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Brendan Burns Obituary

Brendan M. Burns, Manchester, NH Asst Fire Chief, 45, of Londonderry, NH, died unexpectedly Sept. 29, 2020 in Pelham, NH.

He was born in Nashua, NH on June 2, 1975 a son of Kevin P. Burns and the late Mary F. (Norton) Burns who died Nov. 30, 2017.

Assistant Chief Burns had been a member of the Manchester Fire Department since 1996. He was promoted to Lieutenant in 2004, Captain in 2013 and District Chief in May of 2016. On September 29, 2019, he was promoted to Assistant Fire Chief.

Assistant Chief Burns served as the City of Manchester's Assistant Director of Emergency Management. He held a master's degree in leadership from Granite State College, a B.S. in Emergency Services Management from Granite State College as well as an Associate's Degree in Fire Science from Lakes Region Community College. He was also a graduate of the State of NH Public Supervisor program, Certified HazMat Technician, Fire Service Instructor III, Certified Incident Safety Officer and a Nationally Registered Emergency Medical Technician. He was a 2013 recipient of the NH Union Leader's "40 under 40" award and was twice recognized as the Manchester Firefighters Local 856 "Member of the Year." Brendan's first love was the fire department. He volunteered his time as a member of the fire department coordinating boot drives for the Muscular Dystrophy Association, coaching Special Olympics, and implementing a car seat safety inspection program.

Brendan was a long-time resident of Merrimack before moving to Londonderry, NH where he became an active member of the community. Besides his family, he loved nothing more than his softball coaching and community. Brendan was the EVP of Softball for the Londonderry Athletic Field Association, President of Londonderry Lightning travel softball league, Londonderry Middle School softball coach, and a New England Fusion Fast pitch 16U coach. Brendan always considered the softball fields his second home. All the kids he had the privilege to coach, parents and other coaches were all his extended family.

In addition to his father, Brendan is survived by his wife of 17 years Elisabeth (Klein) Burns; three children Riley, Regan, and Connor Burns all of Londonderry, NH; a sister Lindsey Rondeau and her husband Scott, and three nephews Daniel Lavigne and Kyle and Owen Rondeau.

There will be a Firefighter Walk-Through at 1500 hours on Oct. 7. Firefighters wishing to participate in the Firefighter Walk-Through shall assemble at the Merrimack High School parking lot no later than 1430 hours. Members will walk approximately 1/2 mile from this staging area to the Funeral Home. Uniform of the day is Class A with cover, white gloves, and mourning badge tab.

Calling hours will be held in the Rivet Funeral Home, 425 Daniel Webster Hwy, Merrimack, NH on Wed Oct. 7, 2020 from 5-8 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held in St. John Neumann Church, 708 Milford Rd, Merrimack Thursday at 10 AM. Due to covid-19 limitations, seating in church will be limited and restricted. Outside area will be available to set up personally provided seating. Burial at Reed Cemetery will be private.

**All attendees of the wake and funeral mass are mandated to follow Covid-19 procedures, face coverings are MANDATORY and social distancing will be enforced ** Due to the large attendance anticipated, please proceed through the condolence line and leave the funeral home premises so parking spaces and others attending can pay their respects in a timely manner**

Calling hours parking for by elderly and handicapped only with a state issued permit will be available in the Funeral home parking lot.

Overflow wake parking will be available at the Merrimack High School at 38 McElwain St. and Watson Park at 447 D.W. Hwy.

To leave an online condolence for the family, please visit rivetfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Leader on Oct. 4, 2020.

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Margie & Richard Beaudoin

October 9, 2020

We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. RIP Brendan. You will be missed.

Maggie Sewade

October 8, 2020

Thank you for your many years of service sir.

ROBERTA GUERTIN

October 8, 2020

To the Burns Family,

I wish you prayers and well wishes in this time of sorrow.
Rest in Peace Brendan, you will be missed

The Guertin Family

Brandy Killelea

October 8, 2020

Lisa, Riley, Regan and Connor, words fail to express our sorrow for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts, and in our hearts.

