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Sean Sharp
November 7, 2022
Mr. And Mrs. Pickren, and Chip,
It's hard to believe it's been 20 years. I know that rings differently for the three of you than for me. I sat at home thinking about him the other day, yesterday, and today, hoping the scholarship in his honor is helping students the way he would have. Having three children of my own now, I have a different perspective than when James and I played at Stanton together. I missed him when Coach Stephens told us the news. I missed him at our final game against Paxon. And I certainly missed him at graduation and UF.
We may never know why he was taken 20 years ago but I know that class of '03 still feels him everyday. He was #70 on the field but he's still #1 in our hearts.
Sean
#56
David Wrenn
March 29, 2019
Dear James,
I am a Senior at Stanton College Prep, and I just applied for a scholarship named for you in your honor. I didn't know who you were, because I was a lot younger, but I feel like I should write you this in grattitude. Thank you for all you did here and the legacy you left, thank you for leading our football team with strength and bravery. As a cheerleader, I see the guys of todays games work hard and always treat other players with kindness, something I'm sure you would be happy to see. The school still stands and the football program is strong and we remember you.
Your fellow Blue Devil,
David Wrenn c/o '19
Chelsea Brubeck Newman
January 9, 2004
Dear Mr.and Mrs. Pickren,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. James was a great person. I never was the closest person with him. But, I got to know who James really was, and he was a great person. Even though it has been a year after his death, this is the first time I"m writing, because I never wanted to really face reality, by writing this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love always,
Chelsea Brubeck
Christine Garretson
May 3, 2003
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Pickren and family
James was a wonderful friend who did everything in his power to uplift and help anyone whether they needed it or not. I will never forget all the times he ran up to me for a hug, making me scream hysterically thinking he was going to tackle me in the hallway. I can't count the number of times was lifted off of the ground by at least 1 1/2 feet just for a hug by James. He always made me smile and continues to do so I as think of him daily. James will always be remembered in my heart, soul, and mind as a true friend. He was an angel on earth and one of God's finest angels in heaven.
Staci
December 22, 2002
It has been well over a month since we lost James, and as the holidays approach, I fondly remember a previous Christmas season with James in a santa hat shouting HO HO HO to unsuspecting passerbys, spreading joy as he always did. I, like everyone, will miss his incredibly comforting bear hugs and his contagious smile. James was the best friend any of us could ever ask for, and I long for the day that I see him again in heaven. I feel beyond blessed that God shared such a beautiful angel with us, for #70 was just that--an angel among us. To Charles and Julie: Thank you for raising such a wonderful son. My prayers are with you and Chip. James was an inspiration to us all, and in light of what has happened, I have seen a change among those who knew him--a growing unity among those friends left behind and a vision of living life to the fullest, just like our fallen comrade. I love you James, and I'll see you under the oak tree.
Peace & God's Love Forever<><
~stace
Brittany Brubeck
December 3, 2002
Dear Pickren Family:
I wanted to share a verse with you that reminded me of James.
"God resists the proud and gives grace to the humble." James 4:6
You are in my heart and prayers.
Love
Brittany
Brenda Cramer
November 18, 2002
From our family to yours,
He will never be far from your heart or your soul! I did not meet your wonderful guy but, I can not help but think that when I see one of my own students, or my own sons, I will remember what a wonderful son The Lord has given to your family. James could not have given if he did not have the strong family I am sure that you gave him. You gave him roots and his love and his gift of giving. The Lord gave him his wings.
My heart breaks for your pain, but God will always give you strength.
A teacher and a Mother of five boys
Craig Washington
November 15, 2002
To the Pickren Family:
while playing on the Stanton Football team, I got a chance to play with a really great guy in James. He was an excellent offensive lineman on the field but more importantly a Great guy with a awesome personlality off the field. Words truly cannot explain how much he will be missed. My prayers are with you.
Jessica Weber
November 15, 2002
As I read the news article, I was amazed at how this young man touched so many lives, and my heart immediatley went out to his family.
As I looked at his picture and looked at his name, I began to realize that I knew him too. I worked at Sterling House, and he and his family visited there quite often. I remember when I first met him he was my height, but the next time I saw him he was huge! He was so nice to his grandmother, she could talk to me about him for hours. The whole Pickren family is a beautiful family, and my heart goes out to his parents, his grandma, his older brother, and all of his family members. He touched so many lives, even lives of people he briefly knew.
