1948
2017

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Steve Oden
October 25, 2017
I was saddened to hear the news of Phillip's passing. I have known the May family for more than 30 years and first met Phil during dove and deer hunts in the Sawyerville-Greensboro, AL area. Through his brother, Billy May, I kept up with Phil's career. Later, as an electric utility executive working with county and state EMAs on ice storm power restoration efforts, I learned of the great respect that directors and front-line FEMA folks had for him.
This was not exclusively for his administrative abilities. Phil was genuinely concerned for his fellow man, dedicated to marshaling the resources of FEMA in order to help "the least of these, my brethren," who could not help themselves in times of disaster and hardship.
A great man from a fine family who will be missed, he truly demonstrated that love is service, not sentiment.
Drew Seyfried
October 24, 2017
It's hard to express in words the man the Phillip May (uncle Phillip aka uhfu aka uncle little little) was. He was one of the kindest people that anyone is likely to meet. I had the pleasure of having him as an adopted family member for the entirety of my life. He was there for every big events and even a lot of the small ones. He has impacted so many lives not just through his career but also just by being the incredible person that he was. He was family even though we didn't share the last name. Heaven gained an incredible angle and I cannot wait for the day we can talk again. Your presence is deeply missed by many, as evidence of just a few of the lives you have touched that have commented on here. Thank you for always being such a positive influence and role model in my life. You are loved and missed dearly.
JDanny Cooper
October 22, 2017
I met Major when he first arrived on campus at The University of Montevallo. We were from rural Alabama communities, shared common interests and quickly became friends. We volunteered for civic projects, pledged Sigma (now ATO and were initiated into ATO together when the local fraternity went national) and we talked about every thing and any thing that was important and not so important.
During those years, our friendship became one of those rare lifetime experiences. He was my Best Man, confidant and was a fellow Republican (there were very, very few in Alabama at that time). In the 1980 Reagan Campaign we worked together as staff peers and really learned how to overcome monumental odds. The hours were long, there were no weekends and we hammered away. He lived with us in 1980 and for us it was a 24/7 commitment. His ideas were genius. His ability to see them through was remarkable. He never tired.
From 1981 and until his departure, Phil grew professionally to be the most respected, admired and appreciated emergency management leaders nationwide. He gave his life in service to his fellow Americans in their times of greatest need. He led because those working beside him knew they were always doing the right thing when they followed his example. His approach to issues of staggering magnitude was simply to begin taking care of people by taking care of logistics.
At FEMA, Major was the same guy from Sawyerville who had a big smile, hearty laugh and always a keen sense of duty. He lived with us again when in Alabama during a hurricane recovery. His personality never changed. The weighty and awesome decisions he handled were just opportunities to serve people. He loved it. He thrived on it.
My Best Man was my best friend for 50 years. Our two sons loved their uncle Phil. He held them from birth to and through all their life experiences. He was never too far away.
Reading here how much he meant to so many others doesn't surprise me at all. If you knew Phil, you liked him. My heart is pierced with a scar never to heal for the void will never be filled. Our Phil made a difference in our lives.
But this I know. We will see Major Phil May on the other side of this life, for he lived his life the way his parents and family taught him. His faith was solid. His Lord always provided. He claimed the eternal promise that I too will someday claim.
My heart and prayers are with you Billy and Terri and to your special family. Dianne and I love you and we too will carry precious memories of Phil forever.
Peggy Young
October 18, 2017
Phil was dedicated to his profession. I met Phil during his first appointment to FEMA . He was a friend and will be missed.
Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Linda Allison
October 16, 2017
Mr. May was the Regional Director when I went to work at FEMA, Region IV in 1983. He was a great boss, and good friend. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Edgar Torbert
October 15, 2017
My condolences to Billy and all other relatives of Phil. The Mays and Torberts shared many wonderful times in Greensboro, Alabama. Phil brought honor to his family, his hometown and his alma mater University of Montevallo through his career at FEMA and more importantly timely relief to many thousands of people impacted by natural disasters. I deeply regret that I did not reconnect with Phil when I moved to the Atlanta area.
Edgar Torbert
October 15, 2017
My condolences to Billy and all other relatives of Phil. The Mays and Torberts shared many wonderful times in Greensboro, Alabama. Phil brought honor to his family, his hometown and his alma mater University of Montevallo through his career at FEMA and more importantly timely relief to many thousands of people impacted by natural disasters. I deeply regret that I did not reconnect with Phil when I moved to the Atlanta area.
