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Robert O. Humphrey

1949 - 2020

Robert O. Humphrey obituary, 1949-2020, Gloucester, MA

BORN

1949

DIED

2020

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Gloucester, Massachusetts

Robert Humphrey Obituary

Robert O. ("Bobby") Humphrey, 71, passed away on July 24, 2020 at Boston Medical Center after an unexpected brain hemorrhage. He was born in Marblehead on April 11, 1949, son of the late Frank W. Humphrey, Jr and Elizabeth M. (Osborne) Humphrey. At a young age, he was always very inquisitive as to how things worked. He would often take things apart just to be able to put them back together. One story he told was getting an old lawnmower and making it into a go-cart and riding around the neighborhood. He was a graduate of the Clark School for the Deaf and St. Johnsbury Academy, St. Johnsbury, VT where he was an avid skier. In his earlier years he worked with a communication company making devices to assist the hearing impaired. Although he himself was hearing impaired, it was important to help others like himself and he truly had that gift. He was fortunate to be able to have his own businesses in the window installation business, a painting company and most recently as a handyman. He would fix almost anything and would do an excellent job. His carpentry skills were best used making beautiful tables, cabinets and lazy Susan's which he loved to give to friends. If it was not perfect, you could be sure that he would throw some paint on it and start all over again. He loved the Town of Marblehead and its history. A great snowy day would be spent with Carol playing the game "What's Not in Marblehead Anymore?" And they would reminisce of the town they grew up in. An avid pool shark he loved to play the game any chance he had. Not to win but to enjoy the game and share his skills with others. He was a member of the Gerry 5 in Marblehead and the Elks at Bass Rocks in Gloucester. The last 10 years he faced multiple medical issues but fought very hard and never gave up. Proved he was a Survivor. Two words to describe him, Kind and Loving. He is survived by his partner, Carol Clark of Gloucester; his sister, Suzanne Humphrey Ulrich and her husband, George of Marblehead; two nephews, Joshua and Matthew Ulrich and many cousins in the Osborne, Attridge, Russell, Graves and Kiely Families. At his request there will be no services. A Celebration of his Life will be announced at a later date when being social is safe. Contributions may be made in Bobby's name to the American Heart Association, 300 5th Ave Waltham, 02451 or Massachusetts General Hospital, 55 Fruit Street, Boston, MA 02114. Arrangements are by the Greely Funeral Home 212 Washington St. Gloucester. Online condolences may be given at: www.greelyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Marblehead Reporter from Jul. 31 to Aug. 13, 2020.

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Stefan Louisos

August 20, 2020

First, I want to apologize for not responding sooner because I was so lost to my feelings,grievings and to put some words together of how he had greatly effect my life:
When I first heard that my dearest best friend Bobby had passed and didn't realize about his health issues. Dam it!
I felt a huge part of me is missing. I've learned so much from this very special person and he helped me in so many levels to be who I am now.
We are both hearing impaired guys, we first met at Road school in good old Marblehead .Our friendships clicked immediately! Wow, we had numerous adventures together!! It was NEVER a dull moment to be with Bobby, he was full of surprises ,always tried something fun together,we biked everywhere (long before our learner's permits!),boating, camping, hiking, building stuff, skiing, double dating and the lists are endlessly long. Can't imagine what my life would be like without him! His hearing loss wasn't a problem for him, it never slowed him down! I was at awed of how he was so smart ,highly intelligent ,very curious, always looking for better ways to make anything easier and he had influenced me to no end. Unwittingly, he was a very good teacher to me, thanks Bobby.
As we get older,we went separate ways ,I got married to my wonderful wife and we have two great children. My incredible wife's Gayle Nickerson, who grew up in Marblehead. Most of my energy was focused of my family life. I would never ever forget Bobby, always thinking about him, he was my best friend ,after all!! Who wouldn't!
Several years ago Bobby and Carol invited me for lunch at their place in Gloucester. I was thrilled ! I like Carol right away ,a wonderful person and both were 5-star hosts! At that time, I've been working hard and long hours.
Now, I'm retired (finally!!) started two years ago,I wanted very much to reconnect my best friend again. I lost his address,called his cousins few times(left a message to get his address),they didn't respond. Went to his club,the Gerry's ,to no avail. The main reason was, I want to express my heartfelt gratitude to my best friend Bobby, that he had helped me to be a better person. Again dam it.
Over 40 years ago, my buddy, Bobby got me a great belt ,I've been wearing it religiously ever since ,a constant reminder of my best friend, Bobby. Always.
I'm VERY fortunate and VERY honored to be a part of his life.
Thank you, Bobby. Be patient, I'll see you in a few years.
Truly yours Stefan Louisos

Don Place

July 31, 2020

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