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Bonnie Hicks Obituary

Bonnie J. Hicks, age 42, a resident of Santa Fe, NM passed away on May 18, 2017. She was born on November 6, 1974 in Alamogordo, New Mexico to parents Bette Joy (B.J.) Shields and Thomas L. Shields.

Bonnie met the love of her life at the age of 13 and married Steven Hicks at 25. They had 3 beautiful girls, Kailea, Kayla, and Shania who were her world.

She is preceded in death by her father Thomas L. Shields, Grandparents Gertrude and Thomas P. Shields, Grandparents Elizabeth and W.O. Reynolds, Brother Thaddeus Shields and brother in law Jerry Hicks.

She is survived by her Husband Steven K. Hicks, Daughters Kailea Hicks (Eric Lury) Kayla Hicks, and Shania Hicks, her Grandson Alec, Mother B.J. Shields, Brother Kevin Shields, Nephew Kevin K. Shields, Mother and Father in law Rick and Geraldine Hicks, Brother in Laws and Sister in laws Richard and Sha Hicks, Ray and Barbara Anchando, Michelle Hicks, and many Nieces, Nephews, Aunts and Uncles.

She spent her time working in her backyard gardening, entertaining, and simply enjoyed being in her sanctuary. She worked at the New Mexico penitentiary as executive administrative assist for Behavioral Health, and absolutely loved her job, and everyone she worked with.

She enjoyed cooking and made delicious feasts for everyone.

She was a proud Mother of her girls, and took in another daughter, Caitlyn. She loved spending time with her girls, and taught them how to have a good time, but still get shit done. She taught her girls how to water ski, and had so much love for the lake. She also taught the girls to have love for others, work hard, and be strong.

A memorial service will be held at the Kiva Chapel of Light (Rivera Family Funeral Home, 417 East Rodeo Road) at 11:00 am on Thursday, May 25, 2017 with a reception to follow at the Elk's Lodge. On Saturday, June 10, 2017 there will be a reception and spreading of her ashes in Alamogordo, N.M.

In Lieu of flowers, donations can be made for the future of Bonnie's daughters to Gofundme.com (Bonnie's Memorial)

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Alamogordo Daily News from May 24 to Jun. 23, 2017.

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Kimberley Binns

June 5, 2019

I love you Bonnie. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you, my sweet best friend. I will see you again one day, in the clouds. I hope the Shields family that I know and love are doing ok. My prayer's are with you.

Martha Kellar

May 17, 2019

I know how very sadly Bonnie is missed by all her family. She was a wonderful woman, raised by a wonderful woman, and mother to wonderful girls. I will always be so sorry for the loss of this beautiful and courageous young woman.

Cheryl Vaughn

May 16, 2019

I think about Bonnie every day. She was such a help to me in the short time that I knew her. Always willing to help in whatever way she could. Always had a smile and good spirit. I miss her good nature. To the family - I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you nothing but fond memories.....and a heart full of peace.

Monique Johnson-Wolfe

June 10, 2017

Dearest Kevin and family Shields, I want to express my heartfelt sadness and sorrow. Kevin, I feel your pain! I lost my beautiful Mom similary. I want to let you know, although however shocking, untimely and unbelievable, your sister will live in your memories forever. May God bless and comfort you all. Sincerely, Monique

Leata Campos

June 2, 2017

Rick, many hugs and much love to you and yours during this horribly difficult time.

Janice Yannacone

June 1, 2017

B.J., My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Bonnie was a wonderful, caring person and a fantastic student.

Ron & Marilyn Whiteley

May 31, 2017

BJ and family.
We were so sadden about Bonnie . We know how you feel. It will be 27 years when Ronnie was killed and it still hurts. But in time you will remember the good times. God bless and our thoughts are with you.

Ron and Marilyn Whiteley

Joyce Brown

May 29, 2017

B.J. I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Cindy

May 28, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss of Bonnie my thoughts and prayers are with you all RIP Bonnie.

Jacob Martinez

May 26, 2017

My condolences to all the Hicks and Shields family. The heartache you all have had to endure in less than a year. I hope that all the wonderful family and friends surrounding you guys give you some comfort in this difficult time. Prayers and love to you all. God Bless. Much Love, Jacob

David Skaar

May 26, 2017

We had a lot of fun in youth group, back in the old days. Lost touch, but sounds like she had a great family and a great life. My condolences to you all.

John Lovato

May 26, 2017

I am deeply sorry for the entire family in the loss of your angel. May she rest in peace and may god comfort you in these trying times. God Bless....

Bea Castellano

May 25, 2017

A Beautiful New Star shines brightly in the Heavens above --God Bless all the Family and Friends of this Precious Soul --You Lived Life and Loved us All --and We're Loving You Back Always -- You're in Our Hearts Forever ~~

Emily Prevatt

May 25, 2017

My deepest condolences. I love you all. Bonnie will truly be missed. May she rest in peace. Prayers for the family; may you all be blessed with peace and strength during this difficult time. God Bless!

