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Rudolph J. Torello

Avon by the Sea - Rudolph J. Torello, 93, of Avon by the Sea, passed away peacefully in his home, surrounded by his loving family on Saturday, April 6, 2019.

Mr. Torello was born and raised in West Hoboken, now Union City, and lived in Avon by the Sea for 50 years. After graduating from Emerson high school, he enlisted in the Army Air Corps, serving in WWII. After his service he received his MBA at Pace University and embarked on a successful career as a contractor, developer, builder and entrepreneur. He embraced his love of children by serving as the President of Kiwanis International, where he organized and funded educational experiences for underprivileged children in Union City. It was during this time that he met and married his beloved wife Alma, and welcomed three beautiful daughters into the world. In 1969, Mr. Torello built a school- Montessori Academy- for Alma, a teacher, and together they began a legacy of academic excellence for children that spanned decades and generations, and is still growing strong.

Mr. Torello was an active member of many organizations dedicated to giving back to his community. He loved to attend monthly meetings of the Union City Downtowners, and served as President of the Avon by the Sea Board of Education. In the 1980's he worked closely with Lee Iacocca, on the restoration and preservation of Ellis Island, where Mr. Torello's own parents had arrived upon emigrating from Italy. He loved animals and birds, as well as fishing, and remained physically fit throughout his life by walking and exercising. Above all, he was a devoted family man, who was born to be a grandfather. He loved spending time with his grandchildren, particularly during vacations to Hershey Park and Marco Island.

Mr. Torello was predeceased by his parents, Giovanni and Maria Torello, as well as by his sister, Irma Webber. He is survived by his beloved wife of 61 years, Alma (Arnoldi), who was devoted to her husband's care. Also surviving are his daughters, Loren Slutter, of Tinton Falls, Gina Torello, of Oakhurst, and Chari Wilson and her husband, Bill, of Oakhurst. Mr. Torello was the beloved grandfather of Claudio Innocenti, Laura Cunningham, Mariah Guy, and Thomas Cunningham, and the uncle of Jon and Donna Webber.

A service with military honors will be held at the Resurrection Chapel at St. Catharine's Cemetery, 1100 W. Chicago Boulevard in Wall, on Saturday, April 20th at 1:30 pm, with entombment to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations in Mr. Torello's memory may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, www.stjude.org. Condolences may be sent via www.obrienfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Apr. 14, 2019.

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Salvini/Perricone

December 28, 2020

Mrs.ViolaPerricone Salvini..learning of Rudy's passing
Expressing my condolences to Alma and family.Rudy and I were classmates@15and now I'm 95. Affectionately,Viola Ohio..14405431919

John Vecchione

April 20, 2019

Mrs. Terello & Family:

My sincere condolences on the passing of Mr. Terello. Back in the day when he frequented the school our
paths often crossed and with few exceptions resulted in major conversations on a multitude of topics. Often
times we traded war stories on the trials and tribulations of running our respective businesses. I miss those
exchanges. As I have experienced with the loss of my loved ones, although their physical presence may be
taken from us their memories live on forever.

Mary Walsh

April 16, 2019

Sending prayers. Your dad was a beautiful person. His memories will always be alive in you.

Toni Marie Johnson

April 16, 2019

Gina, I was so sorry to hear of your father's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Toni Marie and Richie Johnson

Carol Stansbury

April 15, 2019

Mrs. Torello & family,

I am sorry to hear of Mr. Torello's passing.
What a remarkable life he had! My daughter
Lisa was one of your early students at Monessori Academy in Neptune and both Mr. & Mrs. Torello were wonderful and nurturing to her. May fond memories take you all through this sad time in your lives.

Patricia Ferreri

April 14, 2019

To Mrs Torello and Family,
I am so sorry to read of Mr Torello's passing. Both of my children attended Montessori Academy and today are fine young adults. He was a wonderful man and we all have great memories of you and him. God Bless you and your family at this difficult time. My children were Kenneth and Caroline Ferreri.

April 14, 2019

Gina and Family, Sorry to hear of your Dads Passing. I can see him and Herman(Dink) walking the beach in their comfortable bathing suits ;) enjoying the Sun and Ocean. This always brings a smile to me. Ellen "Blair" Lubinsky

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