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John McIlwraith Obituary

John McIlwraith

AGE: 67 • Middletown

John McIlwraith, 67, of Middletown, NJ died on July 30, 2014 at Penn Presbyterian Medical Center in Philadelphia, PA. For the past 15 years, John worked as the Chief Engineer for Hilton Worldwide in Piscataway. Prior to that he was Plant Manager at Nestles Beverage Company for 19 years. He was a veteran of the Vietnam War, serving in the U. S. Navy. John was a Scout Master for Troop 71 in Oakhurst for 10 years. He could always be found working in the yard or in the garage building or fixing whatever anyone needed.

A man of few words and a selfless heart, John is survived by his wife of 15 years, Linda Runyon-McIlwraith; his daughter and son-in-law, Marilyn Mundy and Larry Chirco of Metuchen; his son and daughter-in-law, John and Kristen McIlwraith of Moorestown; his daughter and son-in-law, Katharine and Paul Williams of Ocean; his daughter, Renee Runyon of Red Bank; his daughter and son-in-law, Allyson and Michael Dworacek of East Windsor; his brother and sister-in-law, William and Susan McIlwraith of FL; his sister, Isabel McIlwraith of VA; 5 grandchildren, Rosemary, Ian, Jessica, Amy, Cara and one on the way; and 2 great-grandchildren, Emily and Mackenzie.

Visitation will be held on Sunday, August 3, 2014 from 2-4 and 7-9 pm at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Road, Middletown. Funeral services are scheduled for Monday, August 4, 2014 at 9 am at the funeral home. A Funeral Liturgy will be offered on Monday, August 4 at 10 am at St. Anthony of Padua Church, Red Bank. Burial will follow at Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Middletown.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in John's name to Boy Scout Troop 71, 70 Larkin Pl., Oakhurst, NJ 07755. For more information, to send condolences, or for directions, please visit www.pflegerfh.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asbury Park Press on Aug. 2, 2014.

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Mollie Bodnovich

August 9, 2014

Katie, I was so saddened to learn about your father. I have many fond memories of spending time at your house with you, your mom, and dad. You are in my thoughts.

August 7, 2014

Katie,
So sorry to learn about your dad. I hope that memories of happier times help to comfort you and your family.
Mark D. Frankel
Ocean Township High School

Jane Major

August 4, 2014

Dear Katie,

I just heard of your Dad's passing. I am so sorry for your loss. I have you and your family in my prayers.

Linda, John & Marilyn

Jessica Mundy

August 3, 2014

Linda, John, Jessica & Emily

Jessica Mundy

August 3, 2014

August 3, 2014

Incredibly sad to hear the news of your loss. Prayers to the Family and we regret not keeping in touch. Forever in our hearts. Sincerely Linda and Terry Flach

August 3, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. John was a great guy and a lot of fun to be around, he will be dearly missed.

Nicola and Family

The Warshauer Family

August 3, 2014

John was our son's wonderful scout leader who saw the goodness in each boy and encouraged their strengths, never judging them. His scout troop #71 was a refuge for all boys! So sorry to hear of his passing.

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Jackie Mays

August 2, 2014

I worked work with John at Nestle and he was a great guy. I am sorry for your loss. Rest in peace John.

Michele Forman

August 2, 2014

I am so sad by John's passing. I worked with John for many years at Nestle. Truly a wonderful man! Sending my sympathy to the entire McIlwraith family!

Michal Jung

August 2, 2014

My prayers go out to the family...May he be forever in your hearts and minds.

Bonnie Tarpey

August 2, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours during this very difficult time, Linda.

Samantha Clayton

August 2, 2014

My condolences Linda, and to the rest of the family. May you cherish the memories and forever hold John in your heart.

terry millen

August 2, 2014

we are so saddened by this. our thoughts and prayers to all. we will miss him. he was a wonderful man.

Lee Marconi

August 1, 2014

On behalf of all of our Scouts and leaders in Monmouth Council, Boy Scouts of America, we offer our condolences to the family. Lee Marconi, Scout Executive

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