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Michael Alebis

1955 - 2019

Michael Alebis obituary, 1955-2019, McAllen, TX

BORN

1955

DIED

2019

Michael Alebis Obituary

An educator for all ages, a hippie rebel, a lover of music, world traveler, and a published photographer who was forever young at heart, Michael Alebis passed away Friday, June 14th at the age of 64. He is preceded by his father, John Alebis, and he is survived by his wife, Renate Grewenhagen, his mother Georgia Alebis, his brother, John (Dianne) Alebis Jr., and sisters, Sherry (John) Lockman and Patricia (Albert) Steves. In addition, Michael leaves behind eight nieces and nephews and an entire army of friends and students he considered his "honorary family".

Michael was born in Falfurrias, Texas on Earth Day in 1955. After graduating from Alice High School in 1973, Michael attended Texas A&I (now Texas A&M) University in Kingsville. While pursuing a degree in Education, Michael accidentally stumbled into the world of theater when he was asked to sound engineer a production of Jesus Christ Superstar. The production was a milestone in his life and an enormous success, ultimately touring around Texas.

In the early 1980s, Michael taught at William Adams Middle School.

In 1988, longtime friend Gilbert Zepeda asked Michael to become the second drama teacher at PSJA High School and, within one year, they both moved to the then-new PSJA North campus.

Michael directed dozens of shows for PSJA North, including a production of Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead that won third place at the State UIL One Act Play Competition. In 1994, Michael also oversaw the production of an original show written around the music of The Beatles entitled Come Together, which included a live band on stage performing along with the student actors.

On a whim, in 1997, Michael entered a foreign exchange program for teachers and traveled to Germany where he met the love of his life and future wife, Renate. They married in 1999 and, upon returning to the United States, Michael began teaching theater and film at LBJ Middle School.

While teaching at LBJ, and well beyond his retirement, Michael became the go-to expert in UIL One Act Play Contest Managing. Quietly walking onto the stage before every performance with his clipboard, reading glasses, and singular catchphrase: "This is going to be a great day of theater!" Michael Alebis, for many, became the un-official face of Rio Grande Valley One Act Play Competitions.

In addition, Michael was also the mastermind behind "The Palm Awards", a Tony Awards-type ceremony that celebrates the accomplishments of RGV high school students in theater. Just celebrating its second year with more than twenty high schools involved, Michael's wish for a platform where students could "acknowledge each other's accomplishments" is more than fulfilled.

A memorial funeral service will be at the Church of the Advent Episcopal Church in Alice at 4:30pm, Saturday, June 22. A celebration of life gathering will take place at the Cheri and Ted Snelling compound in Alice, Texas on Saturday, June 22 at 6 pm. In lieu of flowers, a donation to the "Michael Alebis Memorial Palms Scholarship Fund" would be greatly appreciated. You can do so by visiting www.RGVTheatricalSpotlight.com/donate.

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Published by Alice Echo News-Journal from Jun. 20 to Jun. 27, 2019.

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Dee Lemon

June 27, 2019

A wonderful man and someone that I always enjoyed being around. I was very excited when I knew he was moving to Westlakes and that I was being honored to help with his mortgage. A good friend and neighbor. Renate, I am so sorry for your loss.

June 25, 2019

What a great guy and thoughtful, caring neighbor! Dr Clark von Heller

Katina Blackwell

June 22, 2019

Mr. Alebis was one of my favorite teachers at Dubose Middle School. May God bless his newest angel.

Melly Aguilar-Monhoff

June 22, 2019

Mike Of all the classmates I had you are one of the few I never forgot. You were so much fun to talk to and argue with. Wish you had been involved in the Drama dept then. I m sure we would have been great and greater no doubt.Thanks for being a friend.
May you be walking on the golden carpet in heavenly peace
Respectfully, Melly Aguilar-Monhoff

Avery Paiz

June 21, 2019

Great friend of my Dad since they were little. He will be missed. Condolences and prayers to all of his friends and family. May he rest in a better place.

IRENE GARCIA

June 17, 2019

YOU WILL SURELY BE MISSED. I WISH I HAD BEEN MORE OUTGOING AND HAD MADE IT A POINT TO GET TO KNOW YOU MORE. BUT WHAT I DID KNOW WAS YOU WERE AN AWESOME MAN. CLASSMATE 1973. GOD SPEED MIKE!!

David Cardona

June 17, 2019

Will miss you classmate of 1973, David Cardona

Billy Dragoo

June 17, 2019

Not being from the RGV, our paths did not often cross -- just a few times. But he was so intelligent and genuine. Our small theatre world mourns his passing. Engraved words in marble will never adequately capture the eminence of a quality educator; he lives on in the souls of students whose lives he altered. RIP

Marcos Saenz

June 17, 2019

YOU WILL BE MISSED
YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN
YOU WERE THE BEST TEACHER RIP
You Taught Me Never To Give Up
I Can't Believe Your Gone❤RIP

Ashley Lang

June 17, 2019

Taught me a lot. Always nerve racking classes at first, found my nerve thru his teaching. Really learned there, life is meant to be fun, lived, & meaningful. Great memories.

Veronica Hargett

June 17, 2019

He was my LBJ Drama teacher and he was an amazing Educator. He truly did love his wife and always mentioned it to the class. I always remembered him and how he Taught me to appreciate all arts and want to explore and travel the world. The world needs more educators like him.

Stephanie Bertagna Short

June 16, 2019

I remember Mr. Alebis as a photographer in Alice in the mid-80's. He took pictures at all the Cotillion events and I did a portfolio photo shoot with him. He made my 13 year old self look fabulous. I'm sorry to hear of his passing. My condolences to all.

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22

Funeral service

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Church of the Advent Episcopal Church

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22

Celebration of Life

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Cheri and Ted Snelling Compound

Alice, TX

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