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Alan Palmer Obituary

Family-Placed Death Notice

Mr. Alan Palmer, 37, of Atlanta died November 24, 2003. Funeral services will be held in the chapel of A. S. Turner & Sons at 2 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 29th. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, 1925 Century Boulevard, N.E., Atlanta, GA 30345. The family will receive friends from 7 to 9 p.m. Friday at A. S. Turner & Sons.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution from Nov. 25 to Nov. 26, 2003.

Memories and Condolences
for Alan Palmer

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79 Entries

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Miss Lisa

November 7, 2013

Not a day goes by that I don't miss that smile, charm, humor and selfless giving...almost 10 years later still seams like yesterday.

Patricia Finkel

June 8, 2005

I just read the latest issue of Emory Magazine and was shocked to read of AP's passing in 2003. Alan was there during a time of transition for me (1993). He was what I envisioned a true southern gentleman to be: caring, thoughtful, witty and intelligent. It was a privilege to have known him and through my travels AP always had a place in my heart!

Condolences to the Palmer family.

Jay Hare

August 18, 2004

I have been thinking of alan alot in the past few weeks with the East lake member guest coming up.I am sort of happy that I am not going to be able to play this year because it would be strange without AP and Mitch there to laugh with.we had alot of fun playing together and cracking up the whole time.I will be thinking of alan and his family this weekend and will be happy that I had a chance to be his friend.

Tom D'Aprile

December 21, 2003

Alan will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Lisa Whittington Carhart

December 17, 2003

To the Palmer Family,

I wish to express my sincere condolences on the sad news of Alan's passing. My sister, Ellen, and I always enjoyed being friends with Alan in high school. He was a great guy and I will always remember him as a true gentleman. My prayers are with your family during this holiday season.

Sincerely,

Lisa Whittington Carhart

Jack Adams

December 15, 2003

Alan and I shared business interests, and now the early passing of such a fine spirit pales all other worldly concerns. For those who were closest, my deepest sympathy. For all who knew him, we are better for having shared his brief but exceptional presence, in this realm. Godspeed A.P.

Jay Hare

December 11, 2003

I was shocked at the news of Alans passing and am sorry that I was unable to attend the service.Alan and his family and his many friends have been in my thoughts and prayers.I knew Alan from East Lake and the highlight each year at the member Guest was playing against him and Mitch. While it was very competative it was the best match because we would laugh the whole time.I am glad that I had the opportunity to be touched by such a special person. I know Alan is in a better place now and I am sure he will always be remembered.Every time I am at East Lake I will think of Alan and his smile his wit and his friendship. My thoughts and prayers are with all who loved him.

Love Ya AP

Jay Hare

Scott Hansen

December 7, 2003

I always considered Alan one of my closest friends and golfing pals. Of all my friends, there is no one that I preferred to be around than Alan. He always positive, upbeat and always had something funny to say. I will really miss him...

Robert Williams

December 6, 2003

My deepest sympathy to the entire Palmer family.

I can't remember when I first met Alan. It must have been 25 years ago or more. We grew up on the same street and attended Druid Hills High School together.

I do remember playing sports almost everyday with him and the neighborhood kids after school.....all day on weekends. We played every sport imaginable in the field behind his house. I would get phone calls from him saying "You coming down?" or "Meet us at 4:00". He didn't have to say anything else. Within minutes, there would be ten people at his back door ready to play.

When the Druid Hills High School band or some other "organized" sport took our field, we would move to his back yard. It was smaller and we always were afraid of breaking the windows in his parents house but we kept playing.

Alan was always a 100% + person and I admired that very much. We lost touch after high school and I didn't have the pleasure of knowing him in his professional life. But, I am sure that he carried that on in the same AP fashion.

Alan, I'll miss you very much but will always remember the very good times we had together.

