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Gary P. Oswalt

1963 - 2019

Gary P. Oswalt obituary, 1963-2019, Lawndale, Calif.

Gary Oswalt Obituary

Gary Paul Oswalt, 55, of Lawndale, Calif., formerly of Apollo, passed away unexpectedly Thursday, Dec. 20, 2018, at the age of 55. He was born Feb. 8, 1963, in Pittsburgh. He is survived by his mother, Margaret Mary Stamm; his sister, Lisa Pattock; and his nieces, Alexis and Rachel Pattock. His father, Donald Gary Oswalt, preceded him in death. Gary was a graduate of Kiski Area High School, 1981, and the University of Illinois, class of 1986. After graduation, Gary moved to Lawndale, Calif., to pursue his career of more than 31 years in computer science engineering, where he was employed by Northrop Grumman as an aerospace engineer. Becoming a quadriplegic at the age of 16 from a diving accident, Gary was the president of the South Bay Chapter of the Spinal Cord Society. He was an advocate of stem cell research and other research dedicated to the cure for spinal cord injuries. Gary will be remembered by his family and friends as a positive role model and someone who was an inspiration to everyone he met. He will be missed dearly by all.
Burial services will be held Saturday, May 18, 2019, at the Smicksburg Cemetery, in Smicksburg, Pa.
Donations may be made to the Spinal Cord Society, www.scsus.org.

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Published by The Valley News Dispatch on Mar. 19, 2019.

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April 3, 2020

So very sorry to hear this news. I met Gary back in the 90's, and throughout the years, we got in in touch from time to time? I tried to IM him at work today, and when I couldn't, I got this sinking feeling, which I am sad to day proved true.

Gary was my hero. Against all the odds, he lived though his doctors had given up on him, got and education, and worked every day, despite being a quad. Gary rose above and overcame challenges that would have stopped most of us. I actually thought that he was a paraplegic when I first got to know him. But Gary showed me how he had strengthened his shoulder muscles to enable him to use his hand some. He was a remarkable and smart man. Knowing Gary enriched my life.

Farewell my hero. I will always remember you, and I will always love you.

Barbara Walker

Ronnie Lopez

May 16, 2019

Gary I'm really shock the you not here anymore why u left us so soon I can't stop crying because I love the best man best friend ever I really miss u hope see u soon I'll love u and miss u forever

Jason Schroeder

April 17, 2019

I've known and worked along side Gary for years at TRW early in career and he was such a help to me as I learned from him. I have such fond memories of him and routinely had great conversations with him over the years when I would see him at the local cafeteria. I offer my sincere condolences to Gary's family and friends. I am truly a better person because of Gary and will remember him in my heart.

March 24, 2019

My sincere condolences to family and friends. May the God who binds up the brokenhearted and comforts all who mourn, sustain your family during this difficult time - Isaiah 61:1, 2.

Douglas Campbell

March 21, 2019

This is truly a shock. Gary worked along side me for four years at TRW and Northrop Grumman. I offer my condolences to Gary's family and other friends.

March 19, 2019

Dear Peggy and Lisa,
I was soooo shocked to see that Gary had passed away. Couldn't believe that he was 55. Guess I am just stuck in time to when you all just lived down the road. I trust that God will allow your happy memories to help you through the days ahead. I think of you often. I misplaced your telephone #'s. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Peace & Blessings +++ Jamille Tomnay

Mark Gibson

March 19, 2019

Hey Gary,It's been a long time since we saw one another in high school. I figure since you were in computer science, you would find some way to access the internet from heaven. lol I remember our friends organizing a benefit concert to help raise money for a wheelchair lift for you. I had written you a song and performed it during the show. I want you to know that I have dedicated my life and music to helping others. I have to thank you for inspiring me to give, and to never give up! Thank you for your kindness and friendship. Rest easy.
Musically yours with love,
Mark "Gibby" Gibson

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