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1978
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2015
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Stephen Maurer Obituary
AGE: 37 • Toms River
Stephen J. Maurer 37 of Toms River, NJ died on Saturday October 24, 2015. Born in Belleville, NJ he grew up in Scotch Plains, NJ before moving to Toms River. Stephen worked for Shop Rite. Predeceased by his father Edward and his brother Christopher he is survived by his mother MaryAnn and her husband James. A sister Lindsay Ginger. A Brother Edward, two step sisters Melissa and Laura Lowney and a step brother James Lowney Jr. Family and friends are invited to attend the viewing on Thursday October 29, 2015 from 3-7pm at the Timothy E. Ryan Home for Funerals 145 St Catherine Blvd Toms River, NJ. The Funeral Service will be on Friday 10:30am at the Funeral Home. Committal will be private. Donations may be made to Alex's Lemonade Stand at alexslemonade.org. Condolences may be sent to www.ryanfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Maurer
Mary Ann Lowney
October 24, 2020
Still miss you everyday my son.
Zach Fuori
September 27, 2017
I've been meaning to leave a comment here for over a year now... I met Steve when I was just a kid when he was living in Boca Raton. He worked with my Mom until moving back to NJ. As a kid I remember him being such a funny guy with such a good heart.. Like the big brother I never had. I hope your soul is at peace Steve.
Jim Lowney
November 24, 2015
We were always close but became closer the last few months and I will miss your endless texts back and forth during football season keeping me updated on what the Jets were doing. In one of your last texts to me you called me Dad and I called you Son. I wish this relationship that we were sharing could have lasted longer. I will miss you everyday. I love you, Jimbo (which is the name you gave to me).
Kimmi Papendiivk
November 24, 2015
Steve we will mids you so much... Even though the time we knew you was short, you touched our heartsI l have a ache in my heart that your gone... We ste dorryr for your loss to your family..You now have the peace that you wanted Steve... God put you in my path.God Bless you. Love Kimmi Dawn and your little liv Liv
Cathy Thornton
November 20, 2015
Maryann & Family, So sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved son Stephen. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! God Bless, Love, Cathy Fazio Thornton
kim papendick
November 13, 2015
Steve,you will always be in our hearts,love Kimmy,
Marisol Caraballo
November 11, 2015
Sorry for your loss.. I knew him a short time, through my boyfriend, and he was really sweet! He will be missed!
Ben Carter
November 11, 2015
I met you as a fireballing little league pitcher and learned that you had an even bigger heart than you did a competitive fire. I am so grateful I got to know you, Steve. Your love, intelligence, spirit, realness, and hunger for life made you someone very special and you are leaving a giant hole here on earth. I pray you have found the peace you so deserve, brother. Love, Ben.
Christopher Lacosta
November 10, 2015
My closest childhood friend. We grew up together as brothers, vacationed together, and although we never went to school together we spent all summer together.
One of my earliest memories is playing knock-hockey with you at Willow Grove. We were two goofy kids, and with Lindsay, Rob, and Nick we made a small motley crew.
From the beaches at the jersey shore to the mountains of the Poconos, when we got together we would fight going to bed to stay up and talk. Through the years the conversations evolved from make believe, WWF wrestling, and sports; to talking about music, girls, and sports.
As we got older it was obvious that you had an ease to how you lived your life, it made everyone around you feel like anything was possible. You were a strong and loyal friend which made you popular and loved.
Today I chose to remember you as the kid who kept a parakeet in his room and the boy who would walk 30 minutes to hang out at the pet store.
The brother who would never let anyone say a negative word about his sister and the son who made his parents proud. My friend who has always shown me that life is precious and every day should be packed full of joy and challenge.
In this dark void that is left in your passing, the joy created reflects back like a beacon, lighting up the faces of the people who loved you. You left us while you were still young; I only wish I could have thanked you again for the positive influence you had on my life.
Maureen LaCosta
November 9, 2015
I will always remember that sweet beautiful face and those big feet flapping across the floor. He was one of the smartest people I knew and had a heart of gold. Never will I understand how Stephen fell victim to such an awful disease. Taken way to soon and missed always. He will forever hold a piece of my heart.
Aunt Irene & Michelle Szostak
November 8, 2015
Steve,
I was in the U.S. when you were born but then I left for Canada. Your mother sent me many pictures of you and your sister, so in a way I did watch you grow up. We also saw each other a few times through the years, and the last time was when you and Jimmy Jr. walked your mother down the aisle at Lindsay and Trent's wedding. The last time we spoke to each other was a couple of years ago. You sounded happy and told me you were helping your mother and Jimmy at the winery. I know it hasn't been an easy road for you but I hope you know you were loved by many people including Michelle and I. I hope you are at peace now with your father and many relatives.
Lissa Webb
November 6, 2015
I will always remember you as the goofy guy, that was like a brother for a short period of time..during a dark time in my life. My heart and condolences go out to all of your family.