Robert Williams

Ashley Dickey

December 6, 2003

I still can't believe that Alan is gone. He was such a terrific person who possessed the most dynamic personality. I would laugh until I would cry when I was around him. There was nothing better than weekends at the lake house with Alan and our crew. He was a very special friend who's amazing spirit will live on.

My thoughts and prayers are with his family as well.

Sincerely,

Ashley H. Dickey

Victoria Peroulas Jansma

December 3, 2003

My thoughts and prayers are with the Palmer family during this difficult time. Alan was a wonderful person and will be missed by all who knew him.

Will House

December 2, 2003

Like so many of you, I simply could not believe the news about Alan's untimely death. Alan was one of the first people I met at Oxford. Over the last 20 or so years I can't remember seeing Alan without that smile. He was a great friend and a comedic genius. My sincere and warmest condolences to his wonderful family.

Michael Sabadosa

December 2, 2003

Our deepest sympathies to the Palmer family. Mr Palmer was a wonderful person to do business with. He will be missed.

Michael Sabadosa and the entire E-Z Choice staff at GE Financial

Tony Dworak

December 2, 2003

Every time I wake up, I hope this last week has been a horrible nightmare that didn't happen. So much of my personality was molded by Alan, along with Jewell, Gavin and Shockley, but Alan was the center. I so associate Atlanta with Alan (I never stayed anywhere else but his house) My deepest sympathies to the Palmers, Alison and Kenny.

Dworak

holly and andy bayman

December 1, 2003

The last week has been filled with stunned disbelief as we still cannot believe we will never again see AP's warm smile. He was the kind of person who made you feel better when you saw him and he was always positive. He will be sorely missed by many. However, we have many happy memories to sustain us. From Ollie's birthday parties (including one where Holly slipped on a loose water meter cover in AP's front yard and AP and Kenny came to her aid) to numerous golf rounds (including visits to the 19th hole), tournaments and trips. In fact, AP, playing with Andy, made the 10 foot sidehill putt on No. 18 at East Lake to tie up all the bets the day before he died. It is fitting that one of Andy's last memories of AP will be his big grin as that putt went in. AP aimed for excellence in all that he did and he made us all better through knowing him.

Gordon Gienow

December 1, 2003

To Howard Palmer: I was shocked to learn of Alan's untimely death. I was unable to attend either the viewing or the funeral but you've been in my thoughts and prayers. Please give me a call when you feel so inclined, Howard. My direct line is (770) 512-5121. Gordon Gienow.

Lisa Cohen-Burton

December 1, 2003

My condolences to the Palmer family.

Russell Richey

December 1, 2003

I am shocked and saddened by the unfortunate news of Alan's passing. I first met Alan when we played YMCA youth soccer - he was solid in the goal and so solid as a person. Hilariously sarcastic, easy-going and a wonderful soul he was. My thoughts, prayers and condolences go out to his family in this difficult time.

Susan Lee

December 1, 2003

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Danielle Palms McClure

November 30, 2003

My heart and prayers go to the Palmer family. Alan was one of my best friends from K4,Oxford and beyond Emory! We had the best of times together with all of our friends. He helped mold the person I am today...even kept me out of trouble on numerous occassions. He was my friend, big brother, and teacher. He taught us all so much about life and living it to the fullest. I will miss his hugs,and smiles, phone calls, and Christmas cards, and the opportunity for my children to know such a great person. Thank you Myra, Gayle and HP and Mary for sharing your brother and son with so many people. Lots of love, Danielle

Alan Clack

November 30, 2003

While he was alive, he lived. And he heard life's music louder than most. And he danced. Now that he has moved on and left us with a hundred questions, reflection begins--reflection on his impact on my life. He leaves life as he entered it for me, as a good and true friend from the very beginning. He was the kind of friend that is rare, the kind not only whose company you seek, but also the kind of friend that you allow and welcome to become part of you. There are parts of me that are Alan. Be they phrases, attitudes, expressions or memories, they are there inside of me forever a part of me because of him. As I call on them in life I will silently footnote them and smile inside because he is with me. He will always be with me, more now than ever.

