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Thomas Truxtun Rutherford III

Thomas Truxtun Rutherford III passed away in November of 2024 at the age of 77. Tom was born in Columbus, OH. His family moved to Albuquerque in 1954 to join his father, who had come to work on the gubernatorial campaign of his WWII war buddy, John Simms.

Tom attended Zia Elementary, Jefferson JR High, Highland, and graduated from AHS Night School (Toad High). Tom got his BBA and JD at UNM. His father, Jim Rutherford, took Tom under his wing at the capitol, first when he was a state representative, then as a lobbyist.

Tom spent every session in Santa Fe from the age of ten. In his early teens, he filled in one day as the house of representatives reader. He did so well, they gave him the job permanently.

His voice and intelligence would serve him well. He worked at various radio stations starting in high school. Eventually, while at KKOB, he was tasked with connecting with the Cutter family, regarding a balloon they had just used to celebrate their mother's birthday. It was 1972, KKOB's 50th anniversary, and they were looking for something unique for their celebration. Tom, Sid and others turned this into what would become the signature event of New Mexico, the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta, as well as the first two world hot air balloon championships. As a pilot, he would become 'Bud Man, 'flying the Budweiser balloon, around the world. After retiring as a pilot, he would continue on as 'the voice of fiesta' until 2014, both on local tv and on the field.

Also in 1972, he ran for state senate in district 16, near NE Heights and UNM. With the support of many newly eligible-to-vote students, he became the youngest (legally) elected senator ever. (which still holds) He served six terms, retiring in 1996. During his tenure, he served as chair of rules and conservation committees, majority floor leader, and as both majority and minority whip.

He was an early proponent of decriminalizing marijuana, he led the repeal of sodomy laws that discriminated against gays and lesbians, helped enact the developmental disabilities waiver program, was instrumental in the fight for the Lynn Pierson Compassionate Use law, championed art in public places, the capitol art foundation, artists property rights, and introduced SB 91, (1991), the first bill to attempt to provide human rights to all, regardless of sexual orientation.

He was very proud of his role in helping create the neonatal intensive care unit at UNMH. Later, his great joy was being a cuddler in the unit.

Tom spent his career championing the under served, underrepresented and the invisible. After the senate, Tom served two terms with the Bernalillo County Commssion.

He gave tirelessly to so many organizations over the years, as an emcee, an auctioneer, or any way he could help. Tom is a member of both the Balloon Fiesta Hall of Fame and the New Mexico Tourism Hall of Fame.

Tom could never have imagined the life he would have, travelling the world, meeting presidents and princes, counting movie stars and ambassadors as close friends, hanging with the Dalai Lama in Santa Fe, surviving his balloon going down in the Bermuda Triangle, doing the full Willie Nelson on the White House roof, and many more adventures not fit for print. Tom was a FOB for 31 years.

Tom was preceded in death by parents Jim and Bets, sister Julia Silvers, BIL Larry Silvers, brother Forrest, BIL Dave Arrasmith, and first wife Linda. Tom is survived by sister Anne, niece Elya, brother James, and son Jeremy.

Thanks to all who have shared their memories. He was truly blessed to have so many amazing, wonderful, brilliant, funny people in his life over his 77 years.

Thanks to Morada Memory Care, and High Desert Hospice for the care provided over his last few years, and UNMH for his healthcare for decades.

A celebration of Tom's life will be announced for late Spring 2025.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Albuquerque Journal on Jan. 26, 2025.

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Moira Gerety

June 28, 2025

Tom was a most gracious person. I worked with him during my time in Santa Fe and learned that he was generous, thoughtful and committed to making NM a better place. I will never forget when he framed a picture of me from CIO magazine and gave it to me as a gift. Needless to say, 20 years on I still have the picture and I still have Tom in my heart. May he rest in peace.

Loni Griego

April 18, 2025

Tom was a good friend for over 35 yrs. His kindness & caring made so much difference in our world. He'll be missed.

Gayle Sumner

February 1, 2025

Condolences to James and your family. Though I didn't know Tom I remember his distinctive voice when he was present in a room accompanied by that splendid smile. He contributed to New Mexico's history.

Charlie Lujan

January 31, 2025

Tom,lived down the street from me and I remember us playing football,baseball at the park.He would always help me with homework if I needed it.Always had a smile and I don't remember him ever being mad,just a nice guy.My condolences go out to the family and friends.RIP Tom.

alvin baca

January 30, 2025

Tom was a very good and reliable friend. He served his community and the State of New Mexico very well, and with a friendly spirit of fairness. He will be greatly missed,
Alvin Baca

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Suzi Fly t Manus

January 27, 2025

Always enjoyed seeing Tom. We all ballooned together. Loved Tom in the "Bud Man" outfit. Lots of good memories. Tom is missed.

Matt Cohen

January 27, 2025

We were the first family Tom called on at home for his 1st campaign! He represented my family well in SF for many years

He was a nice guy and deserved all the positives he had in life.

May he rest in peace

Matt Cohen

Sasha Pyle

January 26, 2025

A lovely man. A friend to non-profits and community activists. Rest well.

Bill Valentine

January 26, 2025

Although Tom and I were on opposite sides politically, we were close friends. He mentored me and helped me on many pieces of legislation, committees, etc... We appeared quite often on television together. I have many fond memories of our time in the Legislature together. I will deeply miss him and his friendship and his sense of humor and his golden voice.

Jocelyn M Torres

January 26, 2025

I graduated from UNM Law School with Tom. He was a great friend. I am now the chair of the State Bar´s senior lawyers division. On November 11, 2025 we will host a memorial ceremony for deceased attorneys. It will be held at the State Bar 5121 masthead Northeast at 5 PM on that date. I invite Tom´s friends and family to attend Jocelyn M Torres attorney at law.

Edward J. Lopez, Jr.

January 26, 2025

New Mexico is a better place because Tom Rutherford lived here.

From co-founding the Balloon Fiesta, to his work as a volunteer baby cuddler at local hospitals, Tom always put people first on his list. He managed life´s unavoidable ups and downs with courage and grace and gave others encouragement to do the same.

Moments after my Dad´s sudden death at 1 a.m. on January 19, 1996, Tom Rutherford was at St. Vincent´s Hospital and could see that my mother was in terrible distress. Although he didn´t yet know me, Tom quietly broke away to call me at my office in China, where it was 5 pm the next day, gave me the bad news, and handed my Mom the phone. He was there for my family and many others over many years.

Thank you, Tom Rutherford. We will never forget you.

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