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Alan Foster Obituary
AGE: 84 • Belmar
Friend, always ready to listen and laugh, full of good counsel, good cheer, and abundant humor.
Professor who entertained, inspired, and truly cared.
Published author.
Actor who lit up the stage.
Director with infinite patience and encouraging words.
Tireless set builder.
World traveler.
Mentor to countless.
Above all else-- beloved husband to Sue and father to Greg and Nick.
There will be a celebration at the Spring Lake Theater, Third & Madison Aves., Spring Lake, September 9, at 3:00pm.
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Sarah Spiegel
July 22, 2024
(L-R) "Big Al" Foster, Mel and Sarah Spiegel, Nick Foster
Yael L
December 5, 2018
Dear Alan,
I wish I could have met you. You must have been an extraordinary man, husband, and father
August 4, 2017
Your Spring Lake Family
Cindy Markus Vandermolen
August 4, 2017
What a Joy to have known this amazing man and to have worked with him in many shows. My thoughts and prayers are with the family
Peace, love and joy!
S. Hodge
July 31, 2017
My condolences to the Foster family. I am so sorry for your great loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain you during this difficult time. (Isaiah 61:1,2)
July 29, 2017
My condolences to the family. Alan was an amazing man. I had him as an acting teacher with the spring lake theater. He made everything so much fun. He will be greatly missed.
July 29, 2017
So Sorry to hear of this loss! Big Al...you were the highlight of my week growing up. Your memory will live on forever in our hearts and actions! Sending love to your family. With Love, Leslie Pandolfe Sims
Jeri Georger
July 29, 2017
I am very saddened to hear of Alan's passing. He was a wonderful man and director. I will always remember him and I send my sincere sympathy to his wife and family. I will always be grateful for his support and will remember the Kentucky Derby parties. He will be missed.Jeri Georger
MJ Gray
July 29, 2017
Alan, such a gentle, funny, kind man.
Sue, Nick and Greg, my deepest condolences on your loss.
Rest in Peace Alan.
Steve Bartlow
July 29, 2017
Defined what it means to be a gentleman and a scholar. A generous, kind and inspirational man. Sincere condolences to Sue, Nick and family. ❤
B B
July 29, 2017
Rest in peace
Mary Ann DeRogatis D'Agostino
July 29, 2017
Dear Sue, Nick and Greg, Your beloved Alan sits in the director's chair while a choir of angels sing his praises! ❤ What a truly extraordinary human being your sweet Alan was. He was a consummate gentleman with the biggest heart and kindest soul that ever graced this earth. He was loved and respected by all who had the good fortune to know or work him. My 3 kids were blessed to grow up under his loving wing. His humble demeanor and brilliant expertise were second to none. He will be missed. I'm grateful that he called my family "friend". Wishing you God's love and peace always ❤ Mary Ann DeRogatis D'Agostino
Sarah Spiegel
July 29, 2017
A great man! So many lovely memories...Thank you Big Al for being a big part of my foray into showbiz. You will be missed! Much love to Sue, Nick and Greg xoxo
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