Here's to the Good People of which Alan was one. And here's to him making me a Better person. And here's to all of his friends living his legacy. And here's to his power to be present in our lives even after his death.

Holly Lanford

November 30, 2003

My heart is filled with sorrow today after attending Alan's funeral and seeing Mr. and Mrs. Palmer and Myra and Gail and all of Alan's friends. Alan and I shared such special times together at Oxford and at Emory. He was so proud to be Dooley's spokesman at Oxford. It was such a shock to see him stand in front of everyone appearing so serious putting on those white gloves while we all hoped he would not call out our name; however, as soon as he was done reading "the Letter" he would become Alan the comedian again. He always made me laugh. If you never heard Alan sing Ethel Merman you missed a real treat. Alan and I had real bad luck with cars. He wrecked two cars during the time we dated with me in them- one time we actually hit a UPS truck in Metter, and after that we would say "you wreck better in Metter." On the more serious side, he was a dear and gentle person who loved life, and I am blessed to have known him. He will forever be in my heart. My love and sympathy to the Palmer family.

Paul & Susan Redgate

November 29, 2003

To Howard, Mary, Jay and Pat, and all of the family, Paul and I send our sincerest sympathy to each of you. Our prayers are with you. Paul and Susan Parker Rdgate

David Asbury

November 29, 2003

I want to extend my deepest sympathy to all of the Palmer family. I have had the great opportunity to have known Alan for the past 30+ years, from the time he was a junior golfer at Druid Hills, a very close friend of my younger brother Dan, to now where Alan had become a good friend and valued business colleauge. Alan always had a postive word, a quick wit, and a warmth that endeared him to me and all of those he touched. I along with my entire family are truly heartbroken at Alan's untimely passing. I will try hard not to miss Alan, but to remember him.

Andey, Kathy and Branson Worley

November 28, 2003

Alan was an inspiration and a credit to our family. He was a person that you would want your children to follow in his footsteps. He was a credit to his community and his profession, we will miss him,but we will always love him, our prayers are with you,Howard and Mary,Myra and Gail.Our hearts are always with you. Andy, Kathy, and Branson.

Robert and Ruth Lee

November 28, 2003

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Palmer family.

Todd Boyd

November 28, 2003

It is with deep sympothy that I send my condolences to the Palmer Family. Alan was a very genuine person and it was a pleasure to know and do business with him.

Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends during this very sad time.

Todd Boyd

Sales Manager

Fortis Benefits Insurance Company

Atlanta Sales Office

John Felton

November 28, 2003

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Palmer family during this tough time.

Russell Campbell

November 28, 2003

I wanted to express my condolences to Alan's family and friends. I knew Alan from the DHHS soccer team because we both played goalkeeper. I remember many practices where we worked out together and cut up. Alan had a good sense of humor and was a really nice guy. I've thought about him on occasion over the years and wondered what he was up to. I'm very to sorry to hear of his passing. My prayers will be with you.

Russell Campbell

DHHS Class of '82

Jerry Harmon

November 28, 2003

May God always be with you!

Noel

November 27, 2003

He will be missed.

Robert Hill

November 27, 2003

Howard, Mary and family..Gail's and my heart felt sympathy goes out to you....Our prayers have been with you and we ask God's peace and confort for you during this trying time...Love always, Robert and Gail

Barbara Crisp

November 27, 2003

Thinking of you all with Love and Prayers.

Beth Dewald

November 27, 2003

I enjoyed getting to know Alan briefly through NAILBA. He always had a smile to share with others. Alan will be missed but always remembered.

Lisa Carlton

November 27, 2003

Myra and Palmer,

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless.

Lisa Carlton

John & Leslie Swain

November 27, 2003

There are two lines from the prayer of St. Francis that come to mind especially at this time.

