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Charles Callman Obituary

Charles S. Callman

AGE: 95 • Rumson

Charles S. "Chillie" Callman, the popular former long-time Rumson Mayor and Councilman, passed away peacefully at his Rumson home on Monday, July 30th, surrounded by his loving family. He was 95 years old. Born in New York in 1917, Charles S. "Chillie" Callman grew up in Bronxville, New York, graduated cum laude from The Lawrenceville School and graduated with honors from Princeton University. Chillie is also a graduate of the Dale Carnegie Institute and the New York Institute of Finance. He retired as a Vice President of Kidder Peabody and Company, Inc. of New York City, where he was the investment banking representative of the Visiting Nurse Association of New York, among other clients. Charles S. "Chillie" Callman moved to Rumson with his family in 1947 and he has volunteered his services ever since. He was a past president of the Forrestdale School PTA and an Elder of the First Presbyterian Church of Rumson. Chillie was a member of the Rumson Zoning Board of Adjustment and a long-time member of the Borough Planning Board. He was the first chairman of the Rumson Conservation Commission and was also the chairman of the Municipal Public Service Coordinating Committee, which was formed years ago to represent Rumson and seven neighboring towns in public utility and transportation matters. Chillie was also the first Rumson representative to the Navesink River Municipality Committee, which was created to safeguard our beautiful Navesink and Shrewsbury Rivers. Chillie Callman was very proud to be an honorary member of the Rumson First Aid Squad and the Oceanic Hook and Ladder Fire Company. Chillie was also an original member of the Two Rivers Council of Mayors, which includes Rumson and eleven surrounding communities, along with Fort Monmouth. He also devoted much of his free time helping the Community YMCA in Red Bank. During the 2nd World War, he volunteered his services to the war effort by working in a manufacturing plant in Long Island; supplying much needed munitions and supplies to our military around the world. Charles S. "Chillie" Callman was first appointed to the Rumson Borough Council on June 12, 1958, a position he held until he was elected to his first term as Mayor where he served from 1962 through 1967. Chillie then stepped down from the Borough Council and served as Chairman of the Borough Planning Board from 1968 to January 1, 1974 when he was asked by Mayor John O. Teeter to rejoin the Borough government as Councilman, where he served with distinction once again. On October 12, 1989, Chillie Callman answered the call for his town and agreed to serve once again as Rumson's Mayor upon the retirement of Mayor Charles F. Paterno, M.D. Chillie served in this important office until his retirement on December 31, 2003. He represented his beloved Borough with honor, pride and dignity for all those years as Mayor plus his 19+ years as Councilman where he served as Fire and First Aid Commissioner, and later as Police Commissioner. During Charles S. Callman's time as Councilman and Mayor, many noteworthy projects and improvements took place in Rumson. Some are as listed: Piping Rock Park, Rogers Park and Meadow Ridge Park were acquired and developed for the use and enjoyment of the community and guests. A new sanitary sewer system was installed in the entire Borough, 5.2 sq. miles. Cable television service became available to Rumson residents in 1981 and it has been expanded and upgraded with each franchise renewal contract as new technology became available. The very successful Rumson Endowment Fund was formed and Mayor Callman was a founder and proponent of establishing this fund for the betterment of Rumson. Rumson's first Master Plan was adopted in 1978. This document is updated by the Borough Planning Board every six or seven years. A major road paving and drainage improvement program was started in 1994 and continues today to keep Rumson's 133 streets and utilities in good working condition. Rumson has achieved and maintained an Aa1 bond rating from Moody's Investors Service for it's sound financial condition. Rumson was designated as a Bicentennial Community in 1976 by the State of New Jersey. Rumson was designated as a certified Tree City U.S.A. community since the program's inception in recognition of Rumson's shade tree maintenance and replacement program. Rumson's recycling plan was established in 1988 and it is considered one of the finest in the State. Through persistent efforts of the Mayor and Council, the state and federal governments dredged the Navesink and Shrewsbury Rivers and their tributaries starting in 1988. An open space program was developed by the Borough, and the family of Henry D. Mercer, in 1974, generously donated the beautiful 14 acre Mercer field located on Rumson Road adjacent to Widgeon Road, to preserve the property and its unobstructed view of the river from development. In addition, Monsignor James Kelley donated his 6 acre island in the Shrewsbury River to Rumson to be preserved as a wildlife sanctuary. The Rumson Road historic cemetery, was restored as a result of the impressive Eagle Scout project by Jonathan Erwin, and is now maintained by the Borough. In 1998, the Borough Council dedicated the municipal courtroom at Borough Hall as the "Charles S. Callman Hall." Chillie tried to talk them out of doing this, but he was outnumbered. The Keith McHeffey Foundation, through the Rumson Endowment fund, funded the complete renovation of the Piping Rock Park softball field, parking lot, tot lot and landscaping plan, as well as a new yard-arm flag pole and a beautiful monument dedicated to Keith McHeffey and all the other area residents who lost their lives on September 11, 2001. On September 18, 2003, the Rumson Borough council adopted a "resolution of Appreciation" in honor of Mayor Charles S. "Chillie" Callman's long-time, dedicated service to Rumson. An excerpt of the resolution reads as follows: "Whereas, Mayor Charles S. "Chillie" Callman has received numerous awards over the years, including the "elected official of the Year" in 1994 given by the Eastern Monmouth County Chamber of Commerce; the Mayor has also received the "Great Humanitarian Award" in 1999 given by the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, and he received the 2000 "Community YMCA Foundation Board of Trustees Award For Strong Communities'; he was also inducted into the New Jersey League of Municipalities Elected Officials Hall of Fame; and "Whereas, Charles S. "Chillie" Callman's record of public service speaks for itself. He is the most dedicated, extraordinary volunteer public servant in the history of the Borough. Chillie Callman's dedication and love for Rumson and its residents are unequalled; his integrity, courageous leadership, intelligence, compassion and sense of humor have earned him the great respect and affection of his colleagues, the Borough employees, the volunteer Fire Department and First Aid Squad and the residents of Rumson; and "Now, Therefore, Be It Resolved that the Borough Council of the Borough of Rumson hereby acknowledges by resolution the forty and one-half (40 ½) years of dedicated, volunteer public service of Charles S. "Chillie" Callman as Councilman and Mayor par excellence of Rumson and we hereby extend our utmost appreciation of his able leadership and courage that he has steadfastly demonstrated during his tenure as Rumson's Mayor and "Be It Further Resolved that a copy of this Resolution be spread upon the minutes of this meeting held on September 18, 2003, and a certified copy thereof, suitably engrossed and framed, be presented to Mayor Charles S."Chillie" Callman on behalf of the members of the Borough Council and the residents of Rumson with our utmost respect, affection, appreciation and best wishes to this great man who deserves to be known as "Mr. Rumson." We wish Chillie and his wife, Lee, a happy, healthy and well-deserved retirement." Upon Mayor Callman's retirement, Ann Rossbach, the president of the RFH Board of Education, called Chillie the quintessential mayor, and he is. Chillie Callman was a member of the Rumson Country Club, the Sea Bright Beach Club, the Sea Bright Lawn Tennis & Cricket Club, The Rootbeer and Checkers Club, The Fat Men, the YMCA in Red Bank, the Rumson Ramp Club and the Pistol Club.

