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Thomas Miller Obituary

Thomas James Miller passed away peacefully in his sleep at home on February 28, 2024, surrounded by loved ones. He was born on September 23, 1937, in Yuba City, California, to Fred and Marie Miller. He lived in the local area all of his life.

Tom joined the Coast Guard in 1955, and served until 1959. He worked in construction until 1960, when he became a police officer. After a visit to Corpus Christi, Texas, to see his big brother, Richard, who was a Police Officer there and going on a ride along with him, Tom decided he wanted to become a police officer. He loved his job and moved quickly up the ranks, retiring as a captain in 1993, after 33 years of service. He received many commendations during his career.

Tom had two daughters, Kellie Jo and Angela with is first wife. In 1970, he married the love of his life, Pat, and gained three more daughters, Dawna, Kellee and Tracee. His standing joke was that he couldn't even marry into a son. He was a great father to all five girls.

Tom was a self taught guitar player and an excellent one at that. Paired with his great voice, he entertained family and friends with country music, his favorite music! Merle Haggard was his hero! There were many jam sessions in the Miller home. Anyone lucky enough to hear Tom's awesome singing and guitar playing will have it burned into their memory forever.

Tom was an avid hunter and fisherman and he enjoyed his years of retirement hunting and fishing. He made many out of state hunting trips and was nearly always successful in bagging game and catching fish. Daily fishing trips weren't out of the question during striper season. He also hunted pheasant with his two great dogs, Ace and Duke. He and Pat even went to South Africa, where he bagged a kudu, a warthog, a gemsbok (large antelope) and an impala.

Tom had to slow down a bit the last few years for health reasons but he would still fish as often as he could with friends and grandkids. This gave him more time to spend with some of his grandkids and great-grandkids. He was the best grandpa ever!

Tom was preceded in death by his parents; his brother, Richard; his sister, June; his first grandson, Brent Beeler; his son-in-law, Dale Bowers; and many cousins who were like brothers.

He is survived by his adoring wife, Pat; his daughters, Dawna Beeler (Doug), Kellie Jo Wilkey (Alex), Kellee Bowers, Tracee Powell (John) and Angela Martin (Robert). He is also survived by 14 grandchildren, 19 great-grandchildren and one great-great-grandchild with another great­-great-grandchild coming this spring. These kids were all so special to him and they all loved him.

Tom had a great sense of humor and was always the life of the party! He will be missed so very much. As the Luke Bryan song says, he's now "huntin', fishin' and lovin' every day, that's the prayer that a country boy prays."

There will be a celebration of life on Saturday, March 30, 2024, from 1:00 to 4:00pm, at the Elks Lodge, 920 D Street, Marysville, CA. Please join us for appetizers and refreshments. Casual attire is welcomed. In lieu of flowers, please feel free to make a donation to your favorite charity.

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Published by Appeal Democrat from Mar. 6 to Mar. 27, 2024.

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Kellie Miller Wilkey

May 4, 2024

Daddy I just truly Miss you u. Thank you for being the best Dad to us girls. I will miss our coffee dates, our long car rides and all your jokes and all the singing we did. Life is just not the same without you. Love you forever!

Jack Simpson

March 29, 2024

Tom and I worked together for about 30 years. I consider him a friend who always could make me smile. Tom was a good cop but also someone who was always someone who you could trust. He was one of the Good Guys. I´ll miss him

Patsy Muriset

March 28, 2024

I love Tom Miller! There are so many reasons to love him.
One of the things I will miss the most is the laughter of James (as we called him) and Roger telling stories or lies and laughing like crazy at each other. It could go on for hours! He was the best! He made our lives better. Roger and I will miss him forever!

Roleane Helder

March 28, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Darrel & Tammy Hopkins

March 27, 2024

It has been an honor living across the street from Tom & Pat for the past 35 years. Tom you are with the angels now and will be truly missed.

Paul Grove

March 24, 2024

Sorry to hear of Tom´s passing, my condolences to Pat and the girls, the rest of the family.
Tom was a special person in my life and helped me in so many ways as a young person. Fishing, hunting, learning the guitar; he was a pivotal figure after I lost my dad.
I hope the rivers are full of fish and the forests full of deer up there, until we meet again.
Rest in peace my friend.

Eric Nelson

March 19, 2024

Tommy, thanks for all the laughs. I don't think I've known anyone who had a non stop string of jokes like you. There is a lot of bucks n birds not to mention the fish that won't miss you allot of folks will miss you and I'm one! Clear skies and Soft breezes on your face ! Pat condolences to you and all your family.
Eric Nelson

Zeke (Lynnie) Bisby

March 10, 2024

Uncle Tommy will be missed, He always had a smile on his face and could make you smile as well. He´s a great man that will be missed by many. I hope Uncle Tommy and my dad (Lynnie Bisby) are hunting and fishing together every day. My heart goes out to all the family and friends.

Valerie

March 8, 2024

Pat & Family, So sorry for your loss.

Pat, you and Tom were a perfect couple the two of you were definitely meant for each other and I hope that you feel less saddened in the days ahead. Remember all the good times.

R.I.P Tom.

Mike & Marsha Nason

March 6, 2024

So sorry to hear of Tom´s passing. Many memories.
Condolences to the Family.

Mike and Marsha Nason

Jeanne Simpson Zermeno

March 6, 2024

I am very saddened by James death. He was always around our house visiting Allan back in the day. I've witnessed a couple of his Jam sessions with Bob and Danny Poole here at the house. Always a smile for everyone . What a great addition to HEAVEN! Our Condolences to Pat and all the family. God blessed us all by having him here on earth.

Pamela Miller Post

March 6, 2024

So many sweet memories..truly will be missed.

Jo Edwards

March 6, 2024

Kellie and family.. so sorry for your loss. 1989 was my first encounter with him and he will forever be my hero. Whenever Kellie talked about her Daddy it made me smile. Tommy will be missed by many!

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