"That I may seek to understand as to be understood". Alan worked hard to achieve a family atmosphere in the agency which made for a very pleasant place to do business. He often would talk with me about how my sons were doing in their schools and how their soccer teams stood. He cared very much about our clients that they should be provided with the very best product possible. He was always there to offer support, understanding and encouragement to me.

"It is in dying that we are born to eternal life". My wife joins me in offering our most sincere condolences and prayers for the Palmer family and Ms. Alison Alderman at this time of their grief.

Ruth and Robert Lee

November 27, 2003

Please know that we will keep the Palmer family in our thoughts and prayers.

Gail & Norman Raab

November 27, 2003

Although no words can provide comfort at such a sad time, just know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Alan will be greatly missed by the numerous people whose lives he touched in so very many ways with his beautiful smile, his eagerness to help, his vast knowledge and his wonderful advice.

Scott Waynick

November 26, 2003

Some of the most fond mememories of my entire life come from AP or Palmer as I normally referred to him. The day Geese (David Garrison) called and told me this unbelievable news I have cried, I have laughed, and then cried some more. Out of all my friends that I met at Oxford and went on to Emory with AP was truly one of my best of freinds. We would meet at Oxford on Oxford Day and spend the day picking and cutting up with each other...and some of our wifes!!!!! My wife even told me just a month ago..."If Palmer, Mitch, Garrison, and their spouses do not come to Oxford Day Then I don't want to go. To the man who took my nickname, "COWBOY" and gave it every twist you could imagine..."cowpoke, poke,cowbucket,bucket, and some I can't even remember. I will truly miss Alan Palmer and who knows maybe one day will be able to enjoy Oxford Day again.

TO the Palmer Family...You had a son that not only could I call a best friend, you had a son that if I am ever blessed with a son I hope he will be exactly like AP!!!

WITH LOVE,

Scott Waynick aka:"COWBOY, Cowpoke, Poke, Cowbucket, Bucket, etc"

Mary Campbell

November 26, 2003

All of us at the Brain Tumor Foundation for Children are extremely saddened to hear of Alan's passing. I met Alan just two weeks ago at a meeting where we talked about his association with an organization that recently made a very generous grant to our foundation, thanks to Alan's input. Alan talked about how "doing things for others is what it is all about." I regret that I did not have the honor of getting to know Alan, but I was certainly touched by our conversation that day. We send our deepest condolences to his family and loved ones at this time.

William J. Lauter

November 26, 2003

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Alan's passing. It's unfortunate that many will never have the opportunity to know him, share his positive attitude, his great enthusiasm for life, his friendship and his guidance. My thoughts are with the Palmer family, and Ms. Alison Alderman. He will be greatly missed by each and every one of us.

Ralph Williams

November 26, 2003

Howard,Mary,Myra-What a great friend I have lost.Even though there is almost 20 years difference in our ages,I felt very close.We had many memorable discussions.Alan's insight and advice was always right on the money. Your family and your agency have always been a haven of kindness,support and humor for me.I will miss my visits with Alan terribly.Marie's and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Wanda Foster

November 26, 2003

What can you say about Alan, A LOT.

I knew Alan for many years and he was always there for me.

Teasing around at all of the different seminars we went to and just bumping into him on the street was a great lift to my spirts. When I had something bad happen to me I always called Alan for support. He was always there to make me laugh and tell me that everything would be OK.

I learned of Alan's passing yesterday and cried then I heard him say everything will be OK.

My prayers are with for the family and for the co-workers at the agency. The best is to remember that they got to spend all of that time with such a wonderful person.

I remember the last thing that my dad said to me before his passing was "what a glorious day it will be when we see each other again". I will always remember Alan and can't wait to see him again.

Love to all.

Sincerely,

Wanda Foster

Frank & Betty Weaver

November 26, 2003

Frank and Betty Weaver send thier condolences to the Palmer family and want them to know that we sincerely do share thier grief.

Frank & Betty Weaver

November 26, 2003

Frank and Betty Weaver send thier condolences to the Palmer family and want them to know that we do sincerely share thier grief.

