Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

R. M. Edgerly and Son Funeral Home

86 S. Main Street

Rochester, New Hampshire

Dwight Meader Obituary

Reverend Dwight V. Meader, 95, of Rochester, NH passed away on November 21, 2019 at the Colonial Hill Center.



Dwight was born February 12, 1924 to Albert E. Meader and Florence G. (Scruton) Meader. He grew up on the family farm on Meaderboro Road and graduated from Spaulding High School in 1941. He spent two years at the Philadelphia Bible Institute before attending Gordon College, where he met his wife Lois. Dwight graduated in 1947 with an AB degree in Theology, and would later go on to earn his Divinity degree from Gordon College in 1952.



Dwight served as minister to churches in Standish, ME, Wales, MA (First Baptist Church of Wales, from 1949 to 1956), Hudson, NH (First Baptist Church of Hudson, from 1956 to 1969), and Alton, NH (Community Church of Alton, from 1969 to 1989). After he retired, Dwight served the Crown Point Baptist Church in Strafford, NH, where he remained an active member until his death. He was a Deacon, moderator, and adviser to church trustees. Dwight was also an accomplished trumpet player and often played during his church services.



The Reverend also had a long and distinguished Masonic career. He became a Master Mason in the Winnipesaukee Lodge in 1971. He was honored in 2012 for his forty-year service to the Grand Lodge, 36, as Grand Chaplain, DDGL, and DDGM, and proclaimed Honorary Past Grand Master. He attained the 33rd Degree in 1986. Dwight was very active with his wife Lois in the Order of the Eastern Star, and was also a member of the Humane Lodge #21 F&AM.



In addition, Dwight was involved with Camp Sentinel in Tuftonboro, NH for 22 years, both as a director and a counselor. He was also a road agent, school teacher, school bus driver, and active firefighter and chaplain in the Alton Volunteer Fire Department. He was an avid gardener well into his 90s, and loved baseball, football, and being with his family.



He is preceded in death by his wife of 62 years, Lois Makechnie Meader, and son Stephen P. Meader, and by his brother Leon Meader and sisters Edith Kelley, Alice Moquin, and Leola Gray. Dwight is survived by sons Alan D. Meader and wife Monica of Conifer, CO, and Glen J. Meader and wife Jennifer of Littleton, CO, and by daughters Elaine M. Hebert and husband Philip of Keene, NH, Karen E. Meader and partner Douglas Andrus of Gilmanton, NH, and Jocelyn L. Poire and partner Edward Hawkins of Belmont, NH.



Dwight is survived by eleven grandchildren, including Arthur Smith Jr., Nathan, Alex, and Elijah Meader, Jacqueline and Jonathon Meader, Michael Poire, Kari Nguyen, Lacey Liebert, Amy Duguay, and Kyle Hebert, and by seven great-grandchildren, along with several nieces, nephews and cousins.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Leader from Nov. 27 to Nov. 30, 2019.

Memories and Condolences
for Dwight Meader

Not sure what to say?





Linda Appleyard Shaw

December 5, 2019

He was wonderful minister, he did graveside services for both of my parents. He served so many in his career, he has finally gone home.

Barbara & Betty Ashley

December 5, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

David Sample

December 4, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Herb Portgue

December 1, 2019

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Mary Clapp

November 28, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.met lois and dewight in2001 when i was grand rep.of Ohio. Then they came 2006 in ohio when i was deputy grand matron .and after Lois pass he always would answer my letters .such nice people will always remember them well.

Carol Bartlett

November 26, 2019

Where do I begin? Brother Dwight was an amazing friend and brother in the Order of the Eastern Star! He served as Worthy Grand Patron and was always available for help and counsel! In fact, when my own father passed in 1993, Brother Dwight officiated at his service! God speed my dear friend!

Alice, Rick, Judi, & Steve

November 26, 2019

Dwight has been such a part of our family gatherings over the past several years that we will feel the void in our lives for a very long time. We hope you find comfort, as we have, in knowing that he is reunited with his wonderful wife, Lois, and all the family members and friends that have passed before him. Our hearts go out to his Family.

Sharon

November 26, 2019

I have many memories of Rev.Meader when he was in Alton. And many memories with his daughter Karen. Im so sorry for your loss, sending my thoughts and prayers to his whole family.

Timmy Thompson

November 25, 2019

Sleep well my Brother your work is done

Elaine & Mark Dodge

November 25, 2019

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Rev. Meader was a genuinely kind man who gave so much to his community. We are thankful that he officiated at our wedding in the Alton church. Sending much love to you all.

Russ Noyes

November 25, 2019

So sorry for your loss, thinking of you all. Hugs and prayers

Showing 1 - 12 of 12 results

Make a Donation
in Dwight Meader's name

Memorial Events
for Dwight Meader

Dec

5

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

R. M. Edgerly and Son Funeral Home

86 S. Main Street, Rochester, NH 03867

Dec

6

Memorial service

1:00 p.m.

Crown Point Baptist Church

274 First Crown Point Rd, Strafford, NH

Funeral services provided by:

R. M. Edgerly and Son Funeral Home

86 S. Main Street, Rochester, NH 03867

How to support Dwight's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Dwight Meader's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more