Search by Name

Search by Name

Rebecca Elfmont Obituary

Elfmont, Rebecca Valencia



Rebecca Valencia Elfmont died on July 16, 2017 after a prolonged battle with cancer. She was 74 years old. Rebecca was born and raised in Farmington, New Mexico, the daughter of Peter Joe Valencia and Fedelina Trujillo Valencia. Her siblings are Peter Valencia Jr., a field representative for Representative Ben Lujan; Eugene Valencia, owner of Valencia Insulation; and Linda Valencia Martinez, an artist and craftswoman who lives in Albuquerque. Rebecca was blessed to have three wonderful children: Lena Elfmont of Los Angeles, Suzannah Modzelewski and her husband Dan of Phoenix, and Tomas Elfmont and his wife Samantha of Washington D.C. In addition, Rebecca loved her grandchildren Mattilyn, Samantha and Thomas. Rebecca also left behind her special friend and companion of long duration, Dr. Jon Hurd whom she loved very much. Rebecca will dearly miss all those in her life.



Rebecca learned early in life that she loved to read, and it served her well. She received a Bachelor's of Science from the University of New Mexico, a Master's Degree from New Mexico State University and a second Masters from California State University, Dominguez Hills. She was a special educator for over 40 years in California and New Mexico and always strove to help those in need.



In addition, Rebecca had what could only be described as an unusual sense of humor and affinity for the arts. In the final stage of life she said dying was "for the birds". You never knew what to expect when opening a closet in her house, which was often filled with gag gifts or macabre masks. Rebecca's children thought her pottery and art projects were weird beyond belief, but they embodied a spirit of life, a streak of independence and defiance, which made her stridently unique.



Rebecca's Rosary will be at 7pm Aug. 3 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Farmington. A funeral mass & luncheon will follow the next day at 10am.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Albuquerque Journal on Jul. 30, 2017.

Memories and Condolences
for Rebecca Elfmont

Not sure what to say?





4 Entries

Jinx F.

February 9, 2025

So sorry to read about Becky's and my sympathy goes out to her family.
I met Becky in CA when our sons were in preschool together. My son, Damon, and Tomas were like spirits. They had the same type of laid-back personality.
Becky invited us to bbq's at their house and even had us over for Thanksgiving one year.
Unfortunately, we lost touch when they moved to NM.
Becky was super smart but never flaunted her intelligence. She was very classy and fun and a very good friend. I regret losing touch with her.

Tom Daly

July 24, 2021

Loved her sense of humor and her smile.

lena Elfmont

November 2, 2017

I miss you Mom. Soooo much. :( Life will never be the same without you. I will love you forever Mommy. All my love, Lena

tom daly

July 30, 2017

Becky, you were always a fun girl, and I never walked away from you without a smile.

Showing 1 - 4 of 4 results

Make a Donation
in Rebecca Elfmont's name

Memorial Events
for Rebecca Elfmont

Aug

3

Rosary

7:00 p.m.

Sacred Heart Catholic Church

414 N. Allen Ave., Farmington, NM

Aug

4

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

Sacred Heart Catholic Church

414 N. Allen Ave, Farmington, NM

How to support Rebecca's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Rebecca Elfmont's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more