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Joseph Carlisle Obituary

Joseph Stanley Carlisle was born November 2nd, 1936 and passed away November 4th, 2020. Beloved husband to Carol for 59 years and father to Joseph, Jorge (Jay), and Crystal. He is also survived by his grandchildren Michael, Kayleigh, Timothy, Robert, Demitrius, Jennifer, William, Bailey, and Benjamin, as well as nieces and nephews Tom, Donna, Veronica, and Scott. A veteran of the Korean war, Joe served five years in the US army. Following his service, Joe started his dancing career in Boston at the Fred Astaire School. He was a dedicated teacher, coach, and choreographer of American and International ballroom dance. He and Carol performed competitively and professionally. In his lifetime Joe owned several dance studios, including Let's Dance Company, which he established in Concord New Hampshire in 1998. A familiar face in the Concord area for the past 40 years (perpetually in a three-piece suit), he was known as The Dancer, The Count, and sometimes simply as The Guy in the Suit. His charm and sophistication will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Joe will be buried privately at the New Hampshire State Veterans Cemetery. There will be a Celebration of Joseph's life at a later date. Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium have been entrusted with arrangements. To view an online tribute, leave a message of condolence, or for more information please visit www.phaneuf.net.


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Published by Union Leader from Nov. 8 to Nov. 9, 2020.

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Lisa and Mark

November 13, 2020

Fond memories of Joe teaching us to dance for our wedding. We attended many classes afterwards and a few events with Joe, too. Great smile and poise and we loved his stories!

Judy Green

November 9, 2020

With great appreciation, I thank Joe for making my dream of becoming a ballroom dancer come true. He once said to me, "Not everyone who dances has it right here", as he pointed to my heart, "but you do." Through his dedicated instruction, I became not only a ballroom dancer while attending his classes, but went on to train and become his assistant in many classes. Ultimately teaching my own classes. He opened up the world of "Ballroom Dance" to me that till this day have been some of the most magical, and rewarding years of my life! I will miss you, rest in peace dear Joe.

Holly Noyes

November 8, 2020

Thank you Joe, for giving me the gift of Ballroom dance, for all the years of joy at the studio, and for all the stories you would tell me about your colorful life, for always protecting me, taking good care of me, and treating me as your own daughter over all these years, and for teaching me so much about this crazy life.
I met Joe when I was just a teenager, and consequently ran the studio by his side for many years thereafter... who knew he would change my whole life so drastically. He is a big part of the reason I am who I am today. To me, he was a chivalrous, hilarious yet serious man.. such a character, well educated in the ways of social etiquette, dance, and the art of combat ( .. as he told me many stories about war over the years.. and taught me how to defend myself if needed on the streets.. or would jump into fight stances when I starteled him at the studio haha) Joe was truly one in a million, the father of our Let's Dance family.. and I will miss him so, so much. ❤

Richard Berryman [email protected]

November 8, 2020

Carol and Family,
So sorry to see of Joe's passing. Dance lessons before older daughter's wedding were so enjoyable. May not see you at NE Delta for a while Carol, be safe. Rich and Connie Berryman

Scott Preston Hardy

November 8, 2020

I remember Joe very well from the NH Highway Hotel. Some 40 years ago, he would cruise into my bar dressed to the nines, pound down a double-shot of Bitters, and do an exit stage left, leaving nothing behind save for a very generous tip; standard fare from Joe. A classy hit-and-run from one very polite and extremely dignified man. Dance in Peace, Joe

The Maheu family

November 8, 2020

Heartfelt condolences to the Carlisle family

November 8, 2020

Mr.Carlisle, Thank you for your service RDM Windham NH

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