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Daniel Monaco Obituary

As many of you have already heard, it comes in great sadness that on Sunday, Jan. 17, 2021, we lost Danny Monaco. There are no words to express the amount of sadness we are all feeling today. Our hearts are broken but just as Danny would want, we won't stop. The entire Hoffstot's family, both by blood and employment, have stepped up and we are all pushing forward, just as Danny would have demanded. To some, it's two restaurants, to many, they are so much more, two establishments. two landmarks. Danny didn't just own and run two places to eat, it was his vision, passion and hard work that created moments you'd never forget before you even had them. He spent his lifetime bringing happiness to others. We hear stories all the time from first dates that to led to marriages, engagement dinners, first birthdays and anniversaries, baby announcements, long-lost get-togethers, business meetings, random meet-ups, a little night out or just a happy hour after a long day or week. He did this for more than 49 years, nearly 18,000 days of moments that will never be forgotten. His personality was larger than life. He was a father, a boss, a leader, a constant and a teacher. He was honest, a straight shooter, a good man and an incredible friend. He never shied away from a confrontation or wouldn't hold back if you screwed up, but by God, he'd have your back in any situation and would help you whenever you needed it. It won't ever be the same without him but just know we're gonna keep going because of the things he instilled in all of us, the things he taught us and the foundation he built. He devoted his entire life to these restaurants and they were his passion. Danny, you never took a day off or stopped worrying about these places in nearly 50 years, so now, we need you to sit back, relax and keep an eye on us from above. We will forever love you and we'll always miss you. Dan served in the Navy during the Vietnam War from 1965-1967 on the USS Tidewater. He was the beloved son of the late Thomas and Lucy (Seppi) Monaco. He is survived by his former wife, Deb, who he remained friends with, daughters, Danielle M. Monaco and Dana Monaco, dear brother of Thomas (Fran) Monaco and Jerry (Janet) Monaco, nephew of Dolly Panucci, and is survived by the rest of their family, and uncle of Kevin (Lisa) Monaco and Greg Monaco. Friends and relatives will be received from 2 to 8 p.m. Thursday, Jan. 21, 2021, at the BURKET-TRUBY FUNERAL HOME CREMATION & ALTERNATIVE SERVICES INC., 421 Allegheny Ave., Oakmont. Masks and social distancing required. No more than 25 people are permitted in the funeral home at a time. Funeral service and entombment in Calvary Cemetery, Pittsburgh, will be private for the family. If desired, please consider a memorial contribution in his name to the Oakmont Chamber of Commerce, 504 Allegheny River Blvd., Oakmont, PA 15139, or Light of Life Rescue Mission,10 E. North Ave., Pittsburgh, PA 15212.

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Published by The Valley News Dispatch from Jan. 19 to Jan. 20, 2021.

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Albert Romagna

January 13, 2024

i worked for dan 87 to 1990 or so I loved working there. the staff was incredible wild bill freddie ,coopie and the man who ran the kitchen on cafe monaco side he was hilarious a hockey, metal music fan. Danny brought this family together he was a brilliant Restaurateur. I had mentioned to danny that I had done the first Allegheny county rib cookoff so the next 2 years we did the cookoffs.it would take all day to reminisce about these events but these memories will last a life time I still have pictures with Danny and I together at the rib cookoff. Danny was a hard working wild and crazy guy Danny's legacy for Quality and Perfection will live on forever

DAVID TROIANO

January 13, 2024

will always remember the good times we had together. Will never
forget the BROOM-

Vaughn Meese

March 6, 2021

I met Mr. Monaco twenty years ago at his restaurant. He sat down beside me and started talking with me. We exchanged the usual get to know you chitchat and had a very pleasurable conversation. After several moments talking with him, I realized what a genuine, kind and compassionate person this man was. I have never forgotten the chance meeting with this man and will always remember this unique individual. The world has lost a truly wonderful person.
I would like to give my condolences and sympathy to the Monaco family. Daniel is a fine man, I will never forget him. God bless his family and he Rest In Peace.

