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CHARLES SEIDEL

1956 - 2019

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BORN

1956

DIED

2019

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CHARLES SEIDEL Obituary

CHARLES B. SEIDEL Senior CIA Official Charles Bratton Seidel, age 62, passed away in his sleep on May 7, 2019 while on business in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. Charlie, as he was known to all, was a 26-year veteran of the Central Intelligence Agency, where he rose to the top ranks of the clandestine service while serving in ten important field assignments.

Charlie was born on June 29, 1956 in Alexandria, Virginia to the late John J. Seidel Jr. and the late Annette Lewis Seidel. John was also a senior CIA officer who took his family abroad on a series of exotic foreign postings, which clearly made an impression on Charlie. After earning a B.A. at Drew University, spending a year skiing in Europe and working on the family farm in West Virginia, Charlie joined his father in the CIA in February 1980.

From start to finish in his CIA career, Charlie focused on the Middle East. He spoke Arabic fluently and loved Arab culture and history. His deep knowledge of the region, coupled with his infectious enthusiasm, won lifelong friends far and wide.

During critical periods, Charlie was not just a witness to history, he was a key player in its unfolding. Charlie was serving in Baghdad when Saddam Hussein invaded Kuwait, and after a tense standoff, he was finally allowed to leave Iraq just before coalition military forces launched the successful campaign to eject Saddam from Kuwait. Charlie provided vital intelligence support to that effort, and he soon reprised that role while directing all CIA Iraqi operations in the Middle East immediately before the 2003 Iraq war. When U.S. forces moved into Baghdad following the fall of Saddam, Charlie was with them.

In addition to Iraq, Charlie had a special affection for Egypt and Jordan, where he spent almost 12 years as a senior U.S. intelligence representative, interacting with both governments at the highest levels. Charlie moved effortlessly through their societies; he was just as relaxed and friendly with carpet merchants and tea servers as he was with presidents and kings. In that regard, Charlie truly represented the best that America has to offer.

Charlie was a two-time recipient of the Intelligence Star for valor, the CIA equivalent of the U.S. military Silver Star. He retired from the CIA in June 2006, having earned the enduring respect and admiration of his colleagues in the Agency.

After his retirement, Charlie continued to work as a consultant in a wide range of private sector projects in the Middle East. Notably, he led field efforts to recover Libyan assets that were stolen by the Qadhafi regime after the dictator's fall. At the time of his death, he was working on a new project, one that he felt was important.

Charlie is survived by his loving wife of 37 years, Mary Bonvouloir Seidel of Syracuse, NY. Mary was a pillar of support to Charlie and the family throughout his career and travels. They enjoyed spending time together in Cape Cod and Saint Martin. Charlie is also survived by his children, Charlie (wife Tamsin), Matthew and Christine, and his brother John L. Seidel (wife Liz) and sister Anne Seidel Overington (husband Brian).

No one who met Charlie will ever forget him. His love of fine food, good cigars and whiskey was legendary, but his love for his wife, children, family and friends was boundless.

A memorial service will be held at 3 p.m. on Wednesday, May 22 at Vienna Presbyterian Church, 124 Park St NE, Vienna, VA and will also be available to stream live at viennapres.org/worship-live. Visitation will take place on Monday, May 20 and Tuesday, May 21 from 3 to 8 p.m. at Fairfax Memorial Funeral Home, 9902 Braddock Road, Fairfax, VA.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The CIA Officers Memorial Foundation or the Barzani Charity Foundation.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Washington Post on May 16, 2019.

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Glenn Carle

August 13, 2019

I only learned of Charlie's death today (August 13). I am so sorry. Charlie was one of the kindest people I met in my 35 year association with the service, and one of the best and fairest professionals. We all have lost a ray of sunlight in our days.

Florence Nicholson Campos

May 21, 2019

A wonderful guy. Forever proud to have supported him in the field. Thoughtful, kind, loving to all who knew him. He was a terrific officer and great mentor. My deepest sympathy to Mary and family. RIP dear Charlie. You are greatly missed by all.

Jim Lawler

May 21, 2019

Charlie was one of the beautiful ones: gifted and compassionate, a true American hero and a friend. We will miss you.

May 21, 2019

Remembering Charles for his service to this country. Condolences to his friends, co-workers and family. R.I.P.

Robert Grenier

May 21, 2019

A brilliant practitioner of our age-old craft, steeped in knowledge and understanding, and yet so humble at his core. His lasting impression was one deep kindness and a luminous joy in life and in those around him. Goodbye, old friend. You will always be with us.