Chillie Callman was predeceased by his parents and his first wife Portia. He is survived by his wife, Lee (Emily) Birdsall Callman; his children, Patricia and Peter Morse, Charles S. "Chuck" Callman, Jr., Portia "Midge" Murphy, Amy Johnson Swanson and husband John, Elizabeth Ann "E.A." Buck and husband Michael Norman, Raymond F. Johnson, III; eight grandchildren and four great-grandchildren.

On behalf of Chillie Callman and his entire family, we wish to sincerely thank all his doctors and the wonderful caregivers for their professional service.

Visitation will be held at the Thompson Memorial Home, 310 Broad St., Red Bank, NJ on Monday, August 13th, from 4:00 to 7:00 PM. There will be a funeral service on Tuesday, August 14th, 11:00 AM at St. George's by the River Church, 7 Lincoln Ave., Rumson. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made in his memory to the First Presbyterian Church of Rumson, the Rumson EMS or to St. George's by the River Church.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Aug. 5, 2012.

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Susan Carras

August 1, 2020

Reposting my original post and trying to upload one of my favorite photos - which I need to put in JPEG format- which i will try to figure out. So happy to spend time thinking about Chillie today. 8/1/2020:

Lee and all the family—We are so sad to hear the news of Chillie's passing. One of our favorite people on the planet, Chillie was friend and soul mate to my dad; they shared the same sense of humor, commitment to public service, commitment to church, preference for iceberg lettuce, love of the Republican Party, fascination with sewer for Monmouth County,frequented the North Jersey Coast Line before electrification, and shared a common outlook on the world. After my dad died, Lee and Chillie were supportive friends to my mom and that friendship got her through her grief. While we lived in NY, The Barnes/Carras group shared so many suppers, holidays and good times with Lee and Chillie. ( Back in those days when they were young, Andrew and Abby were always a bit unsure, “which one was the man and which one the woman” between the names, Lee and Chillie!!!) Wonderful memories of wonderful times with a wonderful man. Always a glisten in his eye, Chillie loved life. With our most sincere sympathy to you all from Alice, Suzi, George, Abby and Andrew.

