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PETER LAFEN Obituary


Peter Michael Lafen  
On Wednesday February 13, 2019, of Silver Spring, MD. Beloved husband of Caroline L. Early; father of Katherine A. Lafen (Julien Xavier) and Masha A. Lafen; grandfather of Theodore Xavier; brother of Thomas Lafen (Deborah). Relatives and friends may call at Collins Funeral Home, 500 University Blvd. West, Silver Spring, MD (Valet Parking) Friday, February 22, from 3 to 5 and 7 to 9 p.m. A Funeral Service will be held at the Russian Orthodox Cathedral of St. John the Baptist, 4001 17th Street NW, Washington DC, 20011 on Saturday, February 23, 2019 at 12:15 p.m. Interment at Oakland Cemetery, Adams Ave. & Ramona Ave., Philadelphia, PA 19124 on Monday, February 25 at 12 noon. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Friends of the Earth or A Wider Circle. www.COLLINSFUNERALHOME.com  

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Published by The Washington Post on Feb. 19, 2019.

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Robert Carl

February 27, 2019

Pete Lafen made this world a better place. I am a better person for having known him.

Vane Wiggins

February 24, 2019

Dear Caroline,Katie, & Marsha,
I am so sad to hear about the death of Peter. I'll always have fond memories of Peter. We had some really great times playing soccer and he was always a great teammate. As a neighbor you couldn't ask for anything better ..... always eager to lend a hand or let you borrow whatever you needed. Our thoughts are with you.

Vane,Sara,Sam & Katie Wiggins

Donna Houseman

February 22, 2019

Dear Caroline,
Pete's kindness, compassion, and love will continue to inspire us. I will treasure the memories forever with you. Caroline, Masha, Katy, Julien, Theodore, Tom and Deb & family - you are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you all. With all my heart, Donna

Louis Marie Thibault Nathalie Xavier

February 22, 2019

Thanks to our children, we had the chance to know Peter, we wish we had known him more.
We want to keep in our hearts Peter's caring smile, his kindness, his joy of living and his love for others.
Despite the thousands of miles that separate us, we will be always with you.

Marina Kisunko

February 22, 2019

Dear Caroline, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

Nellie Fain

February 22, 2019

When I think of Peter, I think of his kind smile, and shy Masha next to him, wet but happy. Of course, this is at Daleview. One specific memory is the year Ken died, and I was at an Ivy swim meet at Princeton, feeling a bit lost, and Peter showed up with Katie. He held up a Daleview T-shirt and shouted support to Emily when her event was announced. What a light at a difficult time for her and for me. I am so sorry for your lost, Caroline, Katie, and Masha.

Kelly Newman O'Connor

February 21, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of your loss--Pete was such a bright light, and I always enjoyed catching up on the girls' doings when he would visit Blair. My thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Kelly Newman O'Connor
Blair HS

Jim Mayo

February 21, 2019

I'm so sorry for your loss Caroline. My condolences to you and your family.

George Vlasits

February 20, 2019

I want to extend my sincerest condolences to Pete's family. I will always remember Pete for his dedication to our schools and his passion to make the world a better place. He was always upbeat, even when things didn't go the way we hoped they would. Katie and Masha, your dad was an inspiration and he will be missed by all of us.

Wilson/Ashley/Sutton/Strode Blanchard

February 20, 2019

So sorry for your loss.

Jenny Peng Windheim

February 19, 2019

My heart goes out to Peter's family. I remember fondly the conversations and discussions with Peter while serving on the Princeton Prize in Race Relations Committee. His wisdom, compassion, and enthusiasm made the world a better place.

Jenny Peng Windheim

February 19, 2019

My heart goes out to Peter's family. I remember fondly the conversations and discussions with Peter while serving on the Princeton Prize in Race Relations Committee. His wisdom, compassion, and enthusiasm helped make the world a better place.

Rosalie Norair

February 19, 2019

Sincere condolences to Peter's family. What a loss to the community. Pete was so generous with his time and talent serving on numerous Princeton alumni committees. May he rest in peace.

February 19, 2019

My heart goes out to you Caroline, Katie and Masha and the rest of your family. I have so many fond memories of Pete with his boundless enthusiasm for the environment, team building, community and family. Memories of many shared dinners during long summer evenings at Daleview warm my heart. Love to all of you.

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