Gary Dinsmore
October 15, 2017
Major was a good friend in whom I am deeply saddened to hear about his passing. I will miss our Uncle Julio lunches immensely. He inspired people to want to do better and provided wise counsel in sharing life experiences. Rest well my friend. Until we meet again.
II Timothy 2:6-9
Hycentha Hodge
October 15, 2017
I met Major in 2015 when I became a homeowner in Vinings Vinyard Condominiums. I became a HOA board member and as such Major (also a board member) and I worked together on a couple of projects; fitness center renovations and replacement of the gas grills. Major was smart and knew how to get things done. He quickly became my go to person in the community. He was kind, compassionate, and always willing to do his very best. Major is an endeared friend and neighbor. His presence is missed so much. Heaven has a new angel. Rest In Peace Major.
Kelly Burkitt
October 14, 2017
Mr. May was kind and thoughtful leader. I truly enjoyed working for him. He will be missed.
Bryan May
October 14, 2017
The May family was blessed by having Phillip among us for 68 years. He was treasured and is treasured. He will not be forgotten.
David Henson
October 13, 2017
I am honored to have known Major over the past 20 years. He was a true friend and always generous of his time for those he cared about. I don't recall a conversation that Major didn't begin with how are you? and how's your mom?. It never mattered that he'd never met my mom. He cared a great deal about family, and that always included his friends and their family.
Major, you brought so much happiness and laughter to so many. I feel very fortunate to have known you and called you a friend. You will be greatly missed.
Jimmy & Avagene Moore
October 12, 2017
We knew Phil as a business associate in the emergency management field and as a friend for many years. May God bless the family in your loss.
Chuck Sanders
October 12, 2017
...rest in peace. We're mourning with our FEMA family and praying for the May family that God will bear all of their burdens.
Margo Marcus
October 12, 2017
Always so happy and friends with everyone, So ful of life and a Great guy will be well missed................. /hugs Major....
Terry Quarles
October 12, 2017
Mr. May (Phil) hired me in 2008 and we became friends and remained so even after he left FEMA. I spoke to him Saturday evening with him updating me about his return for more medical treatment, and as usual he was very positive and upbeat. Phil was a good man that was well respected in the Emergency Management Community and he will be missed....rest in peace!
Kathy Kilcrease
October 12, 2017
What a difference you made in so many lives. You always brightened any room that you walked into and truly cared about people. Your laughter will always be remembered and I will continue to wear Ugly Christmas Sweaters and dancing Christmas Hats in your memory so that you can continue your laughing in Heaven! You made a difference in my life and thanks for always encouraging me and Believing in me! We will always love and miss you, Mr. May!
Gail Hales
October 11, 2017
Such a gentleman, always concerned about others.
May you Rest In Peace, you will be remembered. Condolences to your family.
Jeff Steele
October 11, 2017
You are loved my friend... you are missed my friend... Thank You Friend I never came to you, my friend, and went away without some new enrichment of the heart; More faith and less of doubt, more courage in the days ahead. And often in great need coming to you, I went away comforted indeed. How can I find the shining word, the glowing phrase that tells all that your love has meant to me, all that your friendship spells? There is no word, no phrase for you on whom I so depend. All I can say to you is this, God bless you precious friend. - Grace Noll Crowell
David Paulison
October 11, 2017
Rest In Peace, my friend. Your impact on the emergency management community will carry on for a very long time.
Helen aka Rose Housand
October 11, 2017
After 37 years together, you are still in my heart. A final passage can never erase a beautiful memory, a moment of laughter and joy shared. You will always be in my heart, loved and respected for all the world to see. Major Nash and I love you dearly now and forever.
Robert Latham
October 11, 2017
The emergency management community has lost a good friend. Phil was a dear friend, mentor and dedicated public servant that made a difference in every event he was involved. He will be missed by all that knew him.
Bill Carwile
October 11, 2017
Phil was a good friend and colleague. When I was working in Region IV he always made me feel like part of the team. From HQs, he was always responsive and supportive of all we were trying to accomplish. His passing is a great loss to the emergency management community and his many friends.
Bill Carwile
David & Betsy White
October 11, 2017
We have lost a dearly beloved friend. Major made it his business to see that we, the oldest residents in our building, were doing well, and he was hugely important to the affairs of our whole condominium community. Surely his kindnesses must have affected hundreds, even thousands, of folks wherever he lived or worked. We bless his memory and will miss him every day.
Scott Otts
October 11, 2017
Major was a great neighbor, trusted mentor and dear friend. He will be missed but his impact on many people will live on.
My condolences to his family.
Jackie Reginello
October 11, 2017
Our deepest condolences to the family and friends of Mr. May. We love him and he will be missed. Jackie and Bob
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