well as part of the vast "singles scene" which was a big part of our lives at the time. We stll managed to keep in touch after our single days were over making efforts to meet up at holidays and such. The good times were far too numerous to even begin mentioning going all the way back to high school. I'll remember Jeff always as one of the most fun loving and popular guys I have ever known as well as being a great house mate and friend. I only wish the best for his family.
Carla Grant
September 4, 2001
Dear Robin and the girls,
I was so saddened to hear of JJ's tragic death. He was always fun to be with - mostly UVA-VA Tech football games. Please know that all the Jenkin's family are in my prayers.
Carla Grant - Mom of Mike, Kevin,
Megan, Sean, Joe, Bridget and Tara
Bill Walker
September 4, 2001
My deepest condolences to those that Jeff treasured and loved the most (Robin, Brooke, Shelby, Barry & Tricia & children, Mr. and Mrs. Jenkins) in this time of sorrow and suffering. Jeff's tragic passing certainly places a hole in my life.
Mercifully, I have the conviction that we will all eventually be reunited in The Lord's Kingdom. And I am blessed to have countless joyous memories shared together with J.J. including: Cox H.S., the yellow Trans-Am, Forbes, car-pooling to Cox, the beach, Senior Prom, tackle football, cruising, beach volleyball, Frisbee golf, the Jenkin's home and family, Jemimah, the Five Point gang, shooting pool, Van Halen, Balz dorm, O-Hill, Fraternity Rush, Delta Upsilon, Goat chores, road trips, U-Hall, pumping iron, Newcomb Hall, raquetball, Scott Stadium, The Swamp, The Roof, Easters, The Brother Examiner, Duck House East, Duck Xing, ACC tournament, Mardi Gras, Peach Bowls, The Wounded Duck Golf Tournaments, & UVA Reunion. Jeff's wonderful spirit and friendship will remain with me always.
from Bill Walker,
and JoAnne, Cori and Danila
Glen Robertson
September 4, 2001
Robin, Brooke and Shelby---I'm so sad to hear of Jeff's passing.He was a wonderful person. All of us at The UVA Club of Tidewater will treasure our memories of JJ and never forget him. He was truly one of the really good people in this world.I'm so sorry for your loss.
Mona Rivers
September 4, 2001
Dear Robin and family, Randy and I are truly sorry to hear about your loss. We will miss Jeff greatly. We love you and pray for you. God bless you and your family.
Dewitt Sheffield
September 4, 2001
Bruce Jeffery Jenkins
God saw Jeff getting tired
and help for him was not to be,
so He put His arms around Jeff
and whispered, "Come to Me."
A young heart stopped beating
hard working hands now at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best!
We pray that God will restore your smile, allow you peace, and send you comfort for your broken heart. We love you!
Dewitt and Sherrie Sheffield
Diana Bright
September 4, 2001
My condolences go out to the Jenkin's family.
Diana Bright
Advantage Payroll Svce.
SBRN
Steven Wright
September 4, 2001
I knew Jeff going all the way back to Frank W. Cox High School as well as having lived in the same Va. Beach rental house when we were single. We were both in the Va. Beach Jaycees as well as part of the vast "singles scene" which was a big part of our lives at the time. We stll managed to keep in touch after our single days were over making efforts to meet up at holidays and such. The good times were far too numerous to even begin mentioning going all the way back to high school. I'll remember Jeff always as one of the most fun loving and popular guys I have ever known as well as being a great house mate and friend. I only wish the best for his family.
Trevor Benyon
September 4, 2001
To Robin, Brooke, Shelby, Jeff's Parents, Barry and Tricia - my, and all of the Benyon's, deepest condolences.
Jeff was a large part of my, and my families, life for many years. He will be missed greatly by all of us. You will never fully know the amount of people's lives he touched in such a positive way. He was a remarkable man.
He truly was one of the most purely good people I have ever met, and I will miss him forever.
Please feel free to call on me, or my family if there is ever anything any of us can do along the way.
And Jeff - Wahoo Wa!
Dave and Margaret Amos
September 4, 2001
Robin, our prayers and thoughts are with you and the girls, also JJ's parents.
We are Debb Ward's Mom and Dad and we do remember you from the 82nd street beach.
Mark Wilkinson
September 4, 2001
I did not know Jeff very well. He was a member of the Small Business Resource Network with me. I thoroughly enjoyed meeting & talking with Jeff over the last couple of years. I will miss him. I wish the best to his family.
Mike Kos
September 4, 2001
Cheryl, the kids and I are praying for you Robin, as well as Brooke and Shelby. Above all, JJ loved his family very much. I hope you will be able to feel God's love for you in this difficult time.
Grace and Keith Carlson
September 4, 2001
Dearest Robin,
We are all devastated by the loss of J.J. Please know that the entire gang is praying and thinking of you and the girls. We will all miss him very much. Please let me know if there is anything we can do for you. We love you. Grace and Keith.
Art Rendak
September 4, 2001
I was stunned and terribly saddened by the passing of JJ. While I only knew JJ for a short period of time, I am not sure I have ever met a nicer person.
Our family's thoughts and prayers go out to Robin, Brooke and Shelby and the rest of his family and hope that his memory will help them carry on.
Laurie Thomas
September 4, 2001
Such a loss for you, and I know nothing anyone says can take away what you must be going through right now. God be with you through this time. Please find comfort in knowing Jeff contributed much to this world and touched more lives than you can possibly imagine - mine included. God bless you all.
Kathy Sipe Perdue
September 4, 2001
Words cannot express the sorrow that I feel over this terrible loss. He was a wonderful friend to me for over twenty years, and I am fortunate to have many memories of our times together. J.J. will live in my heart and others forever.
My thoughts and prayers are with Robin, Brooke and Shelby as well as Mr. and Mrs. Jenkins and Barry and Tricia during this difficult time.
Kathy Sipe Perdue
Staunton/Charlottesville, VA
Nancy Boyle
September 4, 2001
I was so sorry to hear of Jeff's drowning. Jeff was an valued member of the Small Business Resource Network and will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of tragedy.
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