Jill MacLean

February 4, 2021

I have not seen Danny In a long time...But when I heard of his passing, my heart broke. I worked at Hoffstot's, and then Cafe Monaco, with Paula in the early 90's. I loved the Monaco family. I loved working there. I remember Danny sitting in the Big booth in the cafe, and Tommy after a busy night. They always asked how I was ...how was my family etc. This was an amazing time to work at Hoffstot's, the Stealers came in and it never stopped! I loved working there and Loved the Monaco family. I am so very sorry for your loss. He was an Amazing person. Danny was strict with how he wanted things done...but he had a heart of Gold. He was larger than life...and his presence lit up the place!! also made you stay on your toes! We had so many laughs and I have so many memories of him, Tommy, Fran and their Parents sitting together after work, counting tips and talking. It was a Special time, and I worked at the Best Restaurant for a wonderful family. My deepest Sympathy to Tommy, Fran, Debbie and your daughters. He will be missed by so many, I know that. I feel the loss in my heart and haven't seen him in a long time, That was the affect he had on people. I will never forget those days . God Bless you Danny and your family. Peace to you all. Jill Rogan MacLean.

Karen and David (Renk) Schultheis

January 25, 2021

Watching Danny transform Hoffstots from a fish sandwich spot to a fine dining Italian experience was amazing to watch. He used to call me his "Lettuce Queen" when I made the fresh salads and later I got to assist his Mom make the delicious cheesecakes. Every time my husband and I went back to Oakmont years later, a trip to Cafe Monaco for dinner was a must. On our last trip to the beautiful restaurant, Danny came in on his day off to greet us and buy us a drink. Cheers to you Danny and all the lives you touched in the community. Our deepest condolences to the Monaco family.
Karen (Renk) and David Schultheis

Ralph Cecere

January 22, 2021

A good friend from our childhood days for over 60 + years.Rest In Peace my friend. Prayers for you and your family.

Linda (Fair) Mullen

January 21, 2021

I was sad to hear of the sudden passing of Danny. I last saw him 2 years ago, when he came to pay his condolences at my dad Vinnie Fair’s funeral. My deepest sympathy and prayers to all the family. May he rest in peace.

Sandy Hoffmann

January 21, 2021

A little light went out in my heart when I heard that you passed. We grew up together as first cousins and then as Employer-Employee cousins. Thank you for your visits to me and my mother (Aunt Helen) when you came to Florida, it meant so much to the both of us. Your heart was bigger than life! Your work ethics were impeccable just like Grandpap Seppi. Working with you as most would agree, was an experience of dedication and passion to succeed. I wish we had more time to reflect on our times together. You are an Icon that will be missed by many. Until we meet again fly with the angels and give everyone my love.
Love,
Cousin Sandy-Rivetti Hoffmann

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Morgan Services

Sent Flowers

Stephen B. Shiring

January 21, 2021

I became friends of Danny through a mutual friend, Bill Jardine in the late 1980's. This relationship spanned working with Danny in the Pennsylvania Restaurant Association and frequently enjoying his personality and delicious food in his marvelous restaurants with our families. Special occasions, or just an unexpected stop at one of his restaurants always were a memorable experience, great food, wonderful service, and a stop by Danny at the table to make sure everything was exceptional. His smile, quick response, and the twinkle in his eye will always be remembered. Rest in Peace.

Verona Village Inn

January 21, 2021

Our deepest condolences to the entire Monaco family and employee’s of Danny. May he Rest In Peace.

Erin Kunish Leibert

January 21, 2021

To the entire Monaco family...I am so sorry for the loss of Danny. I had the pleasure of working at Hoffstots and have many good memories working with him. My love and prayers go out to all of you. Fly high Danny and may you RIP

Erin Kunish Leibert

January 21, 2021

To the entire Monaco family...I am so sorry for the loss of Danny. I had the pleasure of working at Hoffstots and have many good memories working with him. My love and prayers go out to all of you. Fly high Danny and may you RIP

Rudi Waros

January 21, 2021

Danny was one of the most wonderful people that I ever had the opportunity to get to know. As a contractor , he treated me with such fairness and encouragement. He will be missed by all. God Bless You Danny

Al and Carol De Renzo

January 20, 2021

Carol and I have great love and respect for Danny and the Monaco Family. Although distance keep us from visiting often, you all are always close in our minds and hearts ❤!