Scott & Christi Allen
November 14, 2002
We can only hope that our own son grows into as fine of a young man as James was.
LEE
November 14, 2002
I didn't know James but wanted to express that after reading all these wonderful things,I feel like I did know him. You have done a GREAT JOB as parents, family, friends and teachers he was a well rounded young man. God Bless you all!
Valerie Craig
November 14, 2002
This was given to me at a low point in my life. I would like to share with you.
FOR ALL PARENTS:
I'll lend you for a little while a child of mine HE said, For you to love while he is here and mourn when he is dead. It may be six or seven years or thirty two or three, But will you till I call him home take care of him for me? He'll bring his charms to gladden you and shall his stay be brief, You will have his lovely memories as solace for your grief. I cannot promise he will stay since all from earth return. But there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn.
Iv'e looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true, And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes I have chosen YOU.
Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain;
Nor hate me when I come to call, to take him back again. I fancied that I heard them say Dear Lord Thy will be done. For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run.We'll shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him while we may;
And for the happiness we've known will ever grateful stay. But shall the angels call for him much sooner than we planned, We'll brave the bitter grief that comes, and try to understand.
AUTHOR UNKNOWN
God bless your family and I will think of you often.
The Dorman Family
November 14, 2002
To the Pickren family:
Our son, also a senior, went to school with James at Stanton. He said James was a great guy who will be sorely missed. Our prayers are with you and your entire family.
Nanci Harth
November 13, 2002
James,
Thanks for being the person with the big heart that brought much good to this earth in so short a time. You and your christian family will long be remembered. You will be a wonderful angel and one of God's brightest stars.
Leandra Cramer (Petruska)
November 13, 2002
Julie, Chuck, and Chip-
Though I still can't understand or fully accept the fact that I will not see James walk through my door, or try to give me a huge hug afer football practice! or see his smile as we pass in the hall anymore; I know he is with God and His newest angel is continuing to be what he was on earth- Amazing, Sincere, Christian-like in everything, Compassionate, Helpful, and overall just AWESOME!
I was able to get to know James through Josh both in and out of school. I have a few fond memories of hanging with one of my favorite students! He helped me move into my apartment before I got married and he helped me play "CSI" agent when my car was vandalized in an attempt to steal it. He was great- "hey P, I see some hair, get some tape..." I think we both watched a little bit too much TV! I posed for a 'pimpin' picture with James and he lost to me in bowling- I never got a chance to put make-up on him! He was always so helpful- no questions asked, or annoyed looks- just sure, what is it?
One of the last things and probably the toughest for me to remember was the morning after I found out that my Nana had a few days left with us. James was trying to hang on me and play around, I stopped him and he wasn't quite sure why. He later found out and was very sympathetic and actually apologized for 'messing' with me. I was out of it for a few days because I lost my Nana and didn't get an opportunity to get that hug from James that he was trying to give me. That's what I want most right now- a big hug (sweaty or not!) from James.
I know that you are aware of what a truly wonderful son you had. You all did a great job raising him. I thank you for that and the chance to know James. I will never forget him, what life meant to him, or your family.
With deepest sympathies and many prayers...
Leandra Cramer ("P")
Brian & Marie King
November 12, 2002
To the Pickren family:
We're not sure if you remember us or not. Brian served as the worship leader there at RPUMC for a short time. This news has honestly taken our breath away. When we first heard the news, we knew the name sounded familiar but honestly couldn't put our finger on it and then we saw his picture on the news. Please know that our hearts and prayers go out to your family. James was an absolute joy to know. He embraced Brian as a worship leader and me as a Sunday School teacher and made us feel so welcomed there! Although this is difficult right now, I am happy to know that he will be there in heaven to welcome us when we get there. I can't think of a better welcoming committee! Please let us know if there is anything we can do!
Your brother & sister in Christ!
Brian & Marie King
Judy
November 11, 2002
Although I didn't know your son James at all, as a mother of three boys I was heartbroken to hear of his passing on the news. He seems to have touched many lives in his time here on earth. I can only hope that my boys grow up to be as well-respected and loved by as many people as your son James. I will continue to pray for your healing and keep you in my thoughts. God Bless You!