Karen Norton

October 7, 2020

To All blessed to know and have loved him, As his cousin, I grew up with Bren. Shared my toys because I was a tom boy. As a kid, he hated having his picture taken yet somehow I have a few. Even though I was just a bit older, I looked up to him all along. He was a dependable, smart and strong and man... was he funny. I am sending all my love to Kev, Linds, Lisa and BBs kids. May you all know how much love and comfort so many are sending you. Brendan is with you all. He will never be far away.

Mike Angiulo

October 7, 2020

Hello Lisa. I was very sad to hear the news about Brendan. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. This news brought back memories of our work time together and I pray that you are able to get through this difficult time with the same strength and compassion that you showed me when we worked together. Just know that your family and friends will be there when you need them. Stay strong.

Scott Trahan

October 7, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. May you Rest In Peace BB.

Scott Trahan

October 7, 2020

Rest In Peace my friend....the world is going to miss your smiling face.

Daniel O'Neil

October 7, 2020

Kevin, my prayers are with you and Brendan's entire family. Slainte

Kelly Sharich (Beaulieu)

October 7, 2020

I was so saddened to hear of Brendan’s passing. He was always such a “nice guy” in high school. Cliche- I know, but he truly was. Thinking of Lisa and your children during this trying times.

Michael Duhaime

October 7, 2020

Kevin,

I was heartbroken to hear of your loss. I'll be thinking and praying for you and your family.

Mike Duhaime

Amanda Bryan

October 7, 2020

My deepest condolences to the family

Douglas Peckham

October 7, 2020

BB was a good friend to me and coached with me at Lightning and Middle School. He was a good man and will be sorely missed by me and my daughters.
Doug, Sarah, and Stephanie Peckham

Maureen Bermingham

October 7, 2020

Thinking of you all, with deepest condolences from Aunty Maureen, Mary & Ted, Michael & Annmarie xx

Missy Rogers

October 6, 2020

Lisa and family - my heart is broken for you all and there are no good words of comfort. With time, and with each others love, may you find peace and be able to remember with smiles more often than tears.

The Watterson’s (Tayler, Nikki, and Richard)

October 6, 2020

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. BB has impacted so many peoples lives and will continue to be a lasting memory in all the lives he has touched. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Donald Poulin Jr

October 6, 2020

RIP and God speed fellow brother, you will be missed. Sorry to the Burns family and pray for peace

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MARGARET CONNEELY

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Kristian Wilson

October 6, 2020

My deepest sympathy to Brendan's family and friends.

Living Spirit Dishgarden

a loved one

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Dee and Ron Calabro

October 5, 2020

We are so sorry for your great loss. Your family is in our prayers.

Heather Sheehan

October 5, 2020

Deepest sympathy for your loss, Lisa. Know you and your children are in the prayers of all work sisters and brothers.

Nancy Colton

October 5, 2020

Thinking of your family at this difficult time of sudden loss. There are no words that can ease the pain but you have my deepest condolences and I wish you peace and comfort in the days ahead.

Robin Randall-Lewis

October 5, 2020

Lisa, please accept my most sincere condolences for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Jeff Lavigne

October 5, 2020

You will be missed by all, the world lost a good man! RIP BB

Stars of Life Standing Spray

a loved one

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Kevin Shea

October 5, 2020

Brendan will always be remembered as the official 'big brother' of the Peter Road kids. So many of us looked up to him. That inspirational character followed him through life as he became a well respected leader and public servant. He will certainly be missed. His loss is immeasureable. His passing is devastating.
Prayers & Sympathies to his family during this difficult time. This world is unquestionably a better place because Brendan Burns passed through it.

Matthew Leonard

October 5, 2020

Riley, Regan and the your entire family. Please know you are loved by all of the volleyball coaches and our extended volleyball family. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.

Kathryn Turner

October 5, 2020

Lisa, I am so sorry for your loss.. Remember, God will always be with you every step of the way and he will help guide you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. .

Chris Hajzak

October 4, 2020

I am so very sorry for your loss . Know that you in my thoughts and I wish you comfort and peace as you remember Brendan. My condolences to you and your wonderful family.