Ojito and Emily Prevatt and Family

Laura Maudlin (Ottinger)

May 25, 2017

You will be missed my sweet friend
I love you Bonnie

Anna Albo

May 25, 2017

I've known Bonnie for 17 years now and my heart is heavy today. Still in disbelief I sit here saddened by these events. Bonnie wasn't just a friend, she was family. She was that person who ALWAYS had loving words to say when you were down, two arms to bring you close when you felt lost, and one of the most compassionate hearts I've ever known! She had a knack for making everyone feel like part of her family, I loved her like a sister, and I know this world is one less, of few and far between, beautiful souls, with her passing. I will miss you, I will NEVER forget you!!!

Laurie Martinez

May 25, 2017

Sonya and I send our deepest condolences. Bonnie was always incredibly kind to both of us, always inclusive..........our hearts are heavy, we will keep you all in our prayers. Bonnie we love you.....
RIP kind friend.........

Jaime and maryhelen Anderson

May 25, 2017

BJ and the Hicks family. We r so sorry to hear of the passing of Bonnie a beautiful person. Our prayers r with u all and she will always be in ur hearts. God bless u all.

Libby Butler

May 24, 2017

May God's grace & power help you through each day. My prayers go out to you all.

Arsenio, Darlene ,Shannon, Pierce Gallegos

May 24, 2017

Our condolences to the daughters of the Hicks family. We are very saddened to hear of your mothers passing. Our prayers go out to you. May she rest in glorious peace.

Kimberley Binns

May 24, 2017

You will always light the way, My Dear Sweet Bonnie...

Kimberley Binns (Daugherty)

May 24, 2017

I will always love you Bonnie... We were Best Friends all thru school and to the lake we went every summer, your family... Tom, BJ, Kevin, KK and friends Chuck and Chuck D. Terribly sorry if iv left anyone out, I'm very saddened by this news... Those of you who may not know me personally, may have heard of me, I'm the girl who fell off their two story house balcony in Alamogordo, broke my back n feet and lived w them for awhile. I love you all n miss you, my deepest condolences to you Steve and to BJ and sweet Kayla, to the rest of her family I didn't get to meet, I'm soo sorry for your loss. I will see you again one day my dear best friend. Love you Forever.

Rosemarie Quintana

May 24, 2017

Hicks family you are in my prayers. I am sorry for the loss of Beautiful Bonnie, she will be missed by many.

God Bless you all during this very difficult time.

Rosemarie & family +

Cheryl Vaughn

May 24, 2017

Bonnie was a happy, energetic person. As a co-worker of hers, she was always willing to help me with anything she could. She took a personal interest in my success at work.

I was so saddened by her death and I will miss her greatly.

I give her family my condolences and would like to say to them that "the pain will fade and the good memories will push through."

Good-bye Bonnie. You are missed.

Martha and Bob Kellar

May 24, 2017

BJ and Family,
We extend our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers to you all for the tragic loss of such a beautiful mother, daughter and wife. We know that God will support, bless, and protect all of you, as certainly as He welcomes His beloved Bonnie into Heaven. Much love to you,

Ashley Shelton

May 24, 2017

Love you so much my sweet cousin. We didn't grow up together, but you always made it feel like we had. I will miss you forever.

Patrice

May 24, 2017

May the thought of knowing
that friends family and God share your grief be of comfort to your family. (Pro 17:17)

Casey and Beverly Luna

May 24, 2017

Have no words for the way we feel, just aching for you, Steve, and your girls. Life can be so cruel to those left behind, but you will find a way to forge ahead and keep the good memories. Bonnie will always be remembered by her joyful and loving ways. God Bless Bonnie, Steve, the three girls and the entire Hicks family. We love you....

Karen Harris Watson

May 24, 2017

My heart is aching for your family. There are no words that may help at this time but I hope you find comfort in knowing where she is at this time. I went to school with Bonnie and remembered that she was just full of life. A beautiful person inside and out. She will be missed by so many. Rest in peace until we see you again Bonnie. We will keep your memory alive

Loretta Gallagher (Johnson)

May 24, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Ms. B.J.
Bonnie was a great childhood friend and I cherish the memories we made growing up. She was loved by many and will be missed.

Don and Nancy Steckel

May 23, 2017

May the Lord watch over you and give you His grace and love. The family is in our prayers.

Russ Reynolds

May 23, 2017

Girls and Bj,
Your in Our Thoughts and Prayers
Love,
Uncle Russ
& Mary

Michelle Gill

May 23, 2017

I have known the Shields family almost my entire life! I went to school with Bonnie and our families have been friends for as long as I can remember. I'm so sadden by her death and my heart aches for BJ, Kevin, her husband, her daughters and grandson! May God bless you and bring you comfort in this time of sorrow! My heart goes out to you all.

Lisa Howland

May 23, 2017

To the Hicks family, Kailea I'm sorry for your loss of such a beautiful lady. May God be with you all now and give you comfort now in your time of sorrow.

Frances & Nathan Limback

May 23, 2017

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

May 23, 2017

Our deepest condolences to the Hicks and Shields families during this most sorrowful time. Our prayers are with you.
Eric & Suzette Lucero & Family

Ralph Johnson

May 22, 2017

My deepest condolences to the family you're in my thoughts and prayers at this time.

Marlene Acosta

May 22, 2017

My thoughts and prayers for Steve,your beautiful daughters, Bonnie's momma and family. Rest in peace Bonita.
Marlene &Nikko

Reece and Sharon Wilson

May 22, 2017

Our sincere condolences.

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