Alan Hartman

November 26, 2003

My deepest sympathy and prayers to Howard, Myra, and the Palmer family. May God give you strength during these trying times.

Jay Church

November 26, 2003

Alan was always a joy to be around. I have always looked up to Alan and admired him for the genuine quality person he is. Having him on my dorm hall at Oxford made dorm life fun, if not hilarious. Alan lives on in all of us.

Stephen Paine

November 26, 2003

AP's presence will be missed here on the Lake. In a span of the last 5 years he has touched so many lives with his humor at Cuscowilla. We consider AP as part of our extended family because Cuscowilla was his home away from home and he will always reside here in our thoughts.

Krister Holladay

November 26, 2003

We will certainly miss Alan. I cannot think of my time at Emory without the fondest memories of Alan with James Shockley, Tony and so many others whose lives Alan touched and enriched. Our thoughts and prayers are with Alan's friends and family

Steve Craine

November 26, 2003

I am Thankful for many things this week, including having known A.P. He did light up a room, or for that matter a golf course when he would arrive. I will pray for all the family and friends that are grieving this tragic loss.

Orly Borowski Hardin

November 26, 2003

I have to say that the majority of my high school memories involve Alan Palmer. From Latin class to soccer, he always made me laugh. And I loved him for that. It's been years since I have seen Alan, but I can still remember him like it was yesterday. My heart and prayers are with his family and friends at this time.

Frank Lesesne

November 26, 2003

We are all shocked and saddened by the untimely passing of Alan. I have known Alan for about 25 years and I have always been amazed at the diversity of his friendships. If you met Alan he gave you the chance to be a friend regardless of who you were. What and example and what a testament to Alan's parents. I am so shocked and sad. I will always miss Alan, and will pray for him and his family.

Adrian Jelks

November 26, 2003

My knowledge of Alan is not through a personal, close friendship, but rather, through a circle of friends. I feel great sadness for those closest to him, because I know they truly love him and are left with so much grief and heartache. My thoughts are with you. Adrian

Teresa Sheppard Meyer

November 25, 2003

My sincerest condolences to Alan's family. Alan and I were friends through elementary and high school. We were in homeroom together throughout high school and he always made me smile. I have a treasured picture of Alan, myself and James Shockley in the early morning on the way in to Druid Hills that I wish I could find to post here.

Alan will be missed.

Amy Smith-Barnes

November 25, 2003

Alan was the first person I saw when I drove onto the Oxford College campus as a freshman in 1985. I'll never forget his welcoming smile.

Don McClintock

November 25, 2003

A.P. was a fellow golfer and friend and I have great memories of our trips to Ireland and Scotland. I am very saddened and my prayers are with Alan and his family.

Don McClintock

November 25, 2003

A.P. was a fellow golfer and friend and I have great memories of our trips to Ireland and Scotland. I am very saddened and my prayers are with him and his family.

Kelly Rhiannon Burroughs

November 25, 2003

I was shocked to hear of Alan's passing. My thoughts are with the Palmer family, and Ms. Alison Alderman. I can not begin to imagine what they are going through. Take care, allow others to be your rock, and remember the good times. If Alan had anything... it was boat loads of good times and a spectacular family and loving girlfriend!

Jonathan Borowski

November 25, 2003

There is no way to express how stunned and saddened I am by the news about Alan's passing. He was a terrific guy and I will really miss him.

Sam Mize

November 25, 2003

Alan was always most helpful with I spoke with him on business.

Kelly Littleton

November 25, 2003

Alan, I will never forget your kind heart, your quick wit, and your precious animated face. You truly brought joy and happiness to many people; you gave me love of life and feelings that I never could have imagined feeling. You always told me that it was amazing how things worked out in life and how you meeting me was just one of many things, and I would respond everything happens for a reason. I know God intended us to meet, you always told me that you never worried about us because we had plenty of time and that you believed in us. Now our time together is gone, but believe me when I say I will never forget you, you will always be apart of me and in my heart. There is no one in the world that could ever replace you. To your parents I would like to say what an amazing son you have, he truly touched many lives and you should be proud of how great he was. He influenced so many lives and his memory will live on and will never be forgotten.

