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Stephen and Donna Bowler
November 1, 2020
Beautiful person. We enjoyed her gracious company. Still remember her visit to our place many years ago. We will aways remember her .
eva litringer
December 4, 2008
dear tom
I just searched the internet for you guys to find an address to send you a quick note and found out about dede's death. I'm so sorry to hear this.
Paul Williams
December 1, 2008
Tom:
I met Dede when she first arrived in Montana when she and Za showed up on touring bikes at the St Mary's Ranger Station in Glacier Park before fall training camp (I think they were 17 years old at the time! I was amazed at their adventurous spirit.) I was lucky enough to share a season of cross country with her in Missoula. She was a true character, and I can only imagine what a great woman she turned out to be - you must have many wonderful memories. I am terribly sorry for your loss. My sincere regards.
Bill Brist
November 21, 2008
I'm so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Charlie, Katie, C.J. & Pat Dale
November 21, 2008
Tom, Morgan and Pipi,
So very sorry to hear of your loss. Dede was an amazing person, full of life and love. We'll miss her quick wit and gentle nature. She had a fun, adventurous spirit, and a laugh we'll never forget. She loved you all so very much. We'll all miss her deeply. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Harry E Hathhorn
November 12, 2008
To the Eitel and Hathhorn Families.
We want to express our deepest sympathy upon learning of your loss of Deirdre. We never met Deirdre but know she was an exceptional person, wife, and mother with a great many accomplishments. Harry, LaRue, and family want you to know our thoughts are with you.
Lucia Wanders Hagy
November 12, 2008
Dear Tom, Morgan, and Pipi,
We think of you during this difficult time. Dede was a treasure and an inspiration to me during our running days in Montana and over the years. Every Christmas I looked forward to the latest Eitel family portrait on your Christmas post cards. Dede's sense of humor always came through. I will miss her greatly and I send all my love to you.
Danielle Schwartzenberger
November 11, 2008
Dear Coach Tom,
I was saddened to hear about Diedre. I remember her taking photos of me during track and outside of track. She truly knew her photography... I also had the opportunity to run with her in at least one Bozeman race. She always had the biggest smile on her face. You and the little ones will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Andrew Wharton
November 10, 2008
Dear Tom,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Deirdre was such a wonderful woman. I will keep you, Morgan and Pipi in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Reidy Kesheimer
November 9, 2008
Tom,
Dede was a beautiful gift to anyone who was lucky to share time with her. I'll never forget her smile or her spirit.
David Hall
November 9, 2008
Tom, Morgan, Pipi and the Hathhorn family,
I am so sorry for your loss. As a younger Dimond High runner I looked up to Joel’s big sister in Awe; she was the star. Since her death I’ve learned about her life as a photographer and have viewed some of her fantastic work. I was so impressed and saddened at the same time.
Stephen and Donna Bowler
November 9, 2008
Dear Tom, Morgan, and Pipi
Just got word via E-mail this morning. We are very sorry for yours, and our loss. She will be missed. We always enjoyed your company when our busy lives were fortunate enough to allow for a down home social. Donna lost her brother Robert to a bicycle accident in Missoula this Summer. We are always available for you. Never hesitate to call or stop by anytime.
Great regards:
Stephen and Donna
Dan and Pat Hodge
November 8, 2008
Tom, Morgan and Pipi
We are very sorry to hear of the loss of Dede. She was a remarkable person in every way, from her athleticism to her photography. Her photos demonstrated her passions. Thanks for all you and your family have given to our two sons and our daughter-in-law. Our memories are endless. We wish all of you the best at this difficult time. You will remain in our hearts and prayers.
Dan and Pat
Garrett Cheen
November 8, 2008
My prayers go out to Deirdre's family. Deirdre will be missed by everyone whom she touched over the years. Everyone she worked with at the Chronicle, and everyone she captured behind the glass. I judged a photojournalism contest with her once. The great thing was that our newspapers were competitors. I was new to the biz and she called me up out of the blue to invite me to join the judging team of fellow colleagues and competitors. It was a really great experience and I was grateful for the gesture by which no means was necessary. She struck me as a very kind person. Anyway, I've always admired her pictures and her will to go to Afghanistan and Pakistan following her passion of photojournalism for change. Montana photojournalists will always remember her. My condolences also go out to the Chronicle photo staff. It must be difficult continuing to work these past few days. But I guess that's what she would have wanted you to do right. Make deadline.