Betty Sue and Bill Veal
November 11, 2002
Just wanted you to know that you were in our prayers at Long's Chapel United Methodist Church yesterday. And you will be in the coming weeks. Our personal thoughts and prayers continue to be with you as well. Love to you and your family, Betty Sue and Bill
Cassie
November 11, 2002
I didn't know James at all, Just what I saw on the news. But I wanted to say that I was truely impressed with what I saw. At such a young age he seemed to touch so many peoples lives. That has to make all that knew him very proud. Please know that from the bottom of my heart I am sorry for the lost of such a remarkable young man. God Bless the Pickren family.
CHELSEY JOHNSON
November 10, 2002
To the Family of one of Stanton's greatest, i pray that God give you the strength to endure and to faith to believe that he took James because he wanted to add just one more jewel to his collection and he felt that James was more than ready to join his collection. i can in a way relate to your hurt because i lost one my favorite cousin his senior in highschool and i just couldn't understand why god would take somebody so special. but i looked to heaven and prayed and god helped me to understand that sometimes he wants to take those who we love so dearly and use their life to reach those who haven't gave their heart to him. be strong in the lord, because surely your son was a warrior for christ and he would want you to be the same. from myself and the class of 2001, take care and god bless you.
charlotte/benny summey
November 10, 2002
WORD`S CAN NEVER SAY ENOUGH!! But, PRAISE GOD HE KNEW THE LORD..A friend at our church went to SCHOOL with HIM.(GRACE BAPTIST ON DUVAL ROAD.From READING THE GUEST BOOK HE LEFT BEHIND GREAT MEMORIES!!!!!!!Yall are in OUR PRAYER`S!!!!
Terry Staley
November 10, 2002
Julia, Chuck, Chip
Kathy has called to let me know of your great loss. I have watched James and Chip grow up through the pictures that always accompanied your Christmas greetings and it was apparent each year that they were growing into fine young men with ready smiles even though Mom was making them pose for the camera. My heart aches for you. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling but I do know that the Lord has you in the palm of His mighty hand and His love will sustain you in the difficult days ahead. I pray you find comfort and strength in His presence.
Jennifer (Swart) Hartley
November 9, 2002
To The Pickren Family:
I did not know, James, but I went to school with his older brother. I know this must be a tragic loss for all. From what I have heard on the news and read in the paper, James was a wonderful young man with a big heart whose life was cut tragically short. Just put your trust in God, and he will help get you through this difficult time. A friend of mine got cancer in high school (Chipper, you may know who I am referring to), and I turned to God at that point, and just prayed a lot. Praying and trusting in God can really help. My husband and I will continue to keep your family in our prayers as you go through this difficult time.
Jennifer (Swart) Hartley
Stanton c/o '97
Jim and Bonnie Allen
November 9, 2002
Dearest Friends - Chuck, Julie and Chip -
We are heartbroken at the loss of our sweet, funny, kind and loving James but after the beautiful service for him today, we both felt a terrible weight lifted from our shoulders. We truly celebrated James today and celebrated his new life in Jesus. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and that we love you dearly. God Bless you all - Jim and Bonnie Allen
Kim & Robert Moseley
November 9, 2002
Julie, Chuck, and Chip,
I know it has been await since i saw you last, but i will never forget the sweet boy that made us all laugh in church. I know Bobby and Tisha will miss him too. I know that the grief is great, but remember that at least we all have no questiions on where James is now. In the greatest hands of all--GOD!
My prayers are and always have been with all of you.
Cora LaForest
November 9, 2002
I am so very sorry for your loss. You should be very proud of yourselves for raising such a fine young man. I have a 18 yr old son that went to Stanton for 4 yrs and graduated from there this year. He knew your son.
Nita Ray
November 9, 2002
Please accept my heart felt condolences in the loss of your beloved son. I didn't know him and you don't know me, but I have a son also. I also heard that he is my brother in Christ and I look forward to seeing him in heaven. His birth was not without purpose, so please know that the Lord Jesus is near to comfort you, and James' spirit will live with you forever!
the Cuda Family
November 9, 2002
The loss of James Pickren is felt throughout Jacksonville by those who knew him and even by those who did not. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Peggy Beddingfield
November 9, 2002
With my deepest heartfelt sympathy. I cannot imagine the pain you must be feeling.
