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Beverly Mendez Obituary

Beverly (Ryder) Mendez

AGE: 69 • Toms River

Beverly (Ryder) Mendez, age 69, of Toms River, NJ died on Thursday, Jan. 19, 2012 at Ocean Medical Center in Brick, NJ. She was born in Orange, NJ, was raised in Bloomfield, NJ and lived in Nutley, NJ and Manasquan, NJ before moving to Toms River eight years ago. She was a 1960 graduate of Bloomfield High School. She was employed as an Inspector for 25 years at Sonetronics in Belmar, NJ. She loved taking trips to Atlantic City and spending time with her family. She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister and aunt.

She is survived by her beloved husband of 50 years, Arthur Mendez; her daughter, Donna M. McGrath and her husband, Patrick of Brick; her son, Michael E. and his wife, Lisa of Toms River; a brother, Robert Ryder; two sisters, Loretta Peters and Carol Reynolds; five grandchildren, Joseph, Dana, Ashley, Lauren and Julia; and several nieces & nephews.

Friends may call on Sunday, 1-5 PM at Laurelton Memorial Funeral Home - 109 Pier Ave. Brick, NJ. Funeral Service will be held on Monday, 11:00 AM at the funeral home. Interment is private.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Jan. 21, 2012.

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Skulitz Family

January 23, 2012

Our deepest sympathy goes out to our team-mate Lauren and her family. The loss of a loved one is comforted only by those who now surround you as you mourn. May you feel comfort in knowing that your loved one is now among the stars, watching you from above. Smile often as you remember your beloved, mother & grandmother; it will bring comfort to your pain.

Donna Smith

January 23, 2012

To the Mendez and Ryder families I am so sorry for your loss. I am the youngest of the Smith family (my Dad was Oliver) and Bev's Dad Edward was my first cousin. We lost touch after his passing but I have always wondered what became of this part of the family.Sorry I didn't realize you were still so close.

Pat Wowkanyn

January 22, 2012

Dear Artie and Family,
I am sorry and shocked to hear about Bev's passing. I will never forget good times and memories we had together
Sincerely,
Pat (Antonelli) Wowkanyn

Bonnie Wainwright

January 22, 2012

Dear Mendez Family,
Bev was my 7:30 AM nail client every Saturday morning until 2 years ago when I moved to Florida. One of my techs called me yesterday and told me of her passing. I am so very sorry for your loss. We had many many laughs together over our years together. I almost felt like I knew the family. Of course Artie...your name always popped up and Donna and all the kids. She loved you all so very much. I miss our weekly coffee klatches and laughing with her. She was a wonderful woman!

Kelly Davis

January 22, 2012

Auntie Beverly,
When anything happened in my life you were always there. You were my mom's right hand, her confidant, her best friend, her rock, her shoulder and her sister. In our own selfish ways we will miss you terribly but I am at peace that God spared you from a fate many others must endure. You were truly blessed and I take great comfort knowing that. I love you and will miss you forever. Watch over us. All the love in the world, Kelly.

January 21, 2012

KP

Bill and Pat Stoughton

January 21, 2012

We loved Bev and her natural wit. She was warm-hearted, kind and had a wicked sense of humor. She will be missed by all who knew her. She was a gem and one of a kind.

Pat and Bill Stoughton, neighbors

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