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Moira Gerety
June 28, 2025
Tom was a most gracious person. I worked with him during my time in Santa Fe and learned that he was generous, thoughtful and committed to making NM a better place. I will never forget when he framed a picture of me from CIO magazine and gave it to me as a gift. Needless to say, 20 years on I still have the picture and I still have Tom in my heart. May he rest in peace.
Loni Griego
April 18, 2025
Tom was a good friend for over 35 yrs. His kindness & caring made so much difference in our world. He'll be missed.
Gayle Sumner
February 1, 2025
Condolences to James and your family. Though I didn't know Tom I remember his distinctive voice when he was present in a room accompanied by that splendid smile. He contributed to New Mexico's history.
Charlie Lujan
January 31, 2025
Tom,lived down the street from me and I remember us playing football,baseball at the park.He would always help me with homework if I needed it.Always had a smile and I don't remember him ever being mad,just a nice guy.My condolences go out to the family and friends.RIP Tom.
alvin baca
January 30, 2025
Tom was a very good and reliable friend. He served his community and the State of New Mexico very well, and with a friendly spirit of fairness. He will be greatly missed,
Alvin Baca
Suzi Fly t Manus
January 27, 2025
Always enjoyed seeing Tom. We all ballooned together. Loved Tom in the "Bud Man" outfit. Lots of good memories. Tom is missed.
Matt Cohen
January 27, 2025
We were the first family Tom called on at home for his 1st campaign! He represented my family well in SF for many years
He was a nice guy and deserved all the positives he had in life.
May he rest in peace
Matt Cohen
Sasha Pyle
January 26, 2025
A lovely man. A friend to non-profits and community activists. Rest well.
Bill Valentine
January 26, 2025
Although Tom and I were on opposite sides politically, we were close friends. He mentored me and helped me on many pieces of legislation, committees, etc... We appeared quite often on television together. I have many fond memories of our time in the Legislature together. I will deeply miss him and his friendship and his sense of humor and his golden voice.
Jocelyn M Torres
January 26, 2025
I graduated from UNM Law School with Tom. He was a great friend. I am now the chair of the State Bar´s senior lawyers division. On November 11, 2025 we will host a memorial ceremony for deceased attorneys. It will be held at the State Bar 5121 masthead Northeast at 5 PM on that date. I invite Tom´s friends and family to attend Jocelyn M Torres attorney at law.
Edward J. Lopez, Jr.
January 26, 2025
New Mexico is a better place because Tom Rutherford lived here.
From co-founding the Balloon Fiesta, to his work as a volunteer baby cuddler at local hospitals, Tom always put people first on his list. He managed life´s unavoidable ups and downs with courage and grace and gave others encouragement to do the same.
Moments after my Dad´s sudden death at 1 a.m. on January 19, 1996, Tom Rutherford was at St. Vincent´s Hospital and could see that my mother was in terrible distress. Although he didn´t yet know me, Tom quietly broke away to call me at my office in China, where it was 5 pm the next day, gave me the bad news, and handed my Mom the phone. He was there for my family and many others over many years.
Thank you, Tom Rutherford. We will never forget you.
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