Amanda Beggs
November 6, 2015
There will never be enough words in the dictionary, to describe the loving, caring, intelligent man that Steve was. He was only my friend for a year, but that year would not have ever been the same with out him, he changed my life. He taught me to have self-respect, be honest, and to never give up and for these conversations we had - I am forever grateful. Steve was the big brother I always wanted- protective, sincere, and the love he showed Justine and I, was never conditional. I still can't believe - he's not going to be in my kitchen when I get home from work; or in the bathroom when I need to get ready to go to work. He broke down a piece of the wall I shield myself with, and he took a piece of my heart. I will miss him the way I miss my teenage years - they're distant, but I will never ever forget them. I will see you in paradise, my friend. Rest easy Stephen.
candido dejesus
November 6, 2015
Shady u will always be in my heart. You had given me a peace of mind when i felt so full of rage at the world. God used you to put smile on our faces. We shall keep the legacy goung for you . Even thou i dont like Taylor Swift, today i will a fan of hers as i think of you. Taylor Swift whoooooooi......that was your favorite here at da sally. I will ride with your Jets for this year my bbrother, you will never be forgotten. R.i.p.... Big C forever until we meet again Homie......
Justine Dannelly
November 5, 2015
You said you knew a year ago I thought you were crazy. But, your persistence made me fall in love with you. A lifetime in three month's. You wrote me beautiful letters and poems I keep along with my memory's deep in my heart. You drove me crazy with the things you would do I would ask you who seriously does that and you would say I do with the biggest smile. You would eat in bed in the middle of the night waking up to food all over and say I'm a mess lil bit.
I MISS YOU
November 5, 2015
Terri Punzo
November 5, 2015
Steve you had my heart from hello. You were a wonderful guy and I will miss you with all my heart. Rest in peace till we meet again. Punzo and Brenden love you tons Xoxo
Lindsay Ginger
November 5, 2015
I have struggled for the last week to find the words to express how I feel about losing you, my big brother. I have prepared for over 10 years for this moment, but I promise it doesn't even begin to ease the pain. I am blessed to have had a brother, who despite his direction in life, meant the world to so many people. I distanced myself from you to save myself from the hurt but that in no way changed the love I have for you Steve. You are now and forever will be one of the most influential people in my life. You taught me strength, determination and how to stick up for myself (even if it was because you were mocking me!). These are all qualities that have helped me tremendously in my life and I am grateful. I will miss you and all of our missed opportunities every day of my life. Madison loved her Uncle Silly and wears her new Taylor Swift shirt in honor of you. Much Love, Your Lil Sis
Jack Todaro
November 5, 2015
To Lindsey and the Maurer family, I am sorry for your loss. I remember meeting Steve and his father when I was 10 years old in little league. I remember Steves sense of humor and that he was a caring big brother to Lindsey. I haven't spoken to Steve or Lindsey in years, but just wanted to let you know that my thoughts are with you.
Bryan Getchius
November 5, 2015
Shady, my thoughts and prayers are with your family bro. We are going to miss you down here, but I'm sure you will be watching over from
Up there. Your battle is over now, and you can now get some peace. Till we see each other again up there....
Marguerite Cahill
November 5, 2015
I have no idea how to say goodbye to you...I will always love you and you will always be with me in my heart. I was so lucky to have had you as my best friend. Each day at work I look at the plaque you gave me..."Will we be friends forever?" asked Piglet. "Even longer." answered Pooh. I will never stop missing you.
Valerie Lynn
November 4, 2015
You Will Always Be Remembered 'POLAR BEAR' !!! XoXo your PRETTIES'
Alice Lynch
October 29, 2015
My deepest sympathies to the family & friends of Stephen
May you somehow find peace at this most sad & heartbreaking time
paul Lynch
October 29, 2015
To Mare, Jimbo, Jimmy, Lindsey & the whole family
I' m sorry for your loss. I want you to know that Steve helped a lot of people here. Without Steve I would have never met the family (even crazy Uncle Billy). He showed me how to be clean and live life again. I will always remember the times we had fishing every weekend and dinner at Mare & Jimbos. I am truly blessed to have known you, will miss you, love you.
Your friend,
Paul
Jimmy Lowney
October 28, 2015
I will never forget you brother and wish I could give you a big hug and tell you I love you. I promise to honor you and cherish the bond we have forever. And I will try not to fall down stairs in front of girls I never met or forget when you saved my life 14 years ago by showing me a new way of life. I love you Steve!
Becky and Joe Fantuzzo
October 28, 2015
Dear Maurer and Lowney Families,We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with each of you during this time of grief. We are praying for strength and comfort in the days ahead. Steve will be missed and will always hold a special place in our hearts.With Love,Becky and Joe
concert october 11th
Amanda
October 27, 2015
road trip to get justines car in august
Amanda
October 27, 2015
six flags in july
Amanda
October 27, 2015
October 27, 2015
To my Steve, I will love, remember and miss you til the day I die. You have struggled in your life for so long. I tried to help you but couldn't. I know you are now in good hands with your dad, your Uncle Joey and your brother Chris. Nobody will ever love me in the crazy way you did and I will miss that forever. You will always be "A Mama's Boy". And for that I will always be grateful. With all my love until I see you again, Mommy.
October 27, 2015
Aunt Maryann, uncle Jimmy, Lindsey,and the rest of your family, We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are always with you.xoxo Mike& Lisa Lipesky
October 27, 2015
Aunt Maryann, uncle Jimmy, Lindsey,and the rest of your family, We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are always with you.xoxo Mike& Lisa Lipesky
Chris & Roseann Del Gandio
October 27, 2015
Our deepest sympathies.
Fran & Mike Stefanick
October 27, 2015
MaryAnn our deepest sympathies for your loss. We have many fond memories of Steven from Cub Scouts and will always remember his smiling face.
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