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Donald Lewis Ahlers

1939 - 2020

Donald Lewis Ahlers obituary, 1939-2020, 81, Holmdel

BORN

1939

DIED

2020

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Holmdel Funeral Home

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Holmdel, New Jersey

Donald Ahlers Obituary

Donald Lewis Ahlers

Holmdel - Donald Lewis Ahlers, 81, of Holmdel passed away peacefully on Sunday, August 16.

He was born in Red Bank in 1939 and was raised in Hazlet. Donald was a master carpenter, an avid outdoorsman, a lifetime member of the Hazlet Fire Company No. 1, and beloved by all who knew him.

Donald married his soulmate, Dolores, when they were still teenagers and they began their family early. He built their home in Holmdel in 1964 and remained there throughout his life.

Donald sought out the simple things in life. He was a meat and 'patatas' guy who loved hunting, fishing, NASCAR, and his family. The back yard of his home was a sanctuary where the birds, deer, and other wildlife were always provided with a good meal. He was as generous as he was compassionate no matter who or what came into his life, and he was more than happy to welcome them as though they were an old friend.

He is predeceased by his wife of 56 years, Dolores A. Ahlers (Nee Falco), his parents Helen and Joseph Ahlers, his infant son Ronald, and his brother, Joseph Jr.

Donald is survived by his four daughters and their husbands: Donna and Bruce Turner of Howell, Cindy Cittadino of Acworth, GA, Deann and Stelios Vastardis of Holmdel, and Jenny and Mark Dowd of Roswell, GA; his sister Marie and her husband Jack Truex; 10 grandchildren: Bryan, Cody, Shannon, Steven, Breyandra, Eva, Aleko, Sam, Georgia, and Trevor; 1 great-grandson Colton, and his best friend, Rufus the dog.

A graveside service will be held at 11 A.M. on Wednesday, August 19th, at St. Joseph's Cemetery, 360 Broadway, Keyport 07735.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Donald's memory to Hazlet Fire Company No. 1, 570 Holmdel Road, Hazlet, NJ 07730.

For messages of condolence, please visit Donald's page of tributes at www.HolmdelFuneralHome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asbury Park Press from Aug. 17 to Aug. 18, 2020.

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Kelly Foley Sapio

August 21, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Mr Ahlers was always welcoming to all of us as kids and was an incredibly dedicated and hardworking father. I have so many fond memories of him and appreciate the friendship he developed with my parents over the years. Rest In Peace Mr Ahlers.

Thomas Hennessy, D.C.

August 20, 2020

A friendly and easygoing man. A dedicated and patient fisherman. Rest in peace.

Rose Ann DellaPietro Sullivan

August 18, 2020

So sorry to hear of your loss. Donald grew up next door to me and my family on Bedle Rd. in Hazlet. We kept in contact with him even after he got married. A truly giving and wonderful person. Condolences to all.
Rose Ann DellaPietro Sullivan

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