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HUGH TOMPKINS Obituary


HUGH HARRISON TOMPKINS  
Of Key Largo, FL and Bethesda, MD, a true gentleman loved by all died on April 18, 2018. Born in Richmond, Virginia on October 21, 1946 to the late Rhoda Davis Taylor Tompkins and William Fraser Tompkins, Jr. He is survived by his devoted wife Constance Corby Tompkins; four daughters, Candice Corby Mulcahy, Laura Corby Tanner, Elizabeth Corby Brooks, and Mary Corby Wolff; four sons-in-law, Edward James Mulcahy III, Gregory Charles Tanner, David Church Brooks, Jr. and Daniel Paul Wolff; "Grumpy" to 10 grandchildren; and three brothers, William Fraser Tompkins III (Dorothy), Seldon Taylor Tompkins (Donna), and Benjamin Temple Tompkins. He graduated from St. Christopher's School in 1965 and Virginia Military Institute in 1969, where he was a starting defensive tackle for the football team. He proudly served as a Second Lieutenant in the United States Army and received a Bronze Star in the Vietnam War. He had a lasting career in residential real estate and general contracting.  Tremendously supportive, Hugh was happiest surrounded by his wife, daughters, family, friends, and dogs. He loved tennis, swimming, skiing, being on the water in Cape Cod, and music. Hugh was an avid car enthusiast with a true passion for vintage car racing. A man to be admired, he was devoted to his church and giving back to his community at the Southeast White House in DC. Hugh was the epitome of charm and will always be remembered for his wry sense of humor, his warmth and kindness. A memorial service will be held at All Saints Church in Chevy Chase, MD at 3 p.m. on Saturday, April 28. In lieu of flowers, donations in his honor to the Southeast White House (DC Dream Center) are encouraged.

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Published by The Washington Post from Apr. 22 to Apr. 29, 2018.

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Eugene (Gene) Kessler

April 16, 2023

Hugh was a good friend and is missed. I still drive my '67 Alfa Romeo GT 1300 Junior, and think of Hugh when driving it.

richard jeter

April 16, 2021

a super guy i miss him

karen hauser

April 28, 2018

Dear Connie and Family, Dick and I were saddened to hear of your loss. We pray that Hugh is at peace. God bless you and your family.

April 28, 2018

May god give him eternal rest a great gentleman. Sincerest condolences to Connie and family, on your bereavement.
Requiescat in Pace.
Everest & Anne, Memphis / Osterville.

April 28, 2018

A jewel of a friend who enjoyed a tad-bit of sarcasm and accepted it in return with class. That is the measure of a true friend. We'll miss our summer reunions albeit infrequent but always cherished on Cape. Rick and Linda Marstons Mills

April 26, 2018

Extending condolences to the family. May God become a source of comfort and strength during this time of sorrow.

Lee Barnes

April 25, 2018

Whenever I look back on football at VMI, I only see that Cinderella season of '67. Hugh was a standout at defensive tackle, he made me look good playing right next to him as defensive end. Whenever I missed keeping the tight end off of "doubling down on him" he could work his way through, but would show his wit and kindly remind me he could sure use a little help!
Hugh also had the best treasure trove collection of Otis Redding! Which I loved almost as much as football!

Hugh will always be in my memory of the VMI experience!

May God bless him and care for him now!

Brother Rat,
Lee B.

Eugene KESSLER

April 25, 2018

Dear Connie and Family,

I was deeply shocked and sorry to hear of Hugh's passing.

We had many good times and "adventures" with our Alfa Romeos. He will be greatly missed by his friends, but most of all by his family.

With deepest sympathy,

Gene, Debbie and Fred Kessler

April 24, 2018

Stephen and I send our deepest sympathies to this beautiful family. God Bless. Theo Hayes

Cathy Morrison

April 24, 2018

I'm so very sorry Connie for your and the girls' loss of Hugh! Although I never met him, I know he was a very special man. Thinking of all of you during this sad time.

Dick Jeter

April 23, 2018

The loss of Rho leaves a hole in my heart. I'll always remember him as a special friend. Fatback

AB

April 23, 2018

My deepest sympathy to the family during this time of sorrow. May you find comfort in the fact that God will make you firm and he will make you strong. He will firmly ground you during this time of grief. - 1 Peter 5:10

The VA's

April 23, 2018

Barbara & I will miss you. Really enjoyed all of the fun times with you and Connie. Great tennis in DC and super tour guide at the Cape.

April 23, 2018

May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. (Psalms 116:15)

bo prillaman

April 22, 2018

Catherine and I are extremely saddened by this event, but we take heart in knowing we loved the boy and he experienced a life well lived

April 21, 2018

one of the great guys I have ever known
scooter

Charles

April 21, 2018

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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