Peggy Beddingfield
(formerly Larry Tremonti's secretary at Blue Cross Blue Shield)
Jameyel Johnson
November 9, 2002
To all who knew James,
"Some people have a mission
that they reach for in life.
Some girls, to have a husband,
some boys, to have a wife.
Others have an mission
to fill their lives with cash.
Obsessions with possesions
and things that do not last.
But special ones have missions
and everlasting goals,
To love their friends and foes alike
and rectify their souls.
The mission of James Pickern
was similar and sweet
For if it was to warm a soul...
his mission was complete."
-Jameyel Johnson-
I will pray to the Lord for strength for the Pickern family in their time of need, but also for the calming of their souls. The time for mourning is now, but let us not stop progressing for James is in heaven now rejoicing forevermore. My sympathies to the Pickern family and all who knew James Pickern (a.k.a "Toni Boselli")
Tamara Johnson
November 9, 2002
To the Pickren family:
During this time, we must all look to almighty God for His source of strength and hope to get through this difficult time. We must not question God, "Why?" because of the trust we have in Him that this is all part of His perfect plan and He is in control. God will provide the compassion we need to get through this grievous time. I pray for God's mercy and strength upon you all and be encouraged because tomorrow will be a brighter day. My heart truly goes out to you all and I pray for God's blessings upon you all. Hopefully, this will all make us realize that we must be prayed up and ready because you never know when your life will be taken from you! James will be truly be missed!
My most deepest sympathy,
Tamara Junean Johnson
Stanton College Prep, c/o 03'
Brian and Erin Bradley
November 9, 2002
Julie, Chuck, and Chipper,
I don't have to tell you how much James' life affected everyone. He was an amazing person and I am so thankful for the time God shared him with us.
Even in his short life, he has already lived a legacy and many people will have a void in their lives without him here.
One of my fondest memories of him was when we were ushering at church a few weeks ago. He and Andy were dressed up in their dark suits and ties. They both put on sunglasses and stuck the hearing aids in their ears and posed as FBI agents.
They stood in front of the church with their arms crossed in front of them, not talking or moving, just acting out the part as FBI agents. You could see people slow down and look at them when they passed.
When the service was over, they came inside and stood behind Wayne as he greeted people out of the Church. Still, both James and Andy stood there, tall, emotionless, and 'playing their part'. The church loved it!
Whenever I think of James, his personality, and those huge, strong arms that were always there to give a nice, big hug, it makes my heart happy and brings back wonderful memories that I will never forget. I am sad that he will no longer be with us, but I know where he is and I know that God is holding him, and we will see him again one day.
My deepest sympothy is with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Brian and Erin Bradley
Carol Albury
November 9, 2002
Julie, Chuck and Chipper,
Please know that you all are in our prayers. May you all have peace in your time of sorrow and may you have comfort in the tribute to James that we have been hearing about and reading about since his tragic death. God bless you Julie, this mother's heart is broken for you and your family.
Love, Carol, Scott, Ben and Matt
RANDY
November 9, 2002
TO EVERYONE WHO KNEW J.T. GOD! SOMETIMES WANTS HIS ANGELS HOME EARLY.
Ms. Brown
November 9, 2002
I love you brothers and sisters in Christ. Your spirit is holy, and it is that indwelling spirit, which gives you the strength to carry on. Our Father is with you and blessing you. Peace & Love to you.
Rahshida Grant
November 9, 2002
To the Pickren family: I am a former cheerleader for Stanton, & though I predominatly only knew James through football games, whenever we did talk, no matter how short a period, he was always nice and generous. James had a shining light radiating from him, that caused everything to gravitate towards his positive force. James was, in one word, amazing.
To James' friends & classmates:
I want everyone to know that some how and some way, one day God will teach us how to cope with this senseless tragedy. Please know that I understand how you all feel due to the fact that one of my good friends, Lance Cohen, died about 6 months ago in a car accident. And now here I am, six months later, still unable to comprehend the fact that Lance will not be coming back. Maybe we'll sleep forever so that we may see them in our dreams.
Although James is gone we must try to remember that he is in a better place. A life lost too soon, one with great potential and promise. Like Lance, may James' soul meet with God. May he fly high above with the birds. May his spirit soar forever and ever. May he look down upon us and keep us safe now and forever.