Love you,
Carol and Al De Renzo

Walter & Janice Butler

January 20, 2021

Words can't express the sorrow we feel of the loss of Danny.our friend for 60+ years.Rest in Peace Buddy.

Russ Miller

January 20, 2021

Well where to begin.I have known Dan for over 40 years .He was a great man in so many ways.I am so grateful for Dan's friendship his conversation s always great advice and the time for me no matter how crazy busy he was.I glad to have called Dan a good friend.He will be missed greatly.Bye for now Dan I will see you again thanks for everything

Russ Miller

January 20, 2021

Dan was a good friend and I have known him for over 20 years he is a great man to me and everybody.If I ever needed advise of something to talk about he always took the time for me my name's Col Russ Miller and I am glad to have called Dan my friend.

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The Regan Family

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Lorie & Ken Cuccaro

January 20, 2021

My condolences go out to the Monaco Family. I have known Dan for about 15 years. He was one GREAT guy. He was a good friend and Mentor to me throughout those 15 years. I will miss him dearly. My wife and I met at the corner of the bar at Hoffstot's and ended up getting married a few years later. We have so many great memories spent with Danny at both Hoffstot's and Chelsea. I also had the pleasure working on the Plumbing at both places for Danny over the years.
God Bless my Friend You will never be forgotten.

Love Lorie and Ken Cuccaro

Michelle Sullivan Fielding

January 20, 2021

Our deepest sympathy to the Monaco family, Danny was a kind and gracious man and he and Tom delivered a wonderful meal and visit to our family at every engagement at their fine restaurants. Danny will surely be missed. May the Holy Spirit comfort you at this time and may Daniel be at rest in God’s hands.

Sincerely,
Michelle Sullivan Fielding & Family

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Renee Loya

Sent Flowers

Frank Calandra, Jr.

January 20, 2021

Myself and the employees of Jennmar wish to extend our deepest sympathy concerning the death of Danny Monaco. Please send our condolences to his family and employees. Hoffstots is one of the top restaurants in Pittsburgh!

Dave Troiano

January 20, 2021

remembering all the great times we had growing up in the old neighborhood.

Ann Kozi

January 19, 2021

Our sympathies to the Monaco family. What a sad day. Knowing Danny for over 50 years he always had a friendly word , took time to say hello no matter how busy. Prayers are with you all. CAPPY and ANNIE

Conrad Calvano

January 19, 2021

Sorry to hear the news. Our condolences to Danny's family and to his brother Tommy and family. When I was able to travel to Pittsburgh from Michigan I would pickup Fr. Bill Fay and we would come to the restaurant for dinner. Danny was a gracious host along with Tommy.

Thoughts and prayers, Conrad Calvano

Carol &Pete (Flavio's Restaurant)

January 19, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Grace Tomichek

January 19, 2021

Danny was always so special to me as I recall our closeness when he was a small child. Having him as my cousin and an essential part of our family has meant so much to me. He was blessed with loving parents and brothers. Many happy memories are associated at the restaurant. Our condolences are extended to the whole family. We will miss him. Wonderful memories will always be with me!! Cousin Grace Tomichek

Albert Romagna

January 19, 2021

My name is Albert Romagna I worked for Danny and Tommy and wild Bill back in 88-89 I also had done the Allegheny rib cook off 2 years in a row with Danny. I loved working there and had a lot of respect for Danny it was a learning experience for me. I am retired but a few months ago I spoke to Danny about a job it was great to speak to him and hear his voice. Yes he was a wild man with a big heart. Danny will be missed

Marie (Hartman) Klein (Longmont, CO)

January 19, 2021

To the entire Monaco family: I am so sorry that we have lost Danny. I worked with Danny and Tommy and Tom Sr. for 8 years, especially during the transition from Hoffstots to Cafe Monaco and more. That was 50 years ago. What a privilege it was to work with the Monaco family, and especially Danny in the kitchen. They employed several members of my family (The Hartman's) as we worked our way through college and beyond. Danny was always a person of his word and always worked just as hard as what he expected from those who worked with him. His passing is a loss for many of us, but he leaves a legacy of those to whom he gave the opportunity to work hard and pursue their own dreams. His influence stretches far and wide. He will live on in the lives of many.