Randy Weaver

October 4, 2020

Chief,

You touched so many lives in your career and I had the pleasure of meeting you a couple of times and it was an honor. May you Rest In Peace brother.

Chief Randy Weaver
Stoddard Fire & Rescue

Vinnie & Donna Toland

October 4, 2020

Sincere sympathies to the family, loved ones and all acquaintances. Extremely sad news, but we'll shall remember him forever for his dedicated professional firefighting career, community involvement, his spirit of serving fellow man and most importantly being a family oriented man. Loved his sense of humor and what a great Irishman. Our Christian faith compels us to believe Brendan is in the company of Angels amid the rejoicing airs of a believer that has gone home. The Hosts of Heaven celebrated with welcome, one of our finest, Brendan Burns.
Our respects, Vinnie & Donna Toland, Manchester, NH

Debbie Morin

October 4, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Karalee Turcotte Britt

October 4, 2020

Brendan was a wonderful guy in school when I knew him and I can see he lived a life of great character. Thinking of Lisa, the kids, and all of Brendan's family during this difficult time. Praying God's comfort, strength and healing for you all.

Becky Thompson

October 4, 2020

An immense loss felt by all that knew Brendan. Such a warm and kind person that accomplished so much in his life. Lisa and Brendan's family...please know that we are all praying for you and sending you strength and love now and always.

Jen Scott (Bonisteel)

October 4, 2020

I will always remember Brendan as one of the wittiest, most down to earth, and just overall decent humans I've met. My heart breaks for his family and I am holding them all in my heart during this devastating time. Lots of love.

Maureen Burns Buckingham

October 4, 2020

I feel so very blessed to have had Brendan in my life. He made me such a proud auntie, not just by his many, many accolades and accomplishments, but mainly with his warmth, compassion and humor. He lives on forever through the love of Lisa, Riley, Regan, Connor, Kevin & Lindsey. This world would be a lot better with more Brendans. I know there are still hundreds, if not thousands of stories I've yet to hear about him, and I look forward to every one of them. I love you, my Bren. Rest well, my one and only nephew.

Linda Corriveau

October 4, 2020

Thinking of you all and deeply saddened to hear of Brendan's passing. Sending much love and strength to you all.

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Tanya Rylee

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Johnny Burns

October 4, 2020

So sorry to hear the sad news.
We, on this side of the pond, will remember Brendan in our prayers and thoughts

October 4, 2020

Mr.Burns, Thank you for your service RDM Windham NH

Patrick Quirke

October 4, 2020

To the Burns Family my deepest condolences on the passing of Brendan May he Rest In Peace and God comfort all of you in this very difficult time your my thoughts and prayers.
Patrick Quirke

Brooke & DJ Nadeau

October 4, 2020

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
We will miss BB on the softball field

Ace & Mack Beaudet

October 4, 2020

To Brendan's family, our deepest sympathies in your loss, we only knew your family for a short while, but we remember his great affection for his wife Liz & his 1st daughter Riley . You are in our prayer's and may GOD Bless your family & give you strength, courage and faith in this most difficult time . It's been many years since we saw him, but we have those special memories of Riley (RED) when she was in our daycare. May he rest in Peace.

Manuel Arruda

October 4, 2020

Burnsie, words can not be found to tell you, and your family, how sorry, stunned, and saddened, by the loss of Brendan, that I am. I only met him a couple of times, but, knew immediately, the special young man that he was.

Mike Dolphin

October 4, 2020

Kevin- prayers have begun for your wonderful son, Brendan and your family. May the Good Lord hold you and yours in the palm of His Hand during this very difficult time

Jim Murphy

October 4, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find strength in your fond memories of and happy times with Brendan. May he rest in peace.

George Hovey

October 4, 2020

My sincere condolensces to Brendan's family and friends. Kev and family, our thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.

Stars of Life Standing Spray

William Kirk

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Larry and Jackie Hazen

October 4, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God keep his hand upon you all during this very difficult time.

