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Doris Durkin Obituary

(Asbury Park Press)

DORIS MURPHY
DURKIN
AGE: 80 WALL
Doris Murphy Durkin, 80, of Wall, passed away Wednesday, April 29, 2009, surrounded by her loving family. Born in Kearny, she had lived in the Shore area since 1950 in Belmar, Manasquan and for the past 44 years in Wall Township. Mrs. Durkin was a parishioner of St. Mark's Church, Sea Girt and a member of the Altar Rosary Society of St. Mark's. She was an avid bridge player and was the founder of the St. Stephen's Green Bridge Club, Spring Lake Heights. She was a member of the Atlantic Club and the Manasquan River Yacht Club, where she was a champion sailor in the Powder Puff League. Mrs. Durkin was a Charter member of the Red Oak Women's Club, Wall; the Neighborhood Chairwoman for the Brownie and Girl Scouts at St. Catharine's Parish, St. Denis Parish, Manasquan and the Manasquan Public Schools as well as a Den Mother for the Cub Scouts at St. Denis Parish and St. Catharine's & St. Margaret's Parish when her children were younger. She was also a member of the Catholic Daughter's of America, Courts St. Catharine's and St. Denis. Mrs. Durkin had been extremely active during the 1970's and 1980's in Monmouth County Democratic politics. In 1974, she was a staff member on Governor Cahill's election campaign committee and was an integral part of his inauguration planning committee. She was the Asbury Park local office administrator for NJ State Assemblywoman Gertrude Berman. Since 1974, she was a Monmouth County Election Board Worker for District #4, Wall Township. Mrs. Durkin was a teacher's aide at the Old Mill School in Wall Township. From 1976 until 1996, she worked at Steinbach's Department Store, first in Asbury Park and then in Ocean Township
Mrs. Durkin was predeceased by her husband of 54 years, Richard J. Durkin; and her daughter, Doris Elizabeth Durkin. Surviving are her devoted children and their spouses, R. Patrick and Judy Durkin, Matthew Ward and Laurie Durkin, all of Wall, Molly and Michael Berkowitz of Neptune, and Tara Durkin Rochford of Chicago, Ill.; her dear sister, Elizabeth Murphy Durkin of Essex Fells; her six grandchildren, Erin Melissa, Brian Kelly, Matthew Ward Jr., Morgan Taylor, Maeve Riley Durkin, and Daniel Hugh Berkowitz, as well as numerous nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews.
Relatives and friends are invited to call from 4 to 8 p.m. Saturday, May 2 and 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Sunday, May 3 at the O'Brien Funeral Home, 2028 Highway 35 at New Bedford Road, Wall. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:30 a.m. Monday, May 4 at St. Rose R.C. Church, Belmar. Burial will follow in St. Catharine's Cemetery, Wall. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Wall Township First Aid and Rescue Squad, 1900 Monmouth Blvd., Wall.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on May 1, 2009.

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Laura Rizzi McGahan

May 15, 2009

Tara, Molly and the Durkin family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your mother was a brave, strong and generous woman, and she will continue to inspire us all.

May 6, 2009

Dear Matt, Laurie and the Durkin Family,
So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts at this difficult time. Just remember the love of a Mother can never be taken away. Love goes on and on.....

Again sorry,

Kelli, Bob, Kerri, Dan and Jack O'Keefe

Willianna Goode-Morgan

May 3, 2009

To the Durkin family...my condolences to the family. I worked with Doris at Steinbach in the Seaview Square Mall. She was a lovely, elegant and classy lady. She always spoke so highly of her family. She was a great co-worker and more importantly a "friend". She'll be missed but with "fond" memories.

Jackie Wolk

May 3, 2009

Tara, your mother was obviously a woman with a kind heart and generous spirit. I am sure she will be missed deeply by those whose lives she impacted, especially her family. Please know that thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones during this difficult time.

Debbie Shar

May 2, 2009

Molly, Michael, and Daniel,
My love, thoughts and prayers are with you. Molly, I know how special your Mom was to you and I am so sorry for you loss.

Marvin & Marilyn Rosen

May 1, 2009

Our sincerest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your Mother.

STFA of NJ

May 1, 2009

With deepest sympathy and condolences

May 1, 2009

Molly, my heart grieves for you and your family. Please accept my deepest sympathy

Caroline Vandervort

May 1, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Doris. I knew her to be a wonderful person and a great mom. I worked with her at Steinbachs in Ocean for a long time. She will definately be missed.

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