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Shirley Villa Obituary

Shirley Mae (Eggert) Villa



Shirley Mae (Eggert) Villa, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend, died Thursday, February 1st, 2024. The second of three children, she was born in Albuquerque on June 26, 1932, to William E. Eggert and Anna S. Eggert. She spent the early years of her life in Santa Fe, attending Loretto Academy for Girls. In 1943, the family moved to Albuquerque and Shirley enrolled in St. Mary's in the fifth grade. Her extremely shy nature made the transition from an all-girls school to a coed environment so difficult she cried every day after school for the entire first year. Eventually she found her footing and those school years set the course for the rest of her life. She met the love of her life in those hallways at St. Mary's, made lifelong friends, studied diligently, was elected Homecoming Queen, and graduated in 1950.



After high school, Shirley attended St. Joseph's College, pursuing a degree in primary education with plans of becoming a teacher. Having grown up in education, as her parents owned and operated the Santa Fe Secretarial School and the Albuquerque Business College, and seeing her mother teach multiple subjects, she was drawn to teaching. She spent one happy year in San Bernadino teaching second grade, and a lifetime employing her teacher voice to excellent effect in many circumstances, but her career was not to be in teaching.



On July 9, 1955, Shirley married Charley Villa, which was the beginning of the second half of their impossibly perfect love story. They first met in grade school at St. Mary's and simply knew each other forever. They went on their first date November 25, 1948, a date they celebrated together for 72 years. They drove across the river to St. Joseph's every day of college, and they studied together at night. They enjoyed hot dogs and root beer floats at drive-ins and lunch counters, always sharing because money was tight. He worked summers on the Santa Fe Railroad and saved money to buy her engagement ring. He was deployed to Germany with the First Infantry Army 5 days after the wedding. She joined him in Kitzingen in September, and they spent their first two married years in Germany, where he worked in accounting for the Seventh Army. One day, Charley overheard a conversation complaining that no one on staff was able to take shorthand. He asked Shirley if she would be interested, and the next day they were once again together, going to work. The secretarial skills Shirley learned and taught with her mother growing up landed her a job as a civilian employee in Special Services for the US Army. She loved that job and the people she worked with, remembering it with joy her entire life. After returning home from the Army in 1958, she again taught at the Albuquerque Business College, working with her family.



In 1960, they bought Bruno's Liquors, a small liquor store in Albuquerque, renaming it Cee Vee Liquors, and she left teaching to work with Charley in the store. In 1962, they welcomed their only child, Carla, and their happy duo became a trio. The business continued to grow, changing directions in 1971 when the store was lost to a riot. Cee Vee Concessions followed in 1972, servicing the State Fair for 22 years, and the University of New Mexico for 8 years. In every business endeavor that followed, Shirley was an equal partner and integral to its success.



When High Noon opened in 1974, Shirley wrote every training manual for the front of the house staff, hired and trained the original staff, wrote the history of the building and oversaw interior design. Her innate class and sense of style were always reflected in their business. Her insistence on high standards never wavered. His energy was formidable and drove the business forward. Her elegance was the compass that guided that energy. They were at their best when they were working together.

It is not possible to talk about her without mentioning her physical beauty. She was striking and timelessly elegant. She had movie star genes. And she was equally beautiful in her soul. Kind, intelligent, devoted to her family and her faith, selfless and honest. She was so often the person family and friends called to ask for prayers and comfort that we used to say she had a special pipeline to heaven. She was simply extraordinary in every way.



Shirley was devoted to her family, in every way and in every generation. A devoted daughter, a fierce wife, a loving sister, a fairy godmother aunt, a magical grandmother, and the very best mother. She took care of every person at one time and in some way, as only she could do. All of us are more than we could possibly have hoped to be because of her influence, her example, her love and her prayers. She will be missed, cherished, celebrated and loved forever.



She was preceded in death by her parents; by her brother, Monsignor Francis X Eggert; and her sister, Phyllis Ables and her husband, Charles. She leaves behind her very lucky daughter, Carla (Mike Bickel); equally lucky grandchildren, Charley Bickel and Edie Bickel; nieces, Melodee (Phil) Witt, Carole Sullivan, and Shirley Sandlin; and nephew, Dan Sandlin; as well as numerous other family and friends.



The family would like to thank her devoted caregiver Rita Tesfamichael for her years of friendship, love and kindness, as well as JoAnne Haynes, Crystal Amparan, Ebyn Chavez, and Trinh Trinh for the joy and light they brought to Shirley. Special thanks to Dr. Suzanne Pinon for her years of excellent care and support. Please visit our online guestbook for Shirley at

www.FrenchFunerals.com
Published by Albuquerque Journal on Feb. 13, 2024.

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Dave Davis

March 6, 2025

A grandson of an old family friend, Harriet Adams. I know it´s been over a year but, wishing Carla and the family my condolences. I have fond memories of visiting Charlie and Shirley at the house with my mom and dad. Praying for your family Carla.

C.J. Olinger

May 14, 2024

Oh, my gosh, I just now learned about Shirley's death as I was searching Facebook on information about Edie's graduation. What a great lady she was! What a wonderful obituary! My sympathy and love to Carla, Mike, Charley, and Edie. (Congratulations and blessings to Edie.)

PATRICIA L COURT

February 29, 2024

I found out about this too late to attend the service, but Shirley was just a gem! I knew her from Jazzercise and she and Carla lit up the room when they were in class. Carla, thinking of you and sending prayers to you and yours. You should take some comfort in the wonderful long life full of memories you have. God Bless.

Gerry Jewell

February 20, 2024

A "shining light" went out on February 1st. Shirley lives on in our hearts because she touched everyone´s heart in such a unique way. I loved Shirley´s smile, her kindness, and for always having an up beat attitude. The journey of life, now brings her peace. Both myself and my late husband, John/Bob, worked and played with Charley and Shirley. We offer both gratitude for the opportunity. How grateful I am for the time we had together.

Thoughts and prayers are with Carla and Mike and their family...........May time ease the sorrow.

Loving thoughts and prayers your way.

Sending love,
Gerry Jewell

Ann Edenfield Sweet

February 15, 2024

Shirley and Charlie lived across from us on Maple St. when my first son Tommy was born in 1978. They were always kind, friendly, and lovely neighbors. When we moved from there I lost track of them on a personal basis until I stated a non-profit called Wings For LIFE International. In 2005 we started doing weekly meetings and soon we started serving dinner with the meals.

I can't remember what year it was exactly that Shirley and Charlie started providing us MONTHLY delicious meals from their restaurant High Noon. It was always the highlight of the month, because the food was so delicious and so lovingly prepared. They did that for years until COVID hit and we were no longer meeting in public.

Shirley and Charley were such loving, caring people. They always were willing to help and lived out their faith so beautifully through all they did to help Wings, our families, and so many others over the years in other ways. I am forever grateful to both of them and want Carla and her family to know what amazing parents she had. If everyone had such parents as Carla did, our world would be a far greater place.

Love, prayers, and THANKS to Shirley, Charlie, and Carla.

In His love,
Ann Edenfield Sweet, resigned Executive Director Wings For LIFE International

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Prayer Service

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Immaculate Conception Catholic Church

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1:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

High Noon Restaurant and Saloon

425 San Felipe Street NW, Albuquerque, NM 87104

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Gate of Heaven Cemetery

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