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Neil Roof Obituary
AGE: 57 • West Long Branch
God saw Neil getting tired, and a cure was not to be; so he put his arms around him, and whispered, "Neil, follow me."
Neil Steven Roof, 57, followed God home into eternal rest from Hackensack UMC in New Jersey on Monday, Feb. 24, 2014. He was born Sept. 10, 1956 in Columbus, Ohio to the late Bernice (Davidson) Roof & Norman T. Roof. Neil moved to New Jersey in his early teen years. Neil was a great and loving father who taught his daughters the value of never quitting. He was a hardworking, loyal man who was strong willed and refused to let multiple myeloma get the best of him during his eight year battle. Whenever asked "how are you?" He always replied, GREAT! Many will remember him most for his constant sense of humor & positive attitude. He graduated from Palisades Park High School in 1975 and Lincoln Tech in Union 1977 and started his career in the HVAC field. He worked for Milor Service for 15 years, and then HG Clarke AC for approximately 15 years. Neil opened AC Plus Inc. in 1991 and continued to work until his last days. He was truly dedicated to his family and customers & always put them before himself. In his free time before being diagnosed, he enjoyed skiing out west with friends and traveling. After, he turned to golfing when able. Neil is predeceased by his parents and mother-in-law, Mary Mirarchi. He leaves behind his beloved wife, friend & advocate of 22 years, Patricia Mirarchi-Roof; his two dearly loved daughters, Mikaela Rose & Moriah Grace Roof; two sisters, Janice Messinger and her sons, David Messinger & his wife Jackie, Scott Messinger & wife Marissa. Robyn Hanscom, her husband Jeff Hanscom. Also surviving is his father-in-law, Michael Mirarchi and many other loving family members, friends & loyal customers.
Visitation will be held from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Friday, Feb. 28, 2014 at the John E Day Funeral Home, 85 Riverside Ave., Red Bank. A funeral service will take place at 10 a.m. Saturday, March 1, 2014 at the Grace Christian Church, Wayside Road, Tinton Falls, with entombment to immediately follow at the Woodbine Cemetery in Oceanport. Memorial donations may be made in Neil's memory to the Hackensack UMC Foundation, 360 Essex St., Suite 301, Hackensack NJ 07601. Please visit Neil's memorial website available at www.johnedayfuneralhome.com.
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Patricia Roof
February 20, 2024
I just can´t believe it´s been 10 years since God called you home. You daughters have grown into beautiful women I´m sure you are so very proud. Until we meet again.
Pat Roof
February 21, 2020
Grief never goes away, it just changes. Everyday I love & miss you more. XOXO
David Murphy
February 20, 2020
Hard to believe it has been 6 years since we lost this good man. All the best to you Pat and also to the kids on the remembrance of your husband and father.
Maryam Taddeo
February 21, 2019
Dear Neil,
You're in our thoughts and we miss you.
With love,
Maryam and Greg Taddeo
Pat Roof
February 20, 2019
In a few days it will be 5 years that we lost you but our hearts still aches. We know you are still with us even if you may be far away. The girls have grown and I know you look down and are proud & keep them safe. Your in our thoughts & in our lives always & forever.
Pat Roof
February 20, 2019
I thought of you with love today but that is nothing new I thought about you yesterday and all the days before that too, I think of you in silence and often speak your name all I have is memories and your pictures in a frame your memories are my keepsake which I will never part God has you in his keeping I have you in my heart .
Pam Fitterer
February 20, 2019
We think of you often Neil remembering all of the hilarious things youbwould say
Pat Roof
September 9, 2014
Happy 1st Birthday in Heaven my dearest Neil, I miss you more than any words could ever express and can't wait to one day see you again. Forever together xoxo Pat
Con O'COnnor
March 7, 2014
Neil an incredible individual and an absolute pleasure to work with his humor went above and beyond and I will miss him
Debbie Bentley
March 3, 2014
I was very sorry to hear of your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.
Debbie Bentley
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Pat Roof
March 1, 2014
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Neil & his Mom Bunny
February 28, 2014
Parting with the girls on St. Patricks day!