Let us all remember that: "We are beautiful, no matter what they say, in every single way. We are the song inside the tune, full of beautiful mistakes. And everywhere we go, the sun will always shine." Lance and James are beautiful, no matter what anyone says.
Lance and James will be forever missed, may we never forget them, and always hold them close in our heart.
Michael Murray
November 9, 2002
I did not know James Pricken, but, his story has weighed heavily on my Heart. I have lost 2 of my greatest friend's this year to death, and it's a very hard thing to deal with. I wish to send my condolences to the Pricken family, to his Friends, and to his Team-mates on the Football Team.
God Bless You James Thomas Pricken, I did not know you, but heard you were one in a million.
Mikey :: [email protected]
Sanpri Purdy
November 9, 2002
I did not know James, but I did graduate from Stanton with his brother Charles. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of a student with such promise, and who according to many, was a beautiful personality as well. It makes me think so much about us as young people out on the road, I pray everyday that God keeps all of us safe because there is so much danger on the highways. This is the first time I remember ever hearing about a lost of a student at Stanton, and although I am now an alumni, it still tears me up, because of the fact he was one of our own. God bless the family, Charles, all of you.
Sanpri
Lauri Ellis-Harvey
November 9, 2002
Dear Julie
I am so sorry. I pray that Jesus will keep his arms around you all as I know they are already around your son.
Sincerely,
Lauri Ellis-Harvey
Connie Silverthorne Tanner
November 9, 2002
Julie,Chuck and Chip,
I am Kathy Simpson's cousin. I just wanted to express my heartfelt sympathy and let you know that we are praying for your family. I cannot imagine the pain you must be feeling. From reading this guestbook however, it is obvious that your son was very special and touched many people's lives. Your family will be included in the prayer vigil at our church all day tomorrow. Please know that we are thinking about you -Connie Tanner
Lori
November 8, 2002
No words seem adequate at a time of such sorrow, but my prayer is the presence of others who love and care for your family will bring comfort during the days ahead. For those of us who did not know James, it is certainly our misfortune, but he could only have been a reflection of the family who loved him and guided him to be the person he became. My prayers are with each of you knowing our God is big enough to handle our inability to understand. Julie, as a part of the SVs family, know we love you.
Seacoast Christian Academy
November 8, 2002
To the Pickren Family,
We did not know James. However, he has touched the lives of the students at S.C.A.
We will continue to pray for you. Our chapel services on Thursday and Friday had prayer for you. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. This has trully taught some of our students that the Lord is in control. We are sorry for your lose and we will continue to lift you up in prayer.
Seacoast Christian Academy
SAMANTHA williamson
November 8, 2002
LIFE'S REFLECTIONS
I KNOW THE NIGHT IS NEAR AT HAND;
THE MISTS LIE LOW ON HILL AND BAY,
THE AUTUMN LEAVES ARE DEWLESS, DRY;
BUT I HAVE HAD THE DAY.
YES, I HAVE HAD, DEAR LORD, THE DAY;
WHEN AT THY CALL I HAVE THE NIGHT,
BRIEF BE THE TWILIGHT AS I PASS
FROM LIGHT TO DARK,FROM DARK TO LIGHT.
TRUST IN THE LORD AND HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH. GOD BLESS YOU ALL
Jason Walo
November 8, 2002
To The Pickren Family: It has been a long time since I have last seen James. Probably back from the middle school days at Darnell Cookman. Since then I had only talked to him a couple times, nothing much, and now i regret it. Even then, James was a great guy to know, and to have as a friend. He will be greatly missed, not only by me, but by everyone whose lives that he'd touched. May you rest in peace James now that you are home.
Elaine Gills
November 8, 2002
My deepest sympathy to you all.
valerie
November 8, 2002
My condolences to the Pickren family. Words will never express the tremendous loss and pain of losing a child, especially someone as special as James. You are in our prayers.
Nancy, Brittany, Chelsea, and Taylor Newman
November 8, 2002
Julie, Chuck, and Chip,
Our hearts and prayers are with you as you move through this incredibly difficult time. We are here for you in any way we can be. The kids and I share happy memories of James every time we stop for a moment. I remember when Britt first joined youth and you always brought her home...I knew James would be walking her to the door making sure she was safe. I think back to our trip to Ichituknee(spell) and James coming back for me when I had trouble getting on my tube and then pulling me all the way down the river to you and Christi...he did everything for others just because...it was from his heart which was most definitely in direct unison with God. James is now in the loving arms of Jesus where he will continue his loving and humble ways...what a blessing he was and will always be. We love you all so much and will always be here for you. God bless and keep you...
