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Anthony Paduano Obituary

Anthony L. Paduano

AGE: 81 • Spring Lake Heights

Anthony L. Paduano, of Spring Lake Heights and formerly of Neptune, passed away on November 23, 2014, at the age of 81. Anthony joined the Neptune Township Police Department in 1961 and served as its Chief for 16 years, retiring in 1995. During his 35 year career in law enforcement, Anthony served as President of the Monmouth County Police Chiefs Association, President of the Monmouth County Police Academy, Vice President of the New Jersey Traffic Officers Association, led the Monmouth County DWI Task Force, helped found the Monmouth County D.A.R.E. Program, served on the Board of Directors of the Monmouth County Prosecutors Advisory Committee, and helped implement the 911 system throughout Monmouth County. He served as President of Local 74 of the Patrolman's Benevolent Association and was a founder of the Fraternal Order of Police. He received numerous awards and citations during his career, including in 1995 proclamations from the United States Congress and the New Jersey State Assembly, and was honored as the Monmouth County Kiwanis Man of the Year. Anthony lived most of his life in Neptune. He graduated from Neptune High School in 1951 and was an All-Shore and All State quarterback for the undefeated 1948 Scarlet Fliers football team during his sophomore year. He was a three year varsity letter winner in basketball and football. After high school, he was very proud to serve his country as a Paratrooper in the United States Army, 11th Airborne Division ("the Angels"). He was elected to the Neptune High School Hall of Fame in 1999. Anthony was an avid golfer who won the Monmouth County Amateur Championship, and also club championships. He was involved in youth sports, coaching soccer, basketball and baseball for Neptune Recreation.

Chief Paduano was predeceased by his wife of 56 years, Nancy and his parents Anthony H. and Matilda Paduano. Surviving are his sons Anthony and his wife Ruth Porat of New York; Michael and his wife Patty of Shrewsbury; a daughter Shirley of Howell; and his five grandchildren, Jeremy, Stephen, David, Brianne and Michael.

The family requests that in lieu of flowers, gifts be considered to the Ronald O. Perelman Heart Institute, New York Presbyterian Hospital, 525 East 68th Street, New York, New York 10065. http://nyp.org/give.

A wake will be held at the Ely Funeral Home, Route 33, Neptune, Tuesday, November 25, from 5:00pm to 9:00 pm. A funeral service will be held at 10 am Wednesday, November 26, 2014 at the Ely Funeral Home, Neptune followed by the interment in Woodbine Cemetery, Oceanport.

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Published by Asbury Park Press from Nov. 24 to Nov. 26, 2014.

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December 9, 2014

Our sincere condolences to your entire family. So sorry to have just heard of Anthony's passing.

Cousins Patti (Paduano) and Bob Potter
(Family of Carney and Carmela Paduano).

December 4, 2014

Anthony,

John Osthaus circulated the obituary to a few of us who know you. I wanted to send my sincerest condolences as 81 is far too young. Your father's story is impressive. He sounds like a great man. Best, Kathleen Quinn

Robin Lemesevski

November 30, 2014

Deepest sympathies to you, Shirley and your family. My thoughts and prayers have been with you all week.

November 26, 2014

Deepest sympathy on the passing of Chief Paduano, a father, grandfather, veteran and dedicated Police Officer.
Chief (ret.) William R. Kryscnski

Chief Robert Clawson Retired

November 25, 2014

My sympathy and condolence to the Chiefs family . Tony was always a gentleman and a most respected police officer and community leader. Chief you will be missed.

david giotta

November 25, 2014

With deepest sympathy to all your family. David & Nancy Giotta, Neptune,NJ and Charleston, SC.

Kathy Dilloian-Rathier

November 25, 2014

Very sorry to hear this. Please know that you are all in my prayers.

Cheif Joseoh Pelella, Ret.

November 24, 2014

The "Chief" will be missed by many people. Tony was outgoing and loved life, golf, socializing with friends and with fellow Chiefs. Tony's love for his family was second to none. He was a devoted husband to Nancy, loving father to Shirley, Anthony and Michael. I don't know of a father who was as proud as he was for his children and grandchildren. Living next to Tony in Neptune was nothing short of a learning experience and fun, that I will treasure forever. Rest in Peace Chief.

Harvey Morrell

November 24, 2014

Very sad to hear the Chief passed away.He was one of my favorites. We have lost a great leader and a highly respected Chief of Police.



Ret.Chief Harvey Morrell Howell Twsp

Charles Clayton

November 24, 2014

My sincere condolences to the family of Tony..I grew up in Neptune,(Bradley Park) & knew Tony for many yrs, filled up my car at his Dad's Sunoco station..

I was (3) yrs. behind Tony in High School and I ALWAYS remembered how kind he was to me and acting like the "older big shot" as some did...I remember him walking thru the halls holding hands w/ Cookie? I reminded Tony of this a few years ago when I sent him and Angelo Digelo a letter...I know that Tony will be missed so very much by so many...

Chief Robert Swannack (Ret.)

November 24, 2014

One of Neptune's Finest.
I and many others enjoyed his company on many occasions.
"He was one of the best."
May he rest in peace.

Chief Howard O'Neil, ret

November 24, 2014

Very sad that Chief Paduano has passed away. He was a leader who not only served the residents of Neptune Township but the citizens of the USA as a soldier. The Chief was never afraid to make a decision and would stand by his Officers. He now joins his wife Nancy who has been waiting for him. My sincere condolences to his children and grandchildren who he spoke of often and loved very much.

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