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Betti Cuddy Obituary

Longtime Alaskan pioneer Betti Cuddy, 85, died peacefully Jan. 13, 2010, at home surrounded by her family.

A service will be at 5:30 p.m. Feb. 12 at the First Presbyterian Church, 616 W. 10th Ave.

She was born in O'Neill, Neb., on July 21 1924. Upon graduation from Doane University, she taught high school biology, English and Spanish. In the early 1940s, she moved to Seattle, where she began her career at the Bank of California. She met the love of her life, Dan Cuddy, on a blind date and the love grew into a marriage that lasted 62 years.

They built a life in Anchorage, where she was extremely involved in community activities.

Betti was the consummate teacher. She strove to provide opportunities for the children of Anchorage to learn and grow. She founded the organization, Treasures of Sight and Sound (TOSS), which was a precursor to community schools, and paved the way for local theatre productions. She continued to be a prolific patron of Anchorage arts, especially the theatre, and served as a board member of Alaska Center for the Performing Arts.

The community recognized Betti with many awards, such as the Gold Pan Award in 1972.

Anchorage directly benefited from her energy and drive with the development of the Lucy Cuddy Center at the University of Alaska Anchorage and the Cuddy Midtown Park.

Betti was an avid tennis player well into her 80s. She treasured the time and adventures she had with "The Tennis Girls."

Betti always said that her most important role was that of a wife and mother.

Betti is survived by her husband, Dan; their six children and their spouses, Betsy and David Lawer, David and Kathy Cuddy, Gretchen Cuddy, Jane and Gary Klopfer, Lucy and Mark Mahan, Laurel and Fred Stutzer; many grandchildren; three nieces and their families.

In lieu of flowers, please send donations either to Betti Cuddy Trust for Cuddy Family Charities, First National Bank Alaska account 30820765, or to the UAA Lucy Cuddy Culinary Arts School fund, account 20897.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Anchorage Daily News from Jan. 27 to Jan. 29, 2010.

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Bill Weeks

February 15, 2010

Betti and Dan provided inspiration and mentoring for Joan and Me duing our years in Anchorage. My sincere condolences to the family. I know the loss that is felt upon losing a wife and mother.

Maria Downey

February 12, 2010

Dear Cuddy Family,
You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
I always enjoyed visiting with Betti
at events. She was always so warm and
great to talk to.
Betti will be remembered as a wonderful lady with old fashioned grace and class. She will be missed by many. God Bless you all.

Susan Houser

February 5, 2010

Betsy and family; I am sorry for your loss. Mrs. Cuddy was such a fine woman; she was always so kind to me whenever she came into the office. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless.

Kathleen Oakes-Morrow

February 2, 2010

Betty was an angel with the wisdom of hope, love, and courage. She was a kind and special friend who will leave behind her love in each of our hearts. It was a honor to know her. May the memories of her give you peace and strength. My prayers are with all of you.

Rozanne Timbes

January 29, 2010

I will always remember her welcoming smile and wonderful caring personality. Though I only visited a few times I will treasure them always. She passed her grace and elegance,patience and kindness to her children.

My thoughts and prayers to you all.

Patti Koontz Maggiora

January 29, 2010

The Cuddy home was a favorite hangout during our high school years. She didn't even mind if we frosted cakes with our fingers in the kitchen. Mrs. Cuddy was always smiling, gracious, hospitable, and forever dedicated to her family and community. My life was blessed for having known her. To her family, God bless you as you grieve her passing.

Tim Doebler

January 28, 2010

Mrs. Cuddy was a kind, generous, modest and very gracious person. She was always involved with UAA's Lucy Cuddy Hall and she was a fan of the Culinary Arts program............always a teacher......she only ever offered constructive advice.

She will be missed. To her family at this time of great loss.......please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tim Doebler

Will and Jane Madison

January 27, 2010

Betty was such a lovely lady - giving, caring, sharing. We feel very fortunate to have known her and her family. Our thoughts are prayers are with you. Will and Jane Madison

Janet Wool

January 27, 2010

I will always remember the day I met Mrs. Cuddy at an employee bank function. She was taking a walk and had a book in her hand. She was looking for a quiet spot to take a few minutes to relax. I found out then that she loved to read. I will always remember her as a kind gentle person. My thoughts and prayers are with the Cuddy family during this time.

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