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Jerry Schaffer Obituary

ATHENS - Jerry J. Schaffer, 80, beloved husband of Robin (nee Bowe) for 44 years. Loving father of Kathryn Schaffer (Erik Nichols) of Chicago and Jeremy (Abby) Schaffer of Athens. Devoted grandfather of Clara Nichols and Emma and Cooper Schaffer.
Jerry is survived by a sister, Joan (the late Jack) York; brothers-in-law Bill Hoelker and Dave Thomas; and sister-in-law Barb Schaffer. He was preceded in death by his sisters, Judy Thomas and Jean Hoelker; and brother, Joseph Schaffer, all of Cincinnati. A long-time resident of Athens, he died in his home on Thursday, Feb. 20, 2020, in the company of family and close friends. He was 80 years old.
Born into a musical family, Jerry lived life with a beat in his step. At home and at work, with old friends and new acquaintances, he lived and loved generously, connecting with people from every background through art, music, humor, compassion, and his exuberant love of life. No matter the situation, he was sure to remark "there's a song for that!" Even at the very end, when he lost the ability to walk, he never stopped dancing.
Schaffer was one of five children born to Joseph and Loretta Schaffer, of Cincinnati. After graduating from Elder High School in Cincinnati, he attended St. Gregory's Seminary and Mt. St. Mary's seminary, later achieving a Masters in Education from Xavier University.
In his early work as a priest and high school teacher, his involvement in impoverished neighborhoods in Cincinnati led him to a concerted engagement with the Civil Rights movement of the 1960s. He worked under Jesse Jackson and alongside Rev. Otis Moss as part of the Operation Breadbasket project launched by the Southern Christian Leadership Conference. He also worked closely with Cincinnati-based Civil Rights and peace activist Rev. Maurice McCrackin.
Through the late 1960s and into the 1970s, Schaffer led community initiatives to fight hunger, poverty, and injustice in Cincinnati and beyond, including the Cincinnati Hunger Coalition, the Hunger Coalition of Ohio, and later the Appalachian People's Action Committee. He moved to Southeastern Ohio in the 1970s to pursue a career in mental health and social work, taking a position as the Director of the Southern Tri-County Community Board of Mental Health in 1974.
He married Robin Windsor Bowe in 1975, and raised two children with Robin as active members of the Athens community. In 1990, he obtained clinical licensure to become a geriatric mental health counselor for the last years of his career. Committed to supporting dignity and resilience through the power of direct human connection, he continued to volunteer with the Red Cross well into his retirement, providing mental health services to families stranded in hurricane crisis centers.
Beginning with a family variety act ("The Schafferettes") in his childhood, and ending with open mic nights at local Athens bars, Jerry was a performing musician his entire life. He played piano and washboard, as well as playing drums in several Athens-based rock bands.
He was also an accomplished painter, and his watercolor and acrylic paintings (many of Athens scenes) are in homes and businesses around the region. He loved travel, opera music, boating with Robin on the Ohio River, practicing Spanish, and goofing around with his grandkids. His favorite way to celebrate everyday life was with a Jack Daniels on the rocks, enjoyed by the fire.
Ever giving, Jerry planned a final bequeathal to the medical science and education programs at Ohio University. The family will announce a memorial party at a future time. Donations in Jerry's honor may be sent to the Red Cross.

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Published by The Athens Messenger from Feb. 24 to Feb. 26, 2020.

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Brian Ray

March 29, 2021

Dear Robin,
We have wonderful memories of Jerry and you. You were a delight and bright part of our short time in Athens! We are sorry to hear of Jerry's passing and we pray that the Lord God is giving you peace and joy. Please e-mail us if you have time. (I don't know how this system works but if you go to nheri.org you will easily find me.)
--Oregon

February 26, 2020

My family and I have many wonderful memories of Jerry and his wonderful family. RIP You brought joy to so many.

Cheryl Winterhalter Sarasota FL

Ellie Kaastra

February 26, 2020

So sorry to hear of Jerry's passing and i am sending you all my deepest condolances.
Spending time with Jerry and Robin has always been a joy, either supporting our sons in opposing soccer teams (Albany against Athens)., or painting together in the colorfull house on Lorene Avenue or doing workshops together with Robin for Capp.
Thanks for all the joy and love you have brought to this world Jerry, I will always remember.
With hugs from across the ocean.

Ellie Kaastra
The Netherlands

Mary Gilmore

February 25, 2020

What a wonderful life you had with Jerry! How blessed you have been, and now the memories of those truly wonderful years will carry you through this difficult time. We wish you peace and joy in the knowledge that Jerry's suffering has ended. May God be with you, and we will continue to lift your family in prayer.

February 25, 2020

Robin and family,
We are sorry for your loss. You both were very dear neighbors to our late mother, Barbara Harris. We are keeping you in our thoughts.
Greg & Teresa Harris

Kim Hale- Scott Sparks

February 24, 2020

Robin,
Scott and I send our deepest condolences. What a beautiful obituary to pay tribute to a wonderful person who so touched lives of those in need. I hope your sorrow in his loss turns to smiles of loving memories that we can only imagine.
Kim and Scott

peg Fiorino

February 24, 2020

I will never forget the warmth, joy and music that Jerry brought to whatever occasion prompted a gathering of the old Bible Center, hootenanny, ex-priest or lifelong friends groups. Jerry was a music maker that brought humor and harmony wherever he went. It was lovely to know him. My deepest sympathy to Robin and their beloved children and grandchildren at their heartbreaking loss.

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