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Charlotte Mary Toulouse

1948 - 2019

Charlotte Mary Toulouse obituary, 1948-2019, Albuquerque, NM

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Charlotte Toulouse Obituary

Charlotte Mary Toulouse



Charlotte Mary

Toulouse died on July 3, 2019 just one month shy of her 71st birthday. Charlotte was a practicing attorney in Albuquerque since 1973. She was born August 3rd, 1948 in Washington D.C to the late James and Charlotte

Toulouse where her father, an Albuquerque native, was attending law school at Georgetown University. She resided in Albuquerque since she was four months old. She graduated from Highland High School in 1966, received her undergraduate degree from the University of New Mexico in 1970 and entered Notre Dame Law School where she was only the second class of woman allowed into the law program. At the time there were no women undergraduate students at Notre Dame. She was one of 20 women in a class of 200. She graduated from Notre Dame in 1973, and after a clerkship with the late Honorable Donald P. Lay the Chief Judge on the 8th Circuit Court of Appeals, she returned to Albuquerque where she was one of the first 100 woman admitted to the New Mexico Bar. She practiced law in her father's firm until his death in 2002. Over her 46 years as an attorney both in her father's firm and as a sole practitioner there are very few aspects of law she was not involved with. She was instrumental in many historical cases for the state, including the to help peacefully end the Fairchild Plant occupation by Navajo workers in 1975, the Santa Fe Prison Riot in 1980 and multiple arguments before the New Mexico Supreme court where she helped shape the future of medical malpractice law. For many years she was on the board of directors of Transitional Living Services, an agency who provides support for those with chronic mental illness. She was one of the first Hearing Officers for the New Mexico Division of Insurance's external review

board and at its inception she was a panel member on the New Mexico Medical

Review Commission. Over the

last ten years of her practice she became a sought after Guardian

ad Litem representing, supporting and caring for hundreds of children in contentious custody cases. Many of them on a pro bono basis. Charlotte was deeply passionate about the state of our world and was heavily involved in local politics serving multiple times as a state delegate for the Democratic Party. She was an avid football fan teaching her son, nephews, nieces, great nephews and great nieces the Notre Dame Fight Song well before they could even walk. Most of all she loved her family serving as a central figure in maintaining connections across a wide extended family who will miss her dearly. She was pre-deceased by her sister Laura Lee Megah and is survived by her partner Robert Secrest, her son Trent Toulouse, her sisters Carmie Lynn Toulouse, Leigh-Anne Toulouse and Samantha Schwack (Art), her nephews Jeremy (Jenny) Toulouse and James McAnally, nieces Tamaya Toulouse (Ivan Weiner), Kim Megah, and Brook Escapule (Tyler), and 9 grand nephews and nieces with many more beloved cousins, relatives, colleagues and friends. A memorial service will be held at the First Presbyterian Church, 215 Locust NE, on Sunday August 4th at 2 pm all are welcome. In lieu of flowers the family requests donations in Charlotte's name be made to Mandy's Special Farm, PO Box 9346, Albuquerque, NM 87119 an organization close to the heart of Charlotte and her family. Arrangements entrusted to Riverside Funeral Home. On behalf of my mother, continue to speak out on issues that need to change.

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Published by Albuquerque Journal from Jul. 28 to Aug. 2, 2019.

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August 5, 2019

Dear Robert and Trent and family,
Charlotte Mary was such a fighter for justice and equity. She was, like the entire family, a true blue Democrat, and did more than her share of work for the party. She was fun to be with, always witty and funny. I will miss her. My thoughts are with you all.
Sincerely,
Cheryl Harris

Reed Hatch

August 5, 2019

Trent and Family -

Please accept my condolences. Charlotte Mary was a leader on so many issues and never accepted the status quo from any of us, whether in politics or life. We will all miss her wit and passion. I only hope that I can continue to flight and push for a better world - as she thought us all.

Jon P.

August 3, 2019

Such a nice person. I met her and her friends for lunch in Albuquerque when visiting in 2016 with my partner. A very strong personality with a heart of gold. God bless you Charlotte. Rest in peace.

Pete & Sandra Vigil

August 3, 2019

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.Charlotte Mary was a very special person in our lives. She will be missed.

Daniel Wilson

August 3, 2019

My sincerest condolences to the Toulouse family. Charlotte Mary was a positive and endearing force for the good in us all. She will be missed but not forgotten.

Erin

August 2, 2019

Charlotte Mary, you will be missed. Thank you for your guidance and wise words. So sorry for your loss, Trent and family. May she rest in peace.

Susan Fladager

August 2, 2019

I knew Charlotte Mary when were in Jobs Daughter's. I admired her then. She was so kind. My condolences to all her family.

John Russo

July 31, 2019

Charlotte Mary Toulouse was an attorney who represented me. She communicated accurate advice to me that has helped to save my life. I extend my condolences to her family.

The Gang

July 31, 2019

From everyone who worked with Charlotte Mary - we miss her dearly.

Meredith Johnstone

July 28, 2019

Trent, Robert, and Family:
Please accept my deepest condolences, thoughts, and prayers. Charlotte Mary was such a genuine soul who I already miss very much. One of the best story-tellers I've come across, I will miss hearing her talk about her family, her career and our profession, and most recently, her racoons! She was an amazing lawyer, and I can only imagine the number of people who are thankful to her for all she did for them. My heart is broken by her passing. I hope for nothing but comfort for her family during this very hard time.

Craig and Patricia Schooley

July 28, 2019

What a great lady. I remember her the night the Masonic Temple burned down and how she made sure all of the members of her Bethel got out and were safe.
To Trent she was so proud of you and she will always be with you and be proud.
Carmie Love among Sisters is eternal you will always have her.
Love Patricia and Craig.

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First Presbyterian Church

215 Locust NE, NM 87108

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