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2021
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Leah Glasser
February 17, 2022
Mary meant so much to me throughout her time at Mount Holyoke College. I served as an academic dean and member of the English department. Mary was a steady source of advice, inspiration, and love from the moment I came to Mount Holyoke some 42 years ago.
We shared many students, and at one point, when I was granted a rare sabbatical from my work as Dean of First-Year Studies, Mary offered to stand in for me for the semester. This was done purely out of kindness to me, and sympathy for my wish to finish writing my book. I felt complete trust in Mary because I had seen her work with students, and I knew that the transition for students would be quite smooth with Mary in my chair.
Indeed Mary did a brilliant job in my absence, and we continued to consult on students, literature, and life until her retirement. I have always missed Mary ever since she left South Hadley, and I know that feeling is shared by many! It was clear how much Mary loved her family, and she always spoke of them with a big smile and a warm tone in her voice. It's rare to find a scholar and teacher who could be so humble, so understanding, and so caring. She was a gift for all of us who were lucky enough to get to know her.
Leah Glasser
Professor Emerita in English
Mount Holyoke College
Kay Johnson
January 23, 2022
Being in touch. Christina, I received your note and was sure I had emailed in reply -- but apparently not. Could you contact me? [email protected]
Tracy Matthews Roberson
May 27, 2021
Cousins,
I just realized Cousin Mary had passed. I kept getting her voice mail and finally called the main number at Sibley. Please reach out to me. Sending my deepest condolences.
Kathleen Hirsch
May 19, 2021
Dear Michael, Christina and Elizabeth,
Forgive this balky form, but I've not been successful in finding more personal contact information for any of you. I just learned of Mary's passing on the last page of the current issue of Choragos. My heart skipped a beat, seeing her image again, and seeing, too, over the passage of time, how beautiful she continued to be into old age.
Your mother was a friend to me at a time when I had few others able to support my transition from student to independent professional woman. You may remember that she hired me to "tend" to you -- Christina and Elizabeth; though you hardly needed it. It was your mother's gracious way of trying to help, as she could, an aspiring writer with few scaffolds. She also initiated a writing group for graduates and hangers-on around town, and included me. For this, I was immensely grateful.
Even as a callow 21 year old, I was aware of your mother's extraordinary efforts to realize a full life for herself, and the courage with which she sustained this effort. I had enormous admiration for her sensitivity, intelligence, and dignity. But it was not until I became a working writer and mother and academic myself, that I was able to appreciate her journey properly. I'm sure the same can be said for many of those she guided and mentored over the years. She was a remarkable woman.
It sounds as if Mary died the kind of death she deserved after a life of gallant generosity and ardent engagement. Let us pray that it was as she herself would have written it.
It was an honor to have been befriended and blessed by her.
I wish you all well, and send fond greetings across the many years.
Sherril Gerard Gonzalez
March 21, 2021
Thank you.
ivy tillman
March 18, 2021
i am so sad to hear of Mary's death. i will, for many reasons, think of her as my very best friend, even though we had not seen each other for a few years. i feel honored to have been in the front passenger seat on several "heavy foot" drives, and to have enjoyed her company along with gourmet delights until she retired to D.C. my deepest sympathies to her beloved family, all of whom i was fortunate to meet and admire. Rest in peace--and power--dear friend.
ivy tillman
March 18, 2021
i am so sad to hear of Mary's death. i will, for many reasons, think of her as my very best friend, even though we had not seen each other for a few years. i feel honored to have been in the front passenger seat on several "heavy foot" drives, and to have enjoyed her company along with gourmet delights until she retired to D.C. my deepest sympathies to her beloved family, all of whom i was fortunate to meet and admire. Rest in peace--and power--dear friend.
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