Joe Jezik

January 19, 2021

Lot of Years, Lots of Great Times and Great Memories, Going to Miss Ya Buddy, Jez & Charlene

Agnes and Tony Zaccari

January 19, 2021

Tony and I are so very sorry to hear of Danny’s passing. We enjoyed many meals in Hoffstots and Chelsea’s. Our condolences go to all his family and co workers. Rest In Peace . Agnes and Tony Zaccari

Maureen Sepe Howard

January 19, 2021

My sincere condolences to Jerry, Tommy and Franny.......I am so devastated by the news of his passing...My prayers and thoughts are with his family. He was a good friend of mine...we shared a lot of good times together in our younger days.....RIP, my friend......

Tony Hartman

January 19, 2021

My deepest sympathies and prayers to the entire family. I worked many years ago at the restaurant for a short period. Danny practiced “Management by Walking Around” and as a young college student, I witnessed the effectiveness of this style; to this day I reflect on this and practice “MBWA” regularly in my own career. He may not have known he was “schooling” me, but his lesson was well noted and has helped me in my own career. He always took an interest in me and my family when we would come to the restaurant and his hospitality is unrivaled. Thanks for the lesson Danny.

Herbert Fetzer and Daughter Patricia

January 19, 2021

Our deepest condolences to Danny's family. He will be greatly missed.

Living Spirit Dishgarden

Davison Family

Sent Flowers

Arlene Pushcar

January 19, 2021

So sad we lost Danny. He was always so kind to me and my family when we came to his restaurant. He will be missed by all. REST IN PEACE DANNY

Joel Hoffman

January 19, 2021

I first came to know Danny as a customer of our family business Penn Fixture and Supply, but he became a friend to our family. We spent many occasions at Hoffstot’s, Everyone liked him and as my father would say “ He was a real mensch”. My condolences to his family.

Gus Damian

January 19, 2021

We were very saddened to hear of Danny’s passing. We express our sincere condolences and sympathies to the Monaco family and the Hoffstot’s and Chelsea Grill families as well. I will remember Danny as the consummate professional in running his restaurants, along with his brother Tommy. Danny would also greet us at the table to say hi. Both restaurants are true Pittsburgh landmarks in serving consistently quality food and atmosphere that cannot be reviled anywhere. They are truly one of the most successful restaurants anywhere which is a great attribute to both Danny and Tommy. May he Rest In Peace with the Lord.

Gus and Mischele Damian

Bridget

January 19, 2021

Danny was always willing to help the little college girl. I learned a lot about business and life while working at Hoffstots. Praying for the family.

Charlene Anderson

January 19, 2021

My fiance was best friends with Danny. God bless you sir . You are above the clouds around every angel . Sleep now my precious one . CHARLENE And CO RUSS MILLER

Stephen Lorenz

January 18, 2021

So sorry to hear of this. He was a class act. Glad to have had him in our lives. RIP Dan. Prayers for the family.

Bill and Madeline Grill

January 18, 2021

Bill and Madeline Grill send our Condolences to Danny’s family. We are so very sorry for your loss

Dale Hindmarsh

January 18, 2021

Whenever you came into Hoffstotts, Danny would welcome you by name and in a way that immediately made you feel at home- and of course the food was always great!

Mara Visaya Loub (Smith)

January 18, 2021

Danny gave me, my sister and my son our first real jobs. He rarely took a day off. He was a great example of what work ethic should be. Working at Hoffstot’s and Chelsea Grille was like working with family. I enjoyed my time there. Prayers for his kids, Tommy, Fran and the rest of the family.

Rest easy Danny. Thank you for giving us a chance as kids.

Lynne Hollinger

January 18, 2021

OMG.....I AM IN SHOCK.....MY FAMILY AND I HAVE KNOWN HIM FOR 40PLUS YEARS....HOFFSTOTS WILL NOT BE THE SAME....PRAYERS FOR DANNYS FAMILY FRIENDS AND EMPLOYEES....RIP DANNY THANK YOU FOR YOUR KINDNESS THROUGHOUT THE YEARS.....

Donna Rozanski

January 18, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Larry and Donna Rozanski

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