Bridget
November 8, 2002
James was one of the sweetest people I had the pleasure of meeting. His caring and gentle nature made everyone love him. He will truely be missed and in the hearts and minds of everyone forever.
Amber Jensen
November 8, 2002
I am so very sorry to hear about the tremendous loss of such a wonderful person. James was always a pleasure to associate with. I will truly miss him. To Mr & Mrs Pickren and Chipper, I will keep you in my prayers. With love, Amber, David, & Kevin Jensen
Marlaine Mills
November 8, 2002
To the Pickren Family,
God will strengthen you during your time of great loss. May the holiness of James' life be a beacon to those that were blessed with his presence.
In Christ,
Marlaine and Keon Mills
Coach Fleury
November 8, 2002
My heart goes out to the Pickren Family. James was a great person. I'm glad I had the opportunity to know him and coach him. God Bless You. The Fleury Family
Bonnie Villarruel
November 8, 2002
Julie, Chuck and Chipper, my prayers are with your family. I know from working with you at STVMC Julie that your family has a strong faith base and this will see you through. My daughter Heather is a sophomore at Stanton and knew James.
I've only heard the nicest things about him and I know that God is watching over him now as well as you and your family.
Margaret Crum
November 8, 2002
Julie, Chuck and Chip,
My deepest sympathy to you all. Hearing about James' accident and then learning what a wonderful man he grew up to be has been both heartbreaking and uplifting. I knew him when he was a baby and cared for him until he started to school. I knew he would be special but never imagined how loved he was by all who knew him. May God watch over you all and help you through this extremely difficult time. You all have always been a wonderful family with the Love of God in your hearts and it showed in your every day living.
Stephen McFarlane
November 8, 2002
Sorry about what happened. I'll keep praying for the People James Left Behind
Bonifay Family
November 8, 2002
We are so very sorry for your loss. May God be with you all. You are in our prayers.
Bud, Sue, Savannah, Lindsey, Gary and Allison Bonifay
Peggy Jennings
November 8, 2002
I did not know James and that is my lose. What I have read about him he was a very special person. It seems he left a lot of good here that will go on. May the family find comfort in the Lord, He will guide you through this sad time. He is in a better place, it was his time to go Home to the Lord. May GOD bless you all.
Aleya Raoof
November 8, 2002
To James' Family: I met him through high school because of Jess and Josh Westfall. I am thankful that I got to meet such a kind person. He hung out with Jess and I a good bit throughout high school. I never heard him say anything bad about anyone. He was always so polite and kind. I give my deepest sympathy. I will pray for him, and I know he is in a better place. Always remember to be patient because God is always with you.
Adam Estes
November 8, 2002
My heart and prayers are with James and his entire family, they truly are an amazing family. I consider myself a very lucky and fortunate person to have known James and his parents so well. You'll always be remembered James in our hearts and minds.
LeAnn Anderson
November 8, 2002
To the Pickren household:
I can not convey to you how sorry I am for your loss, and I can not pretend to imagine what you are going through. Yet I know that with the help of family and friends you can get through this, and I just wanted you to know that the memory of James will live on for forever, for the great people of the world are never forgotten.
Danielle Knight
November 8, 2002
I look around Stanton and I wonder if you're going to be down the next hall. It feels so weird not to have you here. The entire school has pulled together for you in prayer and we can only wish you the best. You're in a better place. One cannot deny that fact. Today, there's going to be a ceremony for you at the game. The entire senior class will be there for support, for each other, for your parents, and for ourselves. It's amazing how everyone gets along now and tragic that it took this to get us there. Yet never the less, we follow by the example you taught so many James. Love thy neighbor. I am going to miss you so much and I can't wait to see you again. Your life was not in vein and you helped so many. We love you James and can only pray.
Barbara Fryer Marsee
November 8, 2002
Our love and prayers are with each
of James' loved ones in trying to
sort out God's plan in your lives
without him. Our families go way
back together and that is the bond
I feel as I write this. Sometimes
it's hard to understand what God
has in mind for us. We must put
our faith and trust in Him, though.
