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Mary Blair Sams

1937 - 2015

BORN

1937

DIED

2015

Mary Sams Obituary

SAMS, Mary Blair Mary Blair Sams died at her home in Cornwall, Ct., on Friday, Jan. 9, surrounded by her family. She was 77 years old and succumbed to breast cancer. Mary was a psychotherapist in Manhattan for roughly three decades. After closing her practice, she moved full time to Cornwall, where she ran Ballyhack Antiques, specializing in American folk art. For nearly a decade, she gave her time and expertise to Prime Time House, a charity that helps people with mental illness, providing housing and assistance in finding and holding jobs in Litchfield County, Ct. There, and at a related organization, she served as an advisor, then chairperson of the board, co-chair and co-president. Mary was born in Atlanta, Ga., in 1937. She is survived by her two sons, David Armstrong Edelman of McLean, Va., and Jonathan Sams Edelman of New York City and Kent, Ct., and her stepchildren, William K. Rashbaum, Jr. and Sara Phillips, both of New York City. Mary was predeceased by her husband, Dr. William K. Rashbaum, Sr. She also leaves behind two grandchildren, Annabel and Antoine Edelman, and a step-granddaughter, Isabel Phillips. She is also survived by her brother, Robert Sams, Jr., of Decatur, Ga. The family will receive visitors on Saturday, Jan. 17, from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m., at 16 Furnace Brook Road in Cornwall. A memorial service be will held at a future date. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center. Please make checks payable to "MSK," and write "Mary Sams" in the memo section. Send checks to the Office of Development, Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, 633 Third Avenue, 28th Floor, New York, NY 10017. Or go to http://mskcc.convio.net/goto/Mary_Blair_Sams.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Jan. 14, 2015.

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Debbie Pniewski-Dryer

January 17, 2015

Since 1985 Mary "dared to care" so deeply for my family and me and her dedication and commitment to us went far beyond what would be expected. Mary - You were my rock that was always there for me and you guided me through the most difficult times of my life. You always carefully listened to my concerns at any hour of any day and you always provided me with direct and meaningful insights and a comforting perspective on how to overcome the difficulties and challenges I confronted. You will forever be in my heart and you will be deeply missed. On behalf of my family, we express our sincere and deepest sympathy to Mary's family.

January 16, 2015

Our deepesr sympathy and thoughts go out to Mary's family. Grateful for the opportunity to have experienced a wonderful woman and her family for a short measure of time. It was truly apparent she was a woman who left behind a legacy of a life well lived.

Wilma Long & family

January 16, 2015

I AM DEEPLY SADDENED BY THE LOSS OF BELOVED MARY...SHE WAS MY SAVIOR...SHE WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED..
rae pichon

Karen McAuley

January 15, 2015

Mary was a remarkable woman--caring, strong and wonderfully alive. I knew her as David's mother when I taught at Calhoun, and then as a therapist. I cannot tell you how much she meant to me, and will never forget those compassionate eyes.

Kelley Ireland

January 15, 2015

Mary greeted everyone with a warm smile and open heart. After being friends for over 20 years, our annual visits were like we saw each other daily. She was always passionate for her causes and truly made a difference in the lives she touched. We will all miss her. Warm thoughts to her family.

Jim and Estelle Haefele

January 14, 2015

We send our love and sympathy to Mary's family. May her memory be eternal.

brenda stein-ruello

January 14, 2015

mary is and always will be memorable. We were students together at Dana Hall, she from Georgia and me from South
carolina. we were good friends, and I am deeply saddened to
hear of her passing. my thoughts and prayers are with her
loving family. brenda stein ruello

January 14, 2015

I remember Mary quite well. We had a good timeat Sarah Lawrence together. I send sincere sympathy to her family.
Linda Shain Lese

Dale Miller Frehse

January 14, 2015

Mary is a Dana Hall classmate and uniquely wonderful. What an amazingly giving life! So terribly sorry not to have her for many years more.

January 14, 2015

I remember Mary very well. We had a good time together at Sarah Lawrence. My deep sympathy to her family.
Linda Shain Lese

Alan Slawsby

January 14, 2015

As Sheila Slawsby Kowal's brother, I remember Mary very well.

Please accept our family's deep sympathy for your loss.

January 14, 2015

My deepest sympathy to the family over your great loss. May your beautiful memories and God's love bring you comfort and strength. Please remember that the God of all Comfort cares about you - 1 Peter 5 : 7.
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