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BERNARD MANDERVILLE Obituary


Bernard Paul Manderville, Jr,  (Age 81) COL (Ret.)  
Of Waldorf, MD died on December 13, 2019 at his residence, surrounded by family. COL Manderville was a highly decorated career U.S. Army Ordnance Officer, retiring after 29 years of service. He served in Vietnam, Thailand, and Australia, and as the Commander of Weapons Systems Development in Picatinny Arsenal, NJ, and Chief of the Standardization Group at the Pentagon in Washington, DC. During his service, he received his M.S. in aeronautical engineering from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute. Also an avid woodworker, he built many beautiful furniture pieces for churches, family, and friends. An extremely generous and caring man, Bernie was involved in several charitable organizations, including the Lions Club and the United Way. Throughout his life, he found great joy in mentoring young people to develop their potential, making lifelong friends. He was a natural leader who believed in the goodness of people, and will be remembered for his kindness, quick wit, and devotion to family, faith, and country. Col Manderville was born on April 18, 1938, in Troy, New York to the late Bernard Paul and Catherine Veronica Manderville, Sr., and is predeceased by his son Bernard Paul Manderville, III. COL Manderville is survived by his wife of 59 years, Jane Theresa Manderville; three daughters, Yvonne Michelle Alexander and her husband, Steve, Valerie Marie Manderville, and Beverly Katherine Manderville; and his sister, Gail Rita Brenenstuhl and her husband, Charles. A visitation will be held on Tuesday, December 17, 2019 from 5 to 8 p.m. with Prayers at 7 p.m. at Raymond Funeral Service, 5635 Washington Ave, La Plata, MD 20646. A Mass of Christian Burial will be on Wednesday, December 18, 2019 at 1 p.m. at St. Peter's Catholic Church, 3320 St. Peter's Drive, Waldorf, MD 20601. Inurnment will be at a later date at Arlington National Cemetery. The family ask that, in lieu of flowers, contributions be made to Hospice of Charles County, 2505 Davis Road, Waldorf, MD 20603.

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Published by The Washington Post on Dec. 16, 2019.

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Mary Slavin, Ryan

December 21, 2019

Gail I am so sad and sorry for your loss.

GAIL WARSHAW

December 18, 2019

Jane, you were by his side through his long journey to God. Prayers for Bernie and especially for you. Will speak with you later. Gail

Vickie & Bobbie Shepherd

December 16, 2019

Our deepest sympathy to Jane and her family.

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Patricia Manderville

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(Richard) Frederick Chase (class of '55)

December 16, 2019

My sympathy to Jane and family

Raymond Laurin

December 15, 2019

Very sorry for your loss, he was an amazing person we will miss very much

December 15, 2019

RIP Soldier, you earned it. John Rice

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