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Mary A. Swank

1936 - 2022

Mary A. Swank obituary, 1936-2022, Albuquerque, NM

BORN

1936

DIED

2022

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Daniels Family Funeral Services - Strong-Thorne Mortuary

1100 Coal Ave. SE

Albuquerque, New Mexico

Mary Swank Obituary

Mary A. Swank



Mary Alice Swank, Born Mary Alice Anderson on February 24, 1936, has made her journey home on August 28, 2022 after a four-month battle with cancer. She was born in Raton NM, to Listen R.Anderson and Emma Lorraine Anderson. She joins a large circle of family and friends, her parents, husband Bud, son Gary, sister Nadine, brothers Bob and Theron, dearest friends Bev, Frank and Joan, several nieces, nephews, brothers-in-law Chet, Howard, David, sisters-in-law Zona, Micky, Joann and Joyce. She is survived by her Daughter Traci Lynn Swank-Sanchez, grand daughter Jenna Mari Sanchez, grandson Noah A. Sanchez, his fiance Angelina, the beautiful great-granddaughter Jayde Marie Sanchez, whom she enjoyed so very much since her arrival in 2022, son-in-law Kraig A. Sanchez, "daughter" and "son" Vicki Lynn McClelland, Alan Hixon, her best friends Sandy and Douglas Warwick, her neighbors who were true family, Ron and Shannon Daily, and their children Troy, Shayla and Savanna.

Mary had a rough start to her life here on Earth, as she was stricken with Polio at a very young age and spent a lengthy part of her infancy and early childhood in the Shriners Hospital in CA, where she endured many surgeries on her legs. She was told she would spend her life using a wheelchair. From the get-go she was a determined, stubborn, and driven person, defying all odds and despite her physical barriers, she learned to walk and walked with no assistance until she was over 80. Only then did she start using a cane and later a walker and continued to walk until her last days. On June 1, 1951, she married Guy (Bud) L. Swank and they had a great partnership and marriage. They worked together for many years, square danced with friends, spent game nights and camping trips with the family. Due to her Polio, she was not able to bare children so she and Bud set out to adopt. In 1964, they adopted their son, Gary Dale Swank, and in 1967 they adopted their daughter, Traci Lynn Swank-Sanchez. Mary was a full-time mom who never missed a field trip, class or, birthday

party, Scouts and Brownie troops, being a room mom, a caretaker and ultimately, the best mom ever. While she did all the things a great mom does, she had many part-time jobs like stocking seed packets, stringing heishi, making turquois inlay, newspaper routes, filling candy machines and many more. After her kids were older, she took on a job with the Albuquerque Board of Realtors where she enjoyed going to work every day. This is where she met her best friend Sandy, and they started a courier business together and did this until retirement. This job allowed Mary to form friendships with many wonderful people. After Bud passed in 2000, after 49 years of marriage, she had the opportunity to travel for several years with her dearest friends Frank and Joan Trembath. She was able to see Scotland, Ireland, Alaska, Hawaii, and many more places. Mary and her siblings had a very strong bond and the love and support showed as her brother, Listen R Anderson, wife Carolyn, sisters Thelma Stump and Joyce Copeland, spent all day with her every single day from the day she was diagnosed and throughout the four months she battled cancer.

Special thanks you goes to her granddaughter, Jenna Mari, for being by our side day and night, for stepping up so valiantly, for being herself and being the rock and grandma's 'cookie sneaker' --- we are so extremely proud of how you showed up for your grandma to the very end. Vicki, for the companionship, laughs, and support you gave mom and me -- and being on this journey with us "Golden Girls forever". Heartland Hospice for the care and support they provided during this time, Wilma, her nurse, and especially to our Angel of Mercy, Jessie. Mary will always be loved beyond words; she will be extremely missed by so many who adored her.

Services will be held on September 23, 2022 at 10:30 a.m., Stronge-Throne Mortuary 1100 Coal Ave SE 87106.

Mom, Thank you for picking me and allowing me the privilege to care for you in your last years, Traci

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Published by Albuquerque Journal from Sep. 18 to Sep. 21, 2022.

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Carolyn

September 20, 2022

Special and precious lady that we will never forget and will miss
So very much.

Becky Marquart

September 18, 2022

Mary was a wonderful person who treated me like I was her other daughter! She is missed but is now with the love of her life. Blessings of a happy life!

Marlene Zagar

September 18, 2022

Lovely obituary for a lovely lady. She will be so missed. Hugs and prayers now and in the days ahead.

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