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John Philip Dunfey

1924 - 2020

John Philip Dunfey obituary, 1924-2020, Hampton, NH

BORN

1924

DIED

2020

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Lowell, Massachusetts

John Dunfey Obituary

Founder and Chairman, Global Citizens Circle; Founder and CEO, Omni Hotels International; Owned and Renovated Parker House (1968-1988)

John Philip Dunfey, a World War II veteran who dedicated much of his life to fostering world peace and social justice, died at age 96 on June 22, 2020, in Hampton, NH. Known as 'Jack' to friends, he spent decades of behind-the-scenes work in support of causes such as the peace process in Northern Ireland and human rights efforts in South Africa, Cuba, Central America, South America, and the Middle East. Notably, Dunfey spearheaded his family's efforts in 1974 to launch Global Citizens Circle. Originally known as New England Circle, the not-for-profit entity continues its mission almost 50 years later to "...gather diverse, intergenerational voices addressing critical issues and building the trust needed for sustainable change in ourselves, our nation, and our world."

Dunfey was born in Lowell, MA, on January 7, 1924, to former millworkers, Catherine A. Manning and LeRoy W. Dunfey. The fifth of twelve children, Jack began his work career as did all his siblings at a very young age in his parents' small luncheonette in the Acre section of Lowell.

After graduating from Lowell's Keith Academy, Jack joined the U.S. Air Force in 1943, attaining the rank of first lieutenant while serving as a B-24 and B-29 pilot instructor. Following his honorable discharge in 1946, he earned his bachelor of science degree in business at the University of New Hampshire in 1952.

He also led his family's business. From 1950 to 1988, the enterprise expanded from New England-area luncheonettes, clam stands, and pizza shops to the Dunfey Hotel Corporation, whose hallmark became refurbishing downtrodden inner-city hotels. When the Corporation acquired Omni Hotels International-with its dozens of properties worldwide, including London and Paris-Jack kept the corporate headquarters rooted in Hampton, NH, to help preserve the close employee-management relationship that was so much a part of the early family business.

The acquisition and restoration of the historic Parker House Hotel in Boston in 1968 - in the era of assassinations, the Vietnam War, and Civil Rights Movement - provided Jack and his siblings a prominent base to advance their beliefs in social justice. For many years, he led human rights missions into neglected corners of the world with his personal goal of releasing political prisoners. His favorite saying was: "We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." He was kind, thoughtful and generous with his immediate and extended family and with the larger human family.

The missions to Cuba, for his meetings with Fidel Castro, led to the release of 87 prisoners, the removal of landmines in Angola, and the freeing up of food supplies to enter Ethiopia.

While a staunch Democrat, Jack was noted for working across party lines to achieve his objectives. In 1984 President Ronald Reagan, a staunch Republican, appointed Dunfey as one of the nine-member commission founders of the United States Institute for Peace, tasked with promoting conflict resolution and peace worldwide.

Jack was also a founding board member of the American Ireland Funds. He and his brothers, Bob and Walter, were recognized as bridge-builders and advocates of cross-community dialogue during the Troubles in Northern Ireland. When John Hume and David Trimble were awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1994, they invited Jack and Bob to travel with them and their families to Oslo.

That same year, Jack was also appointed an independent, international monitor in South Africa's historic first election of Nelson Mandela as president.

Jack is survived by his wife, Lisa Timpe Dunfey, Boston, MA; three children, Susan Dunfey, Rye, NH; David Dunfey, Sebastian, Florida; Stephen Dunfey, Portsmouth, NH; and three siblings, Eileen Dunfey Robinson, Bradenton, Florida; Jerry Dunfey and his wife, Nadine Hack, Lutry, Switzerland; Eleanor Dunfey and her husband, James Freiburger, Exeter, NH; and many nieces, nephews and cousins whom he cherished.

Jack was preceded in death by his son, Philip; and Joan Lannan Dunfey, the mother of his children, as well as eight siblings: Roy, Paul, Kay, Mary, Bud (Bill), Robert (Bob), Richard (Dick), and Walter.