Garrett Cheen
Daily Inter Lake
Judy Wright
November 8, 2008
I am so sorry for the lost of your dear loved one. It's comforting to know that God cares for all of us and losing a loved one is something we cannot get used to. The Bible gives us hope that one day we can see our dear loved one again. On behalf of all mankind Jesus surrender his soul for many. John 15:13 says “No one has love greater than this, that someone should surrender his soul on behalf of his friends.” Truly I am sorry to hear of the loss of your dear loved one and I hope these few words will bring you comfort and hope.
Trina Ereth, Hilary and Keenan Thompson
November 7, 2008
Tom, Morgan and Pipi,
One of the greatest gifts we have here on this earth is our memory. We can at any given moment close our eyes and see our loved one. No one else will have the exact memory so that makes them each special and personal. I know each of you have countless memories to treasure. God allows us to take these memories with us when we return to be with him, so know that Dede has those of you three with her now. I know she treasures them also. Please find comfort in the wonderful memories and be thankful you got to make them with such a beautiful person that Dede was. Thank you for sharing her with us. We love you all and are truly better people for being allowed to have been a part of yours and Dede's life. God bless!!!
Mik and Maggie Price
November 7, 2008
Tom and Family,
Mike and I are so sorry to learn of your loss. We are thinking of you and your kids.
Mike and Maggie Price, Anchorage, AK
Joni Matthews
November 7, 2008
Tom, Morgan, and Pipi,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I will always remember Dede's friendly smile and the way she lovingly opened her home to me and other track athletes. I am praying for you.
Love Joni
Rob & Idella Matthews
November 7, 2008
Dear Tom, Morgan & Pipi: We were so sorry to hear of your great loss. We will always remember Dede's warm & welcoming hospitality each time we came down. Our hearts and prayers go out to you.
Rob & Idella Matthews
Dewberry, Ab. Canada
Grant Walker
November 7, 2008
Dede:
a resounding memory in the hearts of a core group of skiiers/runners
from many schools in the Anchorage area during our growing up. She
represented the adventurous spirit bred from the beauty of the land of
Alaska- this we thankfully had the oportunity to share with her. The
outdoors, was the catalyst from which deep friendships were formed.
Bob & Carrie Biskupiak
November 6, 2008
Tom, Morgan and Pipi,
We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Our son Bobby always talked about your family in wonderful and unique ways. No doubt this is a very difficult time for all. Please know that you have so many close friends and family to rely on. Tom you mean a great deal to MSU track team. They consider you "their" family. With our deepest sympathy - Bob & Carrie Biskupiak
Vilma Nadj
November 6, 2008
We will always remember the wonderful woman. Dear kids and Tom, we are so sorry...
Eddie Miller
November 6, 2008
I am so sorry that we have lost Dede.
Since I was 4yrs old, we played and grew up together on Borland Drive.
Many memories: playing tag in the Hathhorn's yard, swinging and swimming at Horseshoe Lake, and other wonderful adventures in Alaska.
Dede was a great friend.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Dede's family.
She will be missed
Tim Uribe
November 6, 2008
Tom, Morgan, and Pipi.
Our thoughts and prayers go to you and your families.
Tim & Kyla Uribe
Janet & Ryan Mizner
November 5, 2008
Dear Tom, Morgan, and Pipi,
We are extremely sorry to hear of your great loss. Through your tears, may you find peace. Sending our love to each of you,
Janet & Ryan Mizner and Family
Teresa (Stovern) Brownyard
November 5, 2008
Words cannot express my profound sadness. Losing Dede is hard to fathom. She was such a vibrant, beautiful person. We grew up together…I was looking forward to growing old together. I will always treasure the many fond memories we shared as silly high school girls. Dede was and always will be a beacon of light and love. She meant so much to so many. Tom, Morgan & Pipi, and Marv & Kay, Siobhan & Krissy, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Love & hugs.
Glen and Glen Moore
November 5, 2008
Dear Tom, Morgan & Pipi; As parents of Tom & Tess, we were so pleased to be included in your circle when we
visited Bozeman. What a beautiful
person she was, brightening a room
just by entering it. May God Bless
the family with many memories.
Sarah Sullivan-Afoa
November 5, 2008
In 1979 DeDe painted a baton maroon and gold for me with the label - "Mile Relay Boogie Team". I still have that and very fond memories of the entire Hathhorn family. My heartfelt prayers go out to all.