Brooke Phucas

May 20, 2019

I can't say I knew Charlie well enough to call him a friend, but I certainly considered him one as did my husband. I always looked forward to that smile of his and the joy that just emanated from him; it was contagious. There really are not many like Charlie and I feel like I am a better person for having met and worked with him. There are limited times in our lives when we know we are in the presence of someone who is good through and through, Charlie was that guy. My family is praying for your family, for grace and mercy in the passing of such a wonderful man. Fair winds and following seas, my friend.

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Jackie Beaudoin

May 19, 2019

One in a million - a man for all seasons, all people, Charlie made the world a much better and safer place in which to live.
I was devastated to hear the news of his sudden passing. I had the honor of working several years abroad with him. He made an indelible impression on everyone he met. He will be greatly missed forever in our hearts.
My deepest condolences to Mary, Charlie, Matthew and Christine.
Jackie Beaudoin

Marc Polymeropoulos

May 19, 2019

RIP Sir Charles, you were a hero, friend, and mentor to Cynthia and me. You were the true Lawrence of Arabia, with an understanding of the culture and people of the Middle East that was unmatched in the USG. We worked for you in New York, Cairo, and Baghdad, visited with you in Amman, and had an amazing 2 weeks in the Cape with all of our families after we all returned from Baghdad. All of these memories we will cherish forever. I am so happy I spoke to you at the end of April, as that last conversation I will cherish forever. God bless you and your wonderful family; the world is a better place because of your presence on it.

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Clifford Hunt

May 17, 2019

Rest in Peace friend - you leave us all too soon. Mary - Charlie and I were highschool friends & I know how much larger that life he was. Peace be with you and your family.

Joyce Marcarelli

May 17, 2019

Peace be with you and your family
Your kind and gentle spirt will be remembered to those you've touched and those you helped that didn't know it ❤
RIP Charlie
Sadly,
Joyce and Michael Marcarelli

Pat Kasem

May 17, 2019

Very sad to hear Charlie has left us. May he rest in peace with our LORD.

John Bennett

May 17, 2019

A friend and colleague who was all that is the best in our service. My thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.

Mary Ruland

May 17, 2019

Mary, you and your family are in our prayers. What an awesome human being your man was. We are all better off with the contributions and sacrifices Charlie made for our country. Always remember his contagious smile and how he loved you. Made everyone he met feel special. May you all be comforted in the days ahead, even finding Joy in the midst of sorrow.

Jim McInnis

May 17, 2019

I first met Charlie when he accompanied his dad and me to a funeral service for a leading Iranian military official at a mosque in Iran. Although still in his young student years, he showed great understanding and respect of those of the Islamic faith, as I expect many of his friends of that religion are now showing to him in his passing. My heartfelt condolences go out to his family, and especially to his sister, Anne.

Dorrie Hamik

May 16, 2019

Rip Charlie-Mary, I am so saddened to hear of Charlie's passing. I remember the games we used to play and Charlie's amazing Pasta Carbonara. Yum!
Here's hoping you and your children will find comfort at this difficult time. God bless you!
Dorrie

Bill Kim

May 16, 2019

Larger than life our Charlie! Our world is a better place as a result of his dedication and work, as well as providing us with such a wonderful family in Mary, Charlie, Mathew and Christine. May the pain and grief of our loss be softened by celebrating the many happy memories of what a stellar special man he was.

Rosie Patterson

May 16, 2019

Dear Mary and Family- I'm so sorry to learn of Charlie's passing and hope that you are finding comfort from each other during this difficult time.

Evelyn Boles

May 16, 2019

Mary and family....we are so saddened by this news. Please know we will pray for you all for peace, comfort, and strength.
Ed and Evelyn

Julie Raymond

May 16, 2019

His smile lit up the room. I was very fortunate to meet this wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers are with Mary and the family. Fly high Charlie!

Elizabeth van den Berg

May 16, 2019

I will always remember him as an upbeat, positive human being who was quick to smile.

Clayton Ketchum

May 16, 2019

Certainly will miss his smile at those random Wellfleet run-ins. Best to you all.

Rebecca Janowski

May 16, 2019

I only knew Charlie briefly. I loved his smile and his obvious love for his family and friends. The world was a better place with you in it. You will be missed sir.

Deborah Hermann

May 16, 2019

Mary - we are deeply sorry for your loss and will hold you and your family in our hearts. Charlie just put a smile on your face every time he was in a room. Deb Hermann and Wayne Clarke

Catherine Manners Bucolo

May 16, 2019

Rest in peace knowing that you touched the lives of so many Uncle Charlie. We love you and miss you tremendously already.

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