Because of COVID-19 restrictions, the family plans a memorial to celebrate Jack's life at a later date,

In lieu of flowers, the family requests a contribution to support the continued mission of Global Citizens Circle, 661 Douglas St, Manchester, NH 03012; https://globalcitizenscircle.org/donate

The Dana Farber Cancer Institute, Boston, MA or The Ireland Funds of America.

E-condolences at www.odonnellfuneralhome.com. Arrangements by the O'DONNELL FUNERAL HOME in LOWELL, MA - (978) 458-8768.

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Published by Union Leader on Jul. 1, 2020.

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Maureen

June 25, 2024

I was assigned to Mr Dunfey as a visiting nurse to do dressing to his wound. He was wonderful. As we began to chat, we soon found out that we had something in common. Sister Julie. It brought him to tears. I had explained that I went to Notre Dame Academy and that my favorite teacher was Sr. Julie. He stated that she was his sister. Next day I arrived to change his dressing, he told me he had contacted his sister by phone and I actually was able to speak to her directly. I am forever grateful for his kindness and all the wonderful memories of my childhood. Thank you Mr.Dunfey for everything. May you rest in peace in the arms of the Lord. Maureen Grady Clancy

Paul Keenan

June 25, 2024

Great guy ! I am blessed to have known Jack ! I remain a true friend of Jack´s son Steve

Geri Critchley

September 5, 2020

In 1993 (or 1994), my two children (ages 10 & 12) and I lived in Bob Dunfey’s home in Ballyferriter on the Irish- speaking Dingle Peninsula for the Fall semester. They attended school, and we soaked in the Irish culture and geographic beauty. Bob met us at the house with flowers and a bottle of champagne. I was so impressed by his caring and generosity. Those four months on the Dingle Peninsula awoke in us the rich history of our Irish heritage- Lughnasa, St Brendan who “discovered America”, 6th century monks and monasteries, beehive water-tight stone huts,: “ saving civilization”, Blasket Islands and its unique history and the acclaimed music, poetry and literature. The Dunfey family certainly has and continues to contribute in so many key issues of the day and to all they meet. The Dunfey spirit lives on. With deep appreciation,
Geri Critchley
geri.critchley@ gmail.com
202-378-6416
Washington, D.C.

Maureen Benoit

July 23, 2020

Mr Duffey was a patient of mine. I did home visits. One day I asked him if he was related to the Dunfey family. He chuckled as why I had asked. I told him that when I went to Notre Dame Academy, I had a teacher that I will always remember and her last name was Dunfey. My favorite teacher was Sister Julie. She was beautiful and so sweet. He stared at me and was tears eyed. He said Sister Julie is my sister. We both were shocked and I realized it was definitely an intervention to meet this wonderful man. On my next visit, Mr Dunfey told me he spoke to Sister Julie and asked if I minded if he called her while I was there. Of course I wanted to speak to her and thank her for being so wonderful to me as a small little girl in first grade. Thank you for your wonderful family and may you rest in the arms of our Lord Jesus Christ

Jennifer Lessard-Chaudoin

July 19, 2020

Jack was friends with my dad, Bill Lessard, from Hampton. When our dad died the Dunfey family generously hosted his funeral reception at Lamies. That was a telling situation of what kind of friend Jack was.

Jephson Hilary

July 17, 2020

My time with Dunfey Hotels was an exciting and rewarding experience, although baffling at times. Ernie Byfield, founder of the Ambassador East, Chicago in 1923 puts it best: "A hotelman must be a master of opposites. He must greet and bounce, be pious yet ribald, know interior decoration and bartending; understand the arrangement of flowers and the disposal of garbage; he should appreciate music but encourage quiet; be noted as a connoisseur and be competent as a plumber; he must walk with beauty (but only walk with it). Only a man of loose moral character should accept the job".

Thank you, Jack, I enjoyed every minute of it!