Gaye and Charles Kitchen

November 25, 2003

Prayers fron the Kitchen household are with the Palmers at this time.

Barbara & Noel wildman

November 25, 2003

Barb and Noel send their prayers to the Palmer family with great love.

Steve Burk

November 25, 2003

Denial then shock! Alan was special and will live long in our memories!

Kelly Wilmot

November 25, 2003

We were very shocked and saddened to hear about Alan. Our deepest sympathies go out to your family.

Renee (Long) Grubbs

November 25, 2003

Alan and I were in school together at Oxford and Emory. We have continued to run into one another in our neighborhood periodically since then. He was such a wonderful person to know. I'll never forget his quick wit and ready smile. He will be missed!

Charles Hicks

November 25, 2003

I knew Alan through East Lake Golf Club, and am shocked and sadded to hear of his death. I will remember all who grieve for him in my prayers.

Smoky Hicks

Kim Rose

November 25, 2003

I am so sorry to hear about Alan's passing. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with the family. I will miss his charming personality. Kim Rose

Patti Cromie

November 25, 2003

We are all saddened by the tragic loss of Alan. To know him was to love him; he was a credit to his industry and we were blessed by his friendship. Our deepest sympathy to his wonderful family and friends; he will be truly missed by all...

All your friends and business associates at..

A A LaRocco & Associates, Inc.

Bill Jackson

November 25, 2003

The Palmer Family, words seem so inadequate at a tragic time like this. Be assured of our concern and prayers for you.

Of all of Jennifer's high school friends Alan was certainly one of my favorites. He was always fun to be around, always polite and respectful and such a fine person. It is so difficult to imagine the extent of your pain and sorrow. Our children are so important to us. Blessings and peace.

Bill Jackson, father of Jennifer Jackson Queen

Eddie Owen

November 25, 2003

My best and fondest memories of my friend are based on AP's ability to brighten a room with his presence. AP lived fully every minute of his life. He loved life and shared that with those around him. My children loved AP as much as I did. I wish they could have had the opportunity to know AP as well as I did. If it is in you to doubt the existence of something higher and greater than us, refer to a quote from St. Irenaus, "The glory of God is man fully alive." AP was the living example of the glory of God. AP lives through our memories and our love for him.

Trudy and Jeff Bayman

November 25, 2003

Alan, We'll miss your smile and your hugs - they were the best! You wouldn't want us to cry - you would want us to celebrate all of the joy you had for your friends and all of the joy you had for life. We will - but we will always miss you.

Tom Durrett

November 25, 2003

It is an unfourtunate time when such an amazingly positive, full of life person is suddenly taken from us. The world was indeed a better place with Alan in it. I can truly say I am a better person for knowing Alan.

Frances Wheeler Jones

November 25, 2003

My deepest sadness is felt on the passing on little Alan. I can remember the day that he was born and mother took Gail and I down to Emory Hosptial. Gail and I were unable to read at that time. Mother went back to visit Ms. Mary and Gail and I sat to wait. We saw a huge sign with a bell next to it. We just assumed it must have said ring the bell if you want to see the babies. Well, Gail and I wanted to see the babies so we rang and rang the bell. Needless to say, the message on the sign was, No Bell, babies asleep!

Mother and Daddy are at the beach for the holidays, but I talked to them last night and they have you in their prayers. We lost Jane, my sister last year at the age of 45, so I know mother and daddy can relate to the lost of a child and can help in the difficult days ahead. Know that you will and always been been with us in thought and prayer.

Lovingly,

Frances Wheeler Jones

Bettye Ann Mayfield

November 25, 2003

I am so sorry to hear of Alan's death. He was a very special person and we will all miss him.

Bettye Ann Mayfield

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