From the Barnes/Carras clan

Hope Hensler Richardson

August 6, 2012

Chillie has been woven into the fabric of my life since I was a child growing up in Rumson. He was indeed the quintissential Mayor and all-around kind and charming gentleman, leaving behind a legacy that no one can hold a candle to. I will really miss his visits to Borough Hall, and his hugs during the "Peace" at church. God bless you, Chillie - you were one of a kind. Rumson already feels emptier without you. Lee, my deepest sympathy to you and all the family.

Michael Steinhorn

August 6, 2012

On behalf of the entire Rumson Democratic community as the Democratic Municipal Chairman, I extend sincere condolences to the Callman family for their loss and the Borough of Rumson's loss.

Uncle Chile with Lee & Me

Alex Williamson

August 6, 2012

Charles Callman had been my dad's best friend, and was my Godfather when he passed away at his home earlier this week. He was 94 yrs. old. Charles Callman attended my Christening at St. George's Espiscopal Church in Rumson, NJ, where he was the town's mayor for many terms. Two of his children were my earliest babysitters, and his beloved wife, Lee, remembered every birthday, Christmas and celebration for years & years. "Uncle Chile" gave me my first bible, and lots of rides in his cool red sportscars. I miss you Uncle Chile.
Love, Alex

August 5, 2012

Lee and all the family—We are so sad to hear the news of Chillie's passing. One of our favorite people on the planet, Chillie was friend and soul mate to my dad; they shared the same sense of humor, commitment to public service, commitment to church, preference for iceberg lettuce, love of the Republican Party, fascination with sewer for Monmouth County,frequented the North Jersey Coast Line before electrification, and shared a common outlook on the world. After my dad died, Lee and Chillie were supportive friends to my mom and that friendship got her through her grief. While we lived in NY, The Barnes/Carras group shared so many suppers, holidays and good times with Lee and Chillie. ( Back in those days when they were young, Andrew and Abby were always a bit unsure, “which one was the man and which one the woman” between the names, Lee and Chillie!!!) Wonderful memories of wonderful times with a wonderful man. Always a glisten in his eye, Chillie loved life. With our most sincere sympathy to you all from Alice, Suzi, George, Abby and Andrew.

Bob Hartman

August 5, 2012

My condolences to the entire Callman family,especially my friend forever, Chuck. I had the distinct pleasure of meeting Mr. Callman in 1967 and his wit/charm was memorable back then.I'll never forget his infectious smile and warm personality. He was "Mr. Rumson" and his legacy will endure for generations. RIP,Mr. Callman. Another member of the "best and brightest" generation has left us.

Gerri Popkin

August 5, 2012

Sincerest condolences, Lee, and to all the family: a true gentleman, and one of the most loyal and helpful men in the business!..we will truly miss his twinkling eyes, big smile, and bright wit, at all the functions..our thanks to him, and his family, for all the years of dedication and service to his town and the Republican party!..Fondly, Gerri Popkin and Jim Giannell.

John Goode

August 5, 2012

Godspeed, Mr. Callman. My sincere condolences to Mrs. Callman and all the Callman family. Mr. Callman's list of honors and achievements is prodigious, but his greatest gift may have been his ability to touch all those who met him with his kindness, wit, and decency. He will be dearly missed and fondly remembered.

Karen and Nate Fulcomer

August 5, 2012

Lee and family, Please know that we send our love to you all. Chillie will be sorely missed, one of the best the Lord created in our opinion. Consider yourselves hugged. God bless

Susie Porter

August 5, 2012

The Daly girls were very fortunate to have known Chillie since we were young girls. We loved him all our lives -- for his charm, his kindness, his warm sense of humor and his unforgettable smile.

He will be truly missed. The Daly family sends their thoughts and prayers to Lee and the entire familly. Susie Porter

Barbara Campbell

August 4, 2012

The Daly twins were always in love with Chillie Callman. Truly one-of-a-kind....he will be missed. Our sincere condolences to you, Lee.

Rest in peace, our friend.

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