ANNE SEPE

July 13, 2020

Growing up my father, Matt Sepe and my uncle Mario Sepe would tell stories of their adventures working for the Dunfey Family. Know exactly on Broadway where the restaurant was. They had such fond memories. My uncle Mario continued to work for them at Hampton Beach and Durham, NH before becoming a police officer.
Rest in Peace

Rita Dussault

July 13, 2020

What a wonderful Man what a wonderful life. I grew up in Lowell Mass and always heard about the Family. Ate in that small restaurant when it belonged to someone else and heard how now they had become bigger but were a very nice family. MaY he Rest In Peace.

Woody Woodworth

July 12, 2020

I always enjoyed his smile and his laugh.I remember his very original ski technique in Waterville and Zermat,happy trails,Jack !

Martha Gallagher

July 6, 2020

I spent many glorious days sailing up and down the Eastern seaboard, and in the Caribbean with Jack, as part of the crew on his beautiful yacht The Last Hurrah. He was an avid sailor, adventurer and a kind and generous man. Oh, the fun times we had and the wonderful people who traveled with us! I will always be grateful to him for giving me the opportunity to work for such a great man, and seeing first -hand, his mission to make the world a better place.He will be missed.

Philomena o Connor

July 3, 2020

Condolences to Eleanor and Eileen and all his family...Rest In Peace Jack.

July 2, 2020

To the Dunfey Family:

On behalf of a grateful nation, and the Department of NH, VFW/Auxiliary District #7, we wish to acknowledge your loved one's service to our country, and send our deepest condolences on your loss.

District #7 Chaplain,
Cathy Burns

George Bruno

July 1, 2020

Jack, along with Bud and Walter, were among the rare benefactors and original ardent party stalwarts when I was chairman in the 1980s. I was greatful for his support which help lay the foundation of today's modern NH Democratic Party.

Burt Cohen

July 1, 2020

What a great man. His legacy lives on.

Paul Keenan

July 1, 2020

Steve and The Dunfey family so sorry for your loss . It was truly great to work at DFC and be around all the Dunfey family !!!
With deepest sympathy
Paul Keenan

July 1, 2020

Mr.Dunfey, Thank you for your service around the world RDM Windham NH

Tish Dunfey Hoyt

June 30, 2020

My Uncle Jack was a wonderful, nice, funny and generous man. I was fortunate growing up to be close to Jack and his sons and daughter, my cousins. We would often come to their house and hang out and have fun. Later, we would meet up in Waterville Valley at his Village Condo G-Building and at Forest Rim. We would gather for Halloween with best friends Donald and son Philip and Sue. On New Years Eve, we would all come together at Bull Hill for a toast to the New Year and a Fireworks show no matter how cold!! Everyone would show up and pass out candles to light the path and champagne glasses for anyone that trudge up the hill in the cold and the snow. Small clementines would be added to each glass and champagne would be poorer on top. It was a spectacular way to bring in the New Year with my Uncle Jack, great friends and cousins. We would finish off the evening with singing and merriment. Jack always bought the cases of champagne to share with all who came!
At Christmastime, Lisa and Jack would invite us over for a wonderful appetizer and cocktail party. Jack would show off his spectacular train set and my son Gordon would watch and play with it for hours. Jack enjoyed showing his love of trains to my son.
Jack loved his family and getting together for family reunions. He along with his siblings made sure to keep the reunions reoccurring year after year. This was a great way to keep our family close and for all of us to know each other and enjoy each others company.
The Tom Foolery that went on when we all got together was contagious and we had loads of fun!! I was lucky enough to organize several of the family reunions in Waterville Valley with Tom. Jack was always their to encourage me to keep the cost down, compare prices and get the best deal for tent rentals, silverware, tablecloths and entertainment. Jack would always pay the bill for these fun get togethers.
Jack was a fun guy to be around! He loved joking around and entertaining.
I will remember my Uncle Jack fondly and will think of him often. This winter I will make sure to grab the first chair and honor the many times he did this at the Waterville Valley Ski Area. I love you Jack and I will miss you but will remember all the fun you showered on us! Love, Tish (The Hoyt Gang)
Big Hugs to my cousins Sue, Stephen, David. To my Dad-Jerry, Aunt Eileen and Eleanor and to Lisa..so sad so sorry. He will be greatly missed!

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