February 28, 2014
Moriah got his freckles !
February 28, 2014
Frank, Linda Penta
February 28, 2014
We are very sorry for your loss but we rejoice in the Lord knowing Neil is in heaven with Jesus. Stay strong and fear not. Det 31:6 Hugs and prayers.
Karen & Paul Bischoff
February 28, 2014
Life is full of uncertainties and trials, but one thing is sure God will never leave you or forsake you and knows your pain. Lean on Him for understanding and that special comfort only God can provide. He has great plans for you all!
Karen and Paul Bischoff
Edward and Shirley Arlington
February 28, 2014
Our deepest sympathy to you Pat and the girls Neil was kind and helpful man always smiling Love Shirley and Edward
Lora LoMedico
February 28, 2014
Dearest Uncle Neil,
I know you are in a better place looking down on all of us. You will be greatly missed. But know that I promise to help aunt patty and the girls in the days and years to come . I know all of us have gained an angel to watch over us in heaven. Your strength will and determination has inspired so many of us . Lastly uncle Neil " you're my idol" as you used to say
Deb & Scott Knight
February 27, 2014
May Neil's memories keep you strong. Deepest Sympathies, ~Knight Family
Dave & Kris Murphy
February 27, 2014
To Neil's Family:
We were fortunate to get to know Neil over 14 years ago when he did the HVAC installation in our new home. Since that time, he became a trusted provider of help in times of need for our entire extended family. Neil wasn't just fair, reliable and completely honest, our association with him became more of a friendship than a business relationship. He was a truly good person and, in spite of his struggle with that vicious disease, one of the most positive people we had the pleasure to know. We will truly miss him. You have our deepest sympathy.
Pat Roof
February 27, 2014
My dearest Neil, right now I find it so hard to think of the days ahead without you, without tears but I know that's not what you would of wanted so I will do my best to remember the love we shared, to remember how hard you fought & to try now to be strong myself. I see a little bit of you in both your girls Mikaela & Moriah, when they laugh & smile, even in there determination! They also miss you deeply. We all know you are with God and free from pain & suffering after a long hard battle, Your probably telling him jokes. Someday we will be together again. Love you always and forever. Pat, Mikeala & Moriah
mike soden
February 27, 2014
neil was a good man and a even better friend loved golfing with him and enjoyed his humor very much will miss him for sure ...god bless neil and his family
Pam and Tom Fitterer
February 26, 2014
We have lost an amazing man here on earth but heaven has gained an angel. You were a great friend who always made anyone around you laugh!! You will be greatly missed, never forgotten and will live on in our hearts. You are now at peace and no longer in pain. RIP!!
Side by side
Pat Roof
February 26, 2014
Pat Roof
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Pat Roof
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Pat Roof
February 26, 2014
Neil's birthday 2012 with his girls at Hackensack
Pat Roof
February 26, 2014
We alway stuck together!
Pat Roof
February 26, 2014
Pat Roof
February 26, 2014
April 14 th 1991
Pat Roof
February 26, 2014
Alicia Venezia
February 26, 2014
You are at rest now Neil, you put up the strongest fight . . .
You have touched so many peoples lives in such a positive way . . .
You will always stay in all of our hearts and never be forgotten . . .
Rest In Enternal Peace Neil . . .
Maryam Taddeo
February 26, 2014
We miss you. We will always remember your thoughtfulness, courage, and great personality. Rest in peace.
Love,
Maryam and Greg Taddeo
February 26, 2014
So sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.
Pat Falco
Julie Boldridge
February 26, 2014
Patti, I am so sorry for you loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Robyn Hanscom
February 26, 2014
We lost a great man. Lovely write up. My heart goes out to everyone.
Pam Sampogna
February 26, 2014
To the Roof Family,
We are truly sorry for your loss. Neil always brought a smile to our faces and in our hearts. He will be missed greatly.. If love could have saved him he would have lived forever.. I am thankful and a better person for having Neil as my friend..
Pam Sampogna & Ranger Novrit
Jeff Gokey
February 26, 2014
Will truly miss you , what a superman ! We sure can learn a lot from you , your are a fighter. Will always think of you!
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