Jay R. Kretzing

Jay R. Kretzing obituary, Lexington Park, MD

Jay R. Kretzing

Jay Kretzing Obituary

Published by Decker-Givnish Funeral Home on May 30, 2022.
Jay R. Kretzing of Lexington Park, Maryland passed away peacefully surrounded by family on May 30th, 2022, he was 65 years old. He was born in Bethpage, Long Island, NY to the late John (Jack) and Roslyn (Litz) Kretzing. Jay is survived by his wife Debbie (VanValkenburg) and his brothers Wayne (Denise) and Bruce (Laurel). He is preceded in death by his late brother John. Jay had 5 nieces and nephews. Sarah Preven (Matt), Annmarie Kretzing, Christine Mitchell (Mark) Richard Churak (Ester) Thomas Churak (Heather) Jay started his love of aviation at a young age he was a member of the Civil air patrol in long Island New York. He earned a college scholarship from Grumman Aircraft Engineering Corporation. He continued on to college at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute where he graduated with a Masters Degree in Aerospace engineering. Jay worked for Grumman together with his father John (Jack) for 7 years. He then went to work for NADC Warminster (Johnsville) until 1996 when he transferred to NADC Lexington Park Maryland, where he stayed until he retired in 2020. When Jay moved to Lexington Park, he searched for something to do with his time. That's where he found the Lexington Park volunteer rescue squad which quickly became a second family for him and Debbie. Countless hours spent serving his community and making lifelong friendships. Jays love for all things rescue squad was evident to anyone who had a chance to speak with him. Jay recently became a life member of the rescue squad and he was so proud. Jay loved music he played the flute, piccolo and trombone. Jay also loved to sing in the church choir. He was in the choir at Plainview reformed Church in NY, Hatboro Baptist Church in Hatboro PA and most recently Patuxent Presbyterian Church in Lexington Park MD. Relatives and friends are invited to Jay's Life Celebration at Patuxent Presbyterian Church 23421 Kingston Creek Road, California, MD 20619 On June 3rd, 2022 from 6:00 PM until 8:00 PM and the next day on June 4th, 2022 from 10:00 AM until the time of his service at 11:00 AM. There will also be a viewing that will take place at Decker-Givnish Funeral home 216 York Rd, Warminster, Pa 18974. On June 11th from 9:30 AM until 10:30 AM Interment to follow at Whitemarsh Memorial Park in Horsham PA. Services will be livestreamed at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSNG_zjGBUA In lieu of flowers please make donations in memory of Jay to Lexington Park Volunteer Rescue Squad, INC PO Box 339 Lexington Park, Maryland 20653

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June 4, 2022

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David Tustin

June 1, 2022

Debbie,
Sorry for your loss.
Jay was an exceptional and good person to work with on a daily basis.

Debbie Kretzing

June 1, 2022

Love you Jay and I always will

cheri kroon

June 4, 2022

Our prayers are with Debbie, Wayne and Bruce. We are so thankful for all that the Kretzing was to us; their love of Christ, commitment to the church and enduring friendship.

Blessings,
The Plainview Reformed Church Family

Kenneth Seltzer

June 4, 2022

Jay was a friend of mine during our youth in Church and Sunday School at the Plainview Reformed Church on Long Island NY. Two years older than me, I remember playing softball together with the youth group. It was in the mid-eighties that both Jay and I were nominated to be on the consistory as Deacons at the Plainview Reformed Church. We were by the far the youngest on the consistory. As they said we brought new "New blood" onto the consistory. I was fortunate to join Wayne and Jay on many of those white water rafting trips. Jay will truly be missed by all his family, community, and his many friends. He served the Lord well and left this earth too soon.

Donna Voorhaar

June 4, 2022

Jay was a good friend. He and Debbie ran with me on the ambulance numerous times. He was very caring, compassionate, and thoughtful to everyone. Jay you will be missed.

Ray DeMarco

June 3, 2022

I was one of Jay's co-workers at Pax River for many years. His engine performance modeling expertise & eager willingness to share were greatly appreciated. Very sorry that he didn't get the long, enjoyable, & restful retirement that he deserved. Sincere condolences & prayers to family.

Hattie Norris

June 2, 2022

Our sincere condolences to Jay's family amd rescue squad family.

Chrystal Oates

June 2, 2022

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. Jay ran on the ambulance with me often. He is missed. He loved serving his community.

Edward Herbst

June 2, 2022

My prayers are with the family and my sincere sympathy. Wayne Kretzing is a friend and brother in Christ Jesus and he also attends my Bible Study.

Frank Yelinek

June 2, 2022

We used to bowl with Jay in Warminster...very sorry to hear of his loss-Frank & Beth Yelinek

Bill Schork

June 1, 2022

Jay and I used to bowl together in Warminster. He was a good bowling and lead our team to a league championship.
Plus I also worked with Jay at Pax. My branch dependent on Jay for his through analysis of engine performance. Without Jay's dedication my branch couldn't do our job.
I hope the best for Jay's family.

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