Kerrie Silva

October 4, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Words cannot express the depth of this loss. God bless

Annemarie Quinn

October 4, 2020

Lisa, Riley, Reagan and Connor,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I only met Brendan once but remember his lovely smile. Please know that you are in my prayers and in my heart.
Love, Annemarie

Dawn-Marie (Brisson) Orlando

October 3, 2020

I'm so sorry for your loss. My family will keep the Burns family in our prayers.

Sandy Sanders Cress

October 3, 2020

Kevin and family
Lisa (aka Doc) and I are so sorry for your loss. We send our hugs, thoughts and prayers over the miles to you and your family at this very difficult time.

Anthony Ventura

October 3, 2020

Lisa and family, My heartbreaks for all of you and the pain you are going through. Brendan was a great guy and will be missed by all. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. May God watch over all of you during this time.

Jerry Johnson

October 3, 2020

So sorry for your families loss, Brendan was a wonderful person and I am privileged to have known him from the fire service. I am a retired dispatcher from the Londonderry fire department. His contagious smile will be missed by so many. May he Rest In Peace.

Theresa & Tony Dupont

October 3, 2020

Sending our love and prayers your way during this heart breaking time. We are so sorry for your loss. Brendan will be missed by all.

Love,
Theresa and Tony

Kristie Stone

October 3, 2020

Your family is in our thoughts during this difficult time. BB was a special light in the world and we are all better having had him in our lives for what time we did. -The Stone Family

Jen Clough

October 3, 2020

I graduated from Granite State College with Brendan. He was such a sweet man. My sincere condolences to his family.

Stephanie and Thomas Toland Tufts

October 3, 2020

May the love of family and friends heal your hearts today and in the days ahead. God bless and may Brendan rest in heavenly peace. Lift each other through your strength, courage and by the grace of God. Prayers for you all. Brendan will be missed by many.

William Burke

October 3, 2020

So sorry to the Burns family. Heaven has gained another angel. RIP Brendan.

Tim, Judy and Katie Nolan

October 3, 2020

Sending our thoughts and prayers to the Burns family. We were fortunate to know Brendan and he will be greatly missed on and off the field.

Tina Couture Andersen

October 3, 2020

Prayers to Lisa and the kids and his family. He was a true hero. Rest In Peace, BB.

Kari Barton

October 3, 2020

Such a kind person. This is a great loss. May you find peace BB.

Cindy B

October 3, 2020

Thank you for your service. Thoughts to all who knew and loved him.

Helen Mahoney

October 3, 2020

While I did not know you I just wanted to say thank you for your service and keeping so many lives safe. May you be at peace

Jen and Larry Perkins

October 3, 2020

Our hearts and prayers are with you. Brendan touched so many lives and will be missed for many more years to come.

Mary Leahy O’Connor

October 3, 2020

Deepest condolences to the Burns’ family at this time and you all will be held in our thoughts and prayers, from the Leahy and O’Connor families Lahinch and Miltown Malbay, Co. Clare, Ireland.

David & Tammy Martineau

October 3, 2020

Thank you Coach!

Jennifer DiVenuti-Locasto

October 3, 2020

Our deepest sympathy to Lisa, his children, Kevin and Lindsay. My heart is broken for you all. I had the privilege to grow up with Brendan, he is one of the most authentic people I know. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Tania Spenlinhauer

October 3, 2020

Love, thoughts and prayers to his entire family and all he touched with his tremendous kindness.
- Tania Rawnsley Spenlinhauer

Amy Pitrone

October 3, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with his family and this sad time. Love, Amy Stamm-Pitrone

Paula & Ben Dupont

October 3, 2020

My deepest sympathies to Brendan's family during this heartbreaking loss. He certainly was Loved by many, and will be missed by all who knew him. RIP..

Jenifer Doucette

October 3, 2020

Lisa, Riley, Regan and Connor, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Words will not wipe away your tears, hugs may not ease the pain but hold onto the great memories because they will be with you forever. Deepest condolences, Jen, Amanda and Ashley

Colleen Rondon

October 3, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, The Rondons

The Staff of George R. Rivet Funeral Home

October 4, 2020

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

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