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DEMER, Louis Joseph peacefully entered eternal life at age 98, on Sunday February 4, 2018, surrounded by his family. He was born on July 11, 1919, to Maude Murray and Jacob Demer, in Honesdale, PA. He attended Notre Dame and graduated with a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering and M.S. in Aeronautical Engineering. After being drafted by the U.S. Navy in 1944, Lou taught Materials at Syracuse University, NY, and then earned his Ph.D. in Metallurgical Engineering at the University of Minnesota. There, Lou met the love of his life, Mary Jeanne Ochs and they married on September 11, 1954. They lived briefly in Minneapolis, MN, and Towson, MD. In 1959, they moved to Tucson, AZ, where Lou began his 37-year career as a Professor of Metallurgy (later Material Science and Engineering) at the U of A. Lou was a founding and prominent, active member of St. Frances Cabrini Catholic parish. His unwavering religious faith and convictions, which he shared with his wife Mary and exemplified for his children, guided every aspect of his life. Louis Demer was preceded in death by his wife of 54 years and is survived by sons, Joseph (Melissa), Daniel, Thomas (Melanie), William (Kim), Frank (Martha), David (Shirley), and Karl (Stacie); daughter, Jeanne; 22 grandchildren; and four great-grandchildren. A Funeral Mass will be held on Saturday, February 17, 2018, at 1:00 p.m. at St. Frances Cabrini Church, 3201 E. Presidio Road, followed by a reception at the church hall. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the St. Vincent de Paul Society, St. Frances Cabrini Conference or Louis J. Demer Endowed Scholarship Fund, College of Engineering, U of A.

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Published by Arizona Daily Star on Feb. 11, 2018.

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Rebecca

November 18, 2018

Louis. Thank you for the love you bring. Your faith was great. Your so smart. We will miss you. I love you. See you in heaven someday. Sorry family for your loss. He truly was a good man. Hard to replace him. God bless

Celeste Kawulok

November 17, 2018

My prayers to you and your family, Joe. I am so sorry for your loss and I am sure your family has many wonderful memories of your father to keep him nearby always.

Mark Ochs

November 16, 2018

To my dear Uncle Lou: Thank you for watching over me now and thanks for introducing me to Johnny Unitas in Towson, Maryland. I love you, Uncle Lou. -- Your loving nephew, Mark Ochs.

John Bir

March 12, 2018

We send our love and prayers to the Demers. Mr. & Mrs. Demer took care of us and loved us like family too. Their love, cheerfulness, generosity, humor, compassion, and high standards were beyond compare, and their own children have continued this exceptional legacy. Blessings on all the Demers and thank you all for making the world a much better place!

Ellen Liebhaber Murphy

February 22, 2018

Joe and Family,

My prayers are with you as you grieve the loss of your father.

Father Jim Modeen

February 19, 2018

I am so sorry for the loss of Lou Demer. Had many good times with him and Mary and she would send me a card on my birthday each year and when she passed he picked up the pace and would mail a card to me. My prayers are with you. May he and Mary enjoy eternal life.

Randi Kisiel

February 17, 2018

Jeanne and family,
A Wonderful service for an extraordinary man! I have many fond CT memories of both of your parents. Much love and light to him as he continues his journey.

February 16, 2018

Tom and Family,

My prayers are with you. I took metallurgical engineering class from your dad. He was a great professor.

Eric Thomson

Kim Nottingham

February 16, 2018

When I think about him, I can't help but recall the note from Lou I kept taped near my computer for years. In it he thanked me for mentioning his accident in our newsletter and wishing him a speedy recovery on behalf of all of us in the Tucson Community Tennis Program. I remember thinking: Wow, here's a man who gets hit by a car and finds a reason to write a thank you note. That is a very positive person!

Lou was an inspiration to all of us. The TCTP children adored him. I hate to think he was the last of his kind. But if there are more out there like him, they are few and far between.

My husband, Bruce, and I extend our sincere condolences to your entire family. Our lives were brightened by having known Lou.

Celeste E Kawulok

February 16, 2018

Joe and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you all grieve the death of your father. He lived a long and wonderful life. May the good memories stay with you forever.
Celeste Kawulok 73

February 16, 2018

The members of The Society of St. Vincent de Paul send heart-felt condolences to his family. Lou was our Spiritual Advisor for many years (many hand-outs !!) and in his last years took care of our daily paperwork. He will be greatly missed. We loved him and loved his always smiling face.
Lynn Shisler, SVDP

February 16, 2018

Wonderful man and father. Many joyful memories to celebrate. Prayers and thots are with the Demer family. Tom Hughes

Salpointe Catholic High School

February 15, 2018

The Salpointe Catholic High School community extends deepest sympathy to the Demer family. You are in our prayers at this difficult time.

Julia & Phil Rosen

February 15, 2018

Dear Frank and Martha,

Sending many prayers for peace and strength to you and your family.
Take good care,

Julia & Phil

Xu Lu

February 14, 2018

Dear Frank and Demer family,
Sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Steve Holland

February 14, 2018

I only met Dr. Demer a few times, but worked with his son Frank for many years at the UA. Dr. Demer always struck me as someone who was brilliant, yet incredibly humble and gracious. Those traits are shared by his son Frank. What a tremendous legacy he and Mary leave behind! Wishing all of the Demer family peace during this time of loss, yet knowing that his life here on Earth should be celebrated!

Joanna Robertson

February 14, 2018

Dr. Demer was such a wonderful teacher! He taught in a very visual way to help us to understand the material. I admired him greatly for his sincere faith and the joy with which he approached teaching!

EDWARD MENDEZ

February 13, 2018

Frank and Family..My thoughts and prayers to your Fathers soul..God Bless you..

February 13, 2018

A long time bowling friend who will be missed by all who knew hm.

Walt Roberson

Louis Schlesinger

February 11, 2018

I had the privilege of Dr. Demer's instruction as an undergraduate in metallurgical engineering in the early 1970s. His classes and laboratories were impeccably organized, challenging, and rewarding to me. And he was unfailingly patient and kind, with an undercurrent of joy. I was blessed with many professors who obviously enjoyed their work but none more than he. May Heaven's road rise up to meet you, Dr. Demer.

John Rodgers

February 11, 2018

Lou was one of my professors in metallurgy during my undergrad and postgrad time there over 67 to 73. He taught me the field of nondestructive testing, which became my life's work after a brief USAF career. He also employed me as a graduate student on a research grant. I have nothing but fond memories of Lou. The last time I saw him was at the UofA Engrg Scholarship reception 5 yrs ago. He was there with one of his sons on behalf of his own memorial scholarship, and I had just established one in the name of Tom Morris, the dept head in metallurgy during my time there. Lou will always be remembered as a kind and considerate gentleman, and an excellent instructor. My sincere condolences to his family and friends on his passing. His memory and life example will carry on through the legacy of his family .

Jerry Cashman

February 11, 2018

I am very sorry to learn of Dr Demer's passing. He was one of my professors at the University if Arizona and have many fond memories attending his classes and working with him as he guided all of us to our metallurgical careers. I always greatly appreciated his talents and managed to see him a few times over the many years since I graduated. Always a gentlemen and a fine person and engineer.

My sincerest condolences to the family.

Kathy Hayes

February 11, 2018

What a marvelous man. I have heard stories all my years of knowing Tom his son and Mr Demer had so much energy and discipline. May all his family and friends find grace and comfort knowing Mr Demer accomplished and gave so much in his life. Let the good memories continue forever

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