He never puts more on us than we can
handle, and His love makes us stronger.
Lovingly,
Barbara Fryer Marsee
Auburn, Alabama
Pat Hughes
November 8, 2002
Chuck, you and your family have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your son.
Your co-worker,
Pat Hughes
Aletha Gill
November 8, 2002
I met James through Nathan Settembrini and only talked with him a couple of times, but he certainly impacted me with his energy and his witness for the Lord.
My prayers are with his family and friends. Isaiah 26:3 tell us that He will keep us in perfect peace if we keep our mind on Him. I pray
that scripture over you. Trust in
the Lord. God Bless You.
Aletha Gill
Lori Sinnett
November 8, 2002
Julie...
I heard the news last evening while at work in the nursery at SVMC. I am so very sad for you and your family. Hearing your name brightened my evening but hearing the news made my heart hurt for you. I don't believe there is any greater heartache for a family. Trust in what you believe and know my heart is with you.
Darby Norman
November 8, 2002
May the love of Christ be with the Pickren family.
You are in our prayers...
With deepest sympathy..
Darby and Michael Norman
SIMON & KATHY MICHAEL
November 8, 2002
Julie, Chuck & Chip,
Our love and prayers are with you doing this very horrible time. God had some special plans for your angel and he will be very missed. We will keep you family in our prayers.
Love,
Kathy, Simon, Marie, Angela, Sammy & Emily
Susan Argentina
November 8, 2002
As James' middle school guidance counselor, I had the honor and priviledge to get to know James. He was an inspiration to all. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Ashley Roberts (Stanton c/o '99)
November 8, 2002
Charles (Jr.), I know it has been a while since we last talked, but I want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Rick Pickren
November 8, 2002
My deepest regrets for the tragic loss of a your son. As a father I can not fathom the pain you are going through. It is my loss that I did not know James, Its seems that he had many friends and people that loved him. I Thes: 4; 14-18
Sandra Tomlin
November 8, 2002
Chuck, Julie & Chip: May the Lord be with you in this time of need. He is the only one that has the answers. Jesus is giving you the comfort, spiritual strength, knowledge and wisdom you need to understand. James was like one of my own listening to Chuck talk about his children and seeing their pictures through the years. I am praying for you, your family and his friends. I love you all. Continue to grow in his God's word. Sandra T.
MEDICAL OUTPT. UNIT SVMC
November 8, 2002
TO THE FAMILTY OF THE LATE JAMES PICKREN, OUR PRAYER IS THAT GOD WILL COMFORT AND GIVE YOU STRENGTH AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME IN YOUR LIFE.
CHERYL, AVIS, KIM, CARLA, CYRSTAL, CHERYLL, TONI, JANICE, BEVERLY, TERLYN, MARY, RITA,
Sherry Bell
November 8, 2002
Julie, Chuck and Chipper, We know that James is with God now watching over all of his family, teammates and friends, just as he did while here with us. I was always looking for him before and after the games to see one of his great smiles. He touched and warmed many hearts including mine and Cary's. We were blessed to have known him and thank God for the little time we had with him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you constantly. Sherry and Cary Bell.
Patti & Dick Shannon
November 8, 2002
Julie, Chuck & Chipper:
Although we cannot be with you during this sorrowful time in your lives, please know that our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you.
May God comfort you with His Blessings upon you.
Sara Maddox
November 8, 2002
James will always been there as a constant reminder of all that's good in this world. I am extremely heart-broken for his parents and brother Chipper. I will never forget those many years. I now know there will be a familiar face and giant bear hug awaiting me on the other side.
Robin Pickett
November 8, 2002
My heart goes out to the family, friends and classmates of James. I do not know the family personally but have heard all the wonderful things people have told me about him. As a mother of two teenage daughters one a senior herself I can only offer prayers to help heal the sorrow everyone must be feeling. James has touch many of lives for a complete stranger to your family to hear about what type of Man he was.
This has touch the hearts of many in our community and we wanted to offer our prayers to each of you who knew and loved James. You will be in my prayers.
Robin Pickett
BARRINGTON McFARLANE
November 8, 2002
Jesus is the rock of our salvation, only he can comfort us in times like these. Our hearts go out to you
all.
The McFarlane's family.
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