GARY SCHEIDECKER
November 5, 2008
TOM,MORGAN AND PIPI AND YOUR
FAMILIES. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRA
YERS GO OUT TO ALL OF YOU. DEIDRE WAS A SPECIAL INDIVIDUAL.
AS THE SPONSORS OF THE JOHN COLTER RUN WE WILL MISS HER
PARTICIPATION IN THE RUN IN WHICH SHE IS CURRENT RECORD HOLDER IN THE WOMEN'S 40-49 AGE GROUP. UNIVERSAL ATHLETIC SERVICE
Jay Shaver
November 5, 2008
I new Dede in her early Missoula days. She was a wonderful person, and hearing of her brings back many happy memories. My thoughts are with her family and friends.
Meghan Brown
November 4, 2008
I am saddened to hear of the loss of such a wonderful colleague. My thoughts are with Tom, Morgan and Pipi and all of Deirdre's loved ones.
Jamie Ball
November 4, 2008
Tom, Morgan, and Pipi--There are no words to express to you my sorrow during this time. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you, and I will always remember the wonderful woman you shared with me and the world.
Jamie Ball (The Children's Place)
Rose Harmon
November 4, 2008
Dede, you were such an incredibly beautiful, talented, fun and loving person. I feel truly blessed to have been friends with you and so many of your beloved family and friends. My heart and tears go out to Tom, Morgan, Pippi, Siobhan & John, and Krissy & Mark, who directly touched my life; to your Mom and Dad who have endured more than their share of pain; to the rest of your family whom I've not yet met; and to all the friends we shared. I have many treasured memories of times we were together hiking,laughing, running, eating and toasting our vibrant youth, young love and the great outdoors. You are all gemstones in my past. I am so sad and I love you all.
Susan and Don Marsh and Plumley
November 4, 2008
It's hard to know what to say. We will always remember the fun times with Dede, river trips on the Green and Smith. Sincere condolences to the family, we know how close you all were.
Gail Beckner
November 4, 2008
Siobhan, John, Aran, Tara,
We are so saddened to hear of you and your family's loss. In reading about "Dede", she sounds like an incredible woman and one whose absence will leave a profound hole in this world. We wish you and your family peace and comfort during this time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Gail, Randy and Landen Beckner
Erin Nicholes
November 4, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Deirdre for only three years, but I knew her to be honest, kind and downright funny. Her energy was inspiring and her laughter contagious. I enjoyed spending time with her and I valued seeing the world through her eyes. She will forever be a role model for friendship, compassion and sensitivity.
Kathie Roos
November 4, 2008
Our family's thoughts and prayers are with all of Dede's family that we know and love and those members of the family we wish we knew.
Roos-Blossom Family
Will Harmon
November 4, 2008
I have the happiest memories of long runs along the Clark Fork and up the Rattlesnake and Pattee Canyon with Dede in Missoula more than 20 years ago. Once, during a 10K race around downtown, I caught up to her with about a mile to go. I mentioned that the next woman was only 50 yards behind, and Dede barked "So stop talking and start running!" We put it into overdrive and reeled in one man after another. Dede crossed the finish line in the top 20 overall and more than a minute ahead of the second-place woman. Then she hit me on the shoulder, hard. She said, "I didn't mean we had to sprint the whole last mile." Then she let loose that big, hearty laugh and scooted off looking for Tom, with a bounce in her legs and turning heads as she went. That's how I'll always remember her.
Stephanie Ames
November 4, 2008
Tom, Morgan & Pipi,
My heart goes out to you at this time. I will remember Dede as such a graceful woman! My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Stephanie Ames (from The Childrens Place)
Shawna Koefelda
November 4, 2008
Tom, we are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. We are here if you need anything at all. With sympathy, Mark, Shawna & Lillian Koefelda
Suzanne Feliciano
November 4, 2008
Deirdre and I were classmates at WKU. She was passionate about her photography and about Tom whom she spoke of often and missed during the time she was in Kentucky. I was on her wedding photo site in the past two weeks and was going to send a note how nice her work is. But, unfortunately, I was busy at work and did not take the time. I wish I had because she was heavy on my mind during that time. She is a lovely person and will be missed. Her family, whom I never met, and her co-workers are in my thoughts.
T. Matason
November 3, 2008
Deirdre, your amazing talent, wit and beautiful smile will be missed at 2820 W. College. Things are not the same without you.
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