ROY Barry Dennis Roy (Age 73) Of Chilmark, MA, passed away peacefully on August 9, 2019 at Tufts Medical Center in Boston, MA. Born on September 6, 1945 in Norwich, CT, he was the only child of Emory and Bernice (Baril) Roy, and spent his youth in Taftville, CT. During these years Barry grew to love the scouting experience, eventually leading him to become an Eagle Scout. Barry was a graduate of Saint Michael's College in Colchester, VT ("67) with his summers spent working on Cape Cod in Falmouth. He treasured the many lifelong friendships that he made during his time at St. Mike's, his friends becoming his "Band of Brothers" for the next 50 years. After St. Mike's, he graduated from Albany Law School in 1971 followed by a Masters in Taxation (LLM) from Boston University School of Law. From 1974 to 1980 Barry worked in the Office of Chief Counsel for the Internal Revenue Service. He joined Deloitte as a tax partner in 1981, serving many multinational clients and was named National Director of Tax Quality Assurance in 1996. He retired in 2009. Barry was an avid supporter of many charities including The Miami Project to Cure Paralysis, Compassionate Care ALS, and the Aquinnah Lighthouse project of the Wampanoug Nation on Martha's Vineyard. He was also a Trustee of Saint Michael's College and chair of the investment committee. Barry loved his alma mater and was a dedicated alumnus through both his philanthropy and volunteer work. Barry was fondly called "The Bear" by those who knew and loved him. He was larger than life and lived with the biggest of hearts and immense generosity. He filled the room with love and laughter and became a beloved member of many families and more than a dozen godchildren. As an only child, he is survived by numerous cousins, their children, godchildren and dear friends who all became his chosen family. The sunsets are not quite as vivid and the moon not quite as bright over the Vineyard Sound without him, but lives are fuller for all who knew him. A celebration of life will be held at Saint Michael's College in Colchester, VT on October 12, 2019 at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Saint Michael's College, "The Barry Roy Memorial Fund". Saint Michael's College, One Winooski Park, Colchester, VT 05439. www.givecampus.com/campaigns/2737/donations/new. Condolences may be sent to PO Box 171, Chilmark, MA 02535. For information and online guestbook, please visit www.dolanfuneral.comwww.dolanfuneral.com

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Published by The Washington Post on Aug. 27, 2019.

Memories and Condolences
for BARRY ROY

9 Entries

Rich & Terri Feeley

October 14, 2019

Terri and I are sorry to hear of Barry's passing. He was a good man, and always treated both of us well. Terri met him in high school, and I was lucky to be in the same graduating class with him at St Mike's. He did a lot for the college, and we are very happy that our paths crossed with his in life. He added a lot to the world while he was here.

RIP.

September 20, 2019

I enjoyed the time I spent with Barry in Deloitte's National Office in the early 1980s. He had a great sense of humor and was always a pleasure to work with.

September 17, 2019

Barry & I worked together in the National Tax Office of Deloitte during some of the tough economic and tax times of the early 2000's. Somehow, we managed to keep our common sense and moral compass pointed in the same direction. I appreciated his tough positions in tough times. (And yes, he appreciated my jokes). RIP.

Raymond BOENIG Jr

September 13, 2019

GREW UP WITH Barry IN TAFTVILLE HE WAS A GREAT GUY GOD BLESS HIM ,

John Peters

September 13, 2019

I'm so sorry to hear of Barry's passing. Barry and I roomed togeather at Camp Quinibaug and at JNWebster Reservation in the early 60's. He was a true scout leader and his wonderful sense of humor will be remembered by all who fortunate enough to work with him.

Woody Woodworth

September 4, 2019

Well, I remember the late night "bull sessions"in Ryan Hall 3rd floor talking about everything from aliens to out of body experiences .He always had a strong opinion and a good story so sorry to hear the news.However, Bear,you now know all the answers to all those questions we asked so long ago. Fondly,Woody

Jose Blanco

September 2, 2019

I had the privledge of serving on the SMC Board of Trustees with Barry. Very fine indivdual and a great example of a Michaelman (hard work, service and faith). RIP

August 26, 2019

I am truly sorry about the passing of your loved one. May God strengthen your family during this time of loss. Deepest sympathies.

August 26, 2019

Paul Moran: I met Barry the summer of 1968 working As " Summer Cops for the town of Falmouth. We worked in Woods Hole during the day and would work at night in a few of the bars. I could tell many stories about "The Bear" but the best was the time I picked up Barry in a Rolls Royce and drove him to work. The big fella got in the back seat with me driving. We had to be on duty and were both in uniform. It was a Saturday morning and the dock was loaded with people waiting to get on board ship for the islands. We had a traffic box where one of us would sit and direct traffic. The Bear waited for me to open the back door and brush off his hat and he gracefully stepped into the box. The crowd could not believe what they saw. Barry remained a great to me and my daughters especially after my wife and their mother died at the age of 28. He was there for so many people. We all have stories about The Bear and we need to collect them and put them in a book. Bear you were the best,

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