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Paul Seitz Obituary

(Asbury Park Press)

PAUL SEITZ
AGE: 51 NEPTUNE
Paul Seitz, whose tenacity and fortitude earned him a reputation as a cop who could crack cases that seemed unsolvable, and who demonstrated that same grit in his long battle with cancer, died Friday at Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in New York City. He was 51. Mr. Seitz lived in Neptune and, before that, in Red Bank. He was born and raised in Middletown. He began his career in law enforcement in 1980 with the Long Branch police department. In 1990, he moved his young family to Maine to take a job as an agent for the state's drug enforcement agency. In 1991, he was named the New England Narcotics Officer of the Year. That same year, he was awarded the Enrique Camarena Memorial Award for the largest cocaine bust in the history of Maine. Mr. Seitz returned to New Jersey in 1993 and worked for the Monmouth Beach police department before joining the Monmouth County Prosecutor's office in 1996. As a major crimes detective for the prosecutor's office, he was instrumental in solving many high-profile cases. One of his proudest accomplishments was his role in solving the 1968 murder of 13-year-old Jane Durrua of East Keansburg. The case had gone unsolved for nearly four decades when Mr. Seitz began looking into it. His investigation ultimately led to the serial killer, Robert Zarinsky, who was charged with the schoolgirl's murder in 2008. Although Mr. Seitz had retired from the prosecutor's office in November 2006, and was by then in the midst of a fierce fight for his own life, he attended the court hearing when Zarinsky was formally charged. As devoted as Mr. Seitz was to pursuing justice, however, he lived for his family. And, as in life, loved ones surrounded him when he died.
Mr. Seitz is survived by two children, Glenn Seitz, 21, of Eatontown, a senior at Lehigh University, and Jenna Seitz, 19, of Eatontown, a freshman at the University of Hawaii; Andrea Tozzi, of Neptune, his devoted fiancé; Heidi P. Seitz, of Eatontown, the loving mother of their children and a loyal friend; his mother, Louise R. Seitz of Atlantic Highlands; two brothers, Robert Seitz of Burlington, his wife, Joann Seitz and their two children, Alexis and Jillian, and Mark Seitz of Middletown and his wife, Reenie A. Seitz; and many cousins, including Kimberly Steinburgh Sherman, who visited him regularly during his final hospital stay, and her husband, Scott, of New York City. His father, Harold G. Seitz, predeceased him.
Visiting will be Monday March 22, 2010 from 4-9 pm at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Road, Middletown, NJ 07748. Funeral services will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Memorial Sloan- Kettering Cancer Center at www.mskcc.org in memory of Paul Seitz.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Mar. 21, 2010.

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Missy Lieberman

December 12, 2023

Very sorry for your loss. Even though years have passed since Officer Seitz has moved on, I am encouraged to know some small amount about his impact in this world. Praying for God to continue to bless you all.

Very Sincerely,
Missy Lieberman
Fairbanks, AK

Laurie Costanzo

April 12, 2010

seitz family,
I was very close to paul what seems like forever ago, but in reality was about 15 years ago. He would brighten my day as well as anyone else who was lucky enough to know him. I will never forget him and will never forget the pride and love he felt for his children. He just beamed whenever he spoke of them. I will miss him
Laurie

Dedrick Krzyiwec

March 30, 2010

Seitz family ,

Sorry to hear about your loss . My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this great time of grievance.

Dedrick Krzywiec

March 29, 2010

I can't find the words, I know that you would find that odd for me. Always in my heart, God speed to your family I know how much they meant to you. May you find the peace in heaven you could not seem to find here. We will meet again I know.
Always,
G

Jim Stoever

March 26, 2010

Although I doubt Paul would remember me I will never forget him. Back in the early 1970's we were both acolytes at Christ Church Episcopal in Middletown. Paul's physical height made him a natural Crucifer and we all looked up to him more as a mentor than in the physical sense. He was always willing to show the "new guys" how to dress, how to act, what to do and when to do it during services. I remained an acolyte for 10 years and enjoyed working with Paul. After graduation we went down different paths but I will always remember him for all that he did for us and our church. I am not surprised that he became so revered by his colleagues and dedicated to his profession, I would have been shocked hearing anything else. The fact that cancer took him at such a young age really makes my heart ache. God really must have needed his help elsewhere to take such a fine example of His work from us.
My sympathies go to his family, friends and colleagues.

March 25, 2010

It seems so long ago that we worked together in the woods of Maine, oh the stories I could tell of our "Undercover" days at the Bobb In Tavern, long nights of chasing those bad guy only to do it over again the next day. I've had few partners over the past 30 years that have had the impact and lasting friendship that we have maintained. Just goes to show you, friendship doesn't go away with time absent and distance between us. God speed my old partner, I will think of you often and meet you again, where ever it is old cops like us go. And my sincerest thoughts to those left behind who love you, Glenn and Jena.

Jon Richards Maine Drug Enforcement
Maine

March 24, 2010

A smile from Paul Seitz could light up the world. It was an honor to have known and work with you at the LBPD. May God continue to bless this family through your trying time. Wanda Castle

March 24, 2010

Although I never met any of Paul's family, he often talked about how proud he was of his family, particularly Glen and Jeanna. My last conversation with Paul was on Wednesday, and it was the first time I ever heard Paul mention how much pain he felt, but he still wanted me to have his son's phone number in order to speak with him about the FBI, and what a great career law enforcement was for Paul. I offer my sincerest sympathy to both Glen and Jenna and Andrea, and remind the three of you what a great human being Paul was---truly disciplined, energetic, and a person of great integrity who I had the pleasure to work with for several years in New England in the early 90's. Joe Hobbs, Methuen, Mass.

Nicholas Charles

March 23, 2010

There is a picture of Paul and me at the Seitz camp in Maine. It must have been taken around 1985 or so. I was so young that I think Paul's biceps were bigger than my waist! I was fortunate enough for Paul to visit me at the Charles camp in Maine last summer. He seemed just as big to me! He's a big man with a big heart. He will be missed.

Lt.Todd Biebel

March 23, 2010

A true hero was lost today. An example of what we all should strive to be: humble, dedicated, caring, tough, a gentleman always. His image, but more importantly his character will be forever etched in my memory. Safe travels my friend, thanks for everything!

Kevin Quinn

March 23, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Lynn Vitalone

March 23, 2010

RIP Paul
To Paul's Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Paul at LBPD years ago. He was great to work with...He was a great guy...
You are all in my thoughts and prayers

Joe Pietrangelo

March 22, 2010

We only met for two hours and I felt like I new Paul forever.He went above and beyond to come and speak to my family when the news came my wife was diagnosed with cancer.He was a great guy!!! God Bless His Family!! His inspiration was tremendous.He had a heart of gold!!!

David & Charlene Hall

March 22, 2010

Dear Mark and Family,
David and I cannot express enough sympathy to you all during this difficult time. We hope that you can find comfort in the memories you have of Paul. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Our deepest sympathies and condolences,
Love,
David and Charlene Hall

Chief John F. Pollinger

March 22, 2010

Although I only knew Paul professionally, he was a man whom I admired and respected through the years. Steadfast in his pursuit of truth and justice, principled and personable, he was large in stature and larger than life in his love of his family and the badge he proudly wore. During the time I knew him, he never hesitated to do what was right, no matter the consequences and possessed true character and loyalty to his oath of office. He made an indelible impact on everyone who knew him and will forever be remembered in law enforcement as an example of what a police officer should be. I was privileged to know him.

Mal and Ellen Dawson

March 21, 2010

To all who loved Paul, our profound sympathies. We knew Paul and his family since he was a teen living next to us on Salmon Lake, Maine. As large as he was in stature and strength he was strongest in his heart. Paul was completely dedicated to his career and to his family. He left a strong impression on both. Paul set an example for many of us to work hard but to enjoy each day.

Ricky LaFever

March 21, 2010

Paul was a hero here on Earth and he will be a Saint up in the heavens. You never knew how much of an influence you had on me through the years. I hope I can always live up to your standards! With love,
Cousin Ricky

March 21, 2010

dear heidi,glenn & jenna
i am truly sorry for your loss
i am thinking of you all
gail mccabe & family

March 21, 2010

bam bam you were lovingly known as. it was a honor to have worked and known you.Barbara McChesney

March 21, 2010

Paul,you were a great Police Officer, and a great friend.I will miss your telephone calls.It seemed that you were more worried as to how I was doing with my health problems then yours.
I hope we meet again.
Jules

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