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HELEN BOLGER Obituary
HELEN SIEGFRIED BOLGER
November 8, 1926 - February 14, 2020 Vibrant. Stylish. Witty. Generous. Faithful. Born to Harry D. and Mary M. Siegfried, Helen was one of eight children, including her identical twin sister and best friend, Catherine. Raised in Philadelphia, PA, she graduated from Little Flower High School and attended Immaculata College. Helen approached her entire life with boundless energy, spirit and enthusiasm. Beautiful and polished, she met Bob, the love of her life, and as the wife of a successful executive, Helen was Bob's greatest champion. Together they traveled the world for both business and pleasure. They raised six children in Alexandria, VA with joy, humor, and so much love. Their hospitality to family and friends was legendary. Helen loved a good party and everyone loved to party with Helen. Helen was always considerate and kind; she knew no strangers and had genuine concern for those less fortunate. Above all, she was devout in her faith and aspired to exemplify God's message to love others. Predeceased by Robert J. Bolger (Bob), her husband of 53 years; their daughter, Mary (Totsie), and all her siblings. Survived by her children Robert J. Bolger, Jr. (Holly), Cindy Deffenbaugh (Scott), Ann Bolger (Mike Melton), Cara Finucan (John), David Bolger (Mary Katherine Fahey); and her grandchildren Robert (Miranda), Nicholas, Madeleine (John), Cecelia, Gordon, Jeremy, Lilith, and Helen. Special thanks to Meskerem Belay, Fikerte Menigestu Bitew, and Kidst Liben who cared for Helen with such love, kindness and respect. A Funeral Mass will be held at The Basilica of St. Mary in Alexandria, VA on February 22, 2020, at 10:30 a.m. Interment at St. Mary's Cemetery. Reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions to the Poor Clare Monastery, 2505 Stonehedge Drive, Alexandria, VA 22306.
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Memories and Condolences
for HELEN BOLGER
Barbara Stockton
February 14, 2025
Always in my heart!
Barbara Stockton
Barbara Stockton
February 14, 2024
Always puts a smile on my face to remember the Bolgers!
Love and many lovely memories,
Barbara Stockton
Barbara Stockton
February 14, 2023
Remembering your Mom always brings a smile ; she was such a caring and loving Lady!
Barbara Stockton
Barbara Stockton
February 14, 2022
Wonderful memories of being next door neighbors!
Love to all
Barbara
March 20, 2020
Dearest Bolger families - may all of you find some comfort in knowing she now rests in the peace of Christ's sleep. Love, Crissy, Pete, Brendan, Bridget and Conor Reilly
LEISA Deffenbaugh
February 21, 2020
Helen was my SIL's mother. I had the pleasure of knowing Helen. Three descriptors come to mind: effervescent, gracious and elegant. She was such a dynamo, and her energy and enthusiasm was contagious. I will miss her very much, but I have many great memories to cherish.
February 21, 2020
One of the most gracious ladies I have ever known. I will surely miss her. How lucky I was to have known her for so long Phyllis
Lilith
February 21, 2020
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Barbara Stockton
February 21, 2020
Bolger Family some of the best neighbors I ever enjoyed! Fond memories ...your Mom a great Lady...she lived a purposeful, love filled life..an inspiration to all..
With love and respect,
Barbara Stockton
N. S.
February 20, 2020
My deepest sympathy to the family of Helen Bolger. May you be comforted in knowing that our Heavenly Father cares for you. He will give you strength and courage to cope with your grief.
Psalm 94:17-19
February 20, 2020
Sincere condolences to the Bolger family.
hope pennestri
February 20, 2020
From the first day that I met you, I fell in love with your sense of fun, kindness and great sense of humor. Rest in